posted October 22, 2014 11:18 AM            

Will my current path (both romantically and career) bring me happiness?

What does H need from me to express my affections (love devotion)

Does H have intentions of a long term committed relationship?

posted October 22, 2014 12:31 PM            

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Originally posted by tphoenix5:
Proud leo if you could give me your birth details, I can exchange... \

T

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posted October 22, 2014 02:09 PM            

Yes, I will look into that book, I have a friend with a well stocked astrology library.

let me get to proudleo.

posted October 22, 2014 02:16 PM            

Well you and H. You two have a lot of similarities to be a year apart and alot of differences. H hides his hidden disappointment but somewhere beneath the surface it looms... NOT about you... about life itself. He got to earth and wondered what all the fuss was about... (if his birthtime is correct?).... You, on the other hand, are all out there. Hands down... leo ... your moniker proudleo... I get it now... And this is different from H in so many many ways. Things feel very restrictive for H and I think he is plodding along right now with little expectations... Next year will feel lighter for the both of you......You have had Saturn (gosh, I feel like I only talk about saturn but I was looking to why the gloom and doom and BAM) there is was... so now that saturn is going into your first house... you are going to be busy. Do not look to the old astrology books that says you will be depressed because most times I find that you take on more responsibility and sometimes even lose weight.,

posted October 22, 2014 02:46 PM            

As for your fella... nice sort, but business is the key to success with this guy. You have aced the business side of the house and can show him a thing or two. Though he is older than you ... in the business field, its all new territory. He may be successful but he does not have your savvy. As to whether you two will marry is very difficult for me to say. I will look at composite later for more infor but right now you have a bit to teach each other. Not only in physical ways.

posted October 23, 2014 09:25 AM            

will me and john end up living together and/or getting married to each other?

we're both going through a divorce from other people right now and have been dating other people, but i'm wondering if we'll narrow it all down to each other over time.

thanks.

now i will take a look at your question.

hi, i need help with this one with regards to compatibility and anything else you can tell me.
i will be happy to exchange and return the favor. thanks.

mine:
10/8/1968 @ 11:35 am
knoxville,tn

his:
1/21/1964 @ 7:02 am
charlotte,nc

i'm seeing so far:

saturn sextile saturn

no mars / saturn contacts

ic conjunct sun/moon midpoint

ic conjunct moon

venus opposed mars

moon conjunct saturn

sun trine uranus

uranus conjunct mars

sun sign trine sun sign

pluto conjunct mars

north node conjunct jupiter

venus conjunct neptune

my part of destiny at 21 aquarius is conjunct his saturn at 22' aquarius

his part of destiny, part of desire, part of benefic change is conjunct my part of partners at 31 degrees gemini

i see neptune is moving into conjunction with his midpoint

i see jupiter will be in hard aspect to his midpoint on october 8th, 2015, at 0' orb, which is my birthday

saturn will be square his midpoint around new years eve of 2015,
uranus will be semi-square to his midpoint in june of 2017

jupiter will be sesqui-square his midpoint around october 8th of 2017
uranus will be in hard aspect to my midpoint in feb. 2016 and i've had some recent hard aspects to my midpoints

our composite midpoint will be activated pretty much the same time as our midpoints from what i can see

posted October 23, 2014 09:30 AM            

for your second question i got 7 of cups. i interpret this to mean you need to "let go" get lost in fantasy, and enjoy more.

posted October 23, 2014 09:58 AM            

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Originally posted by sunnybunny:
tphoenix, a marriage aspect does not mean you have to be heterosexual, it can indicate a serious relationship such as the decision to live together, so midpoints are still useful for you hon. have a great day !

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posted October 23, 2014 11:26 AM            

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Originally posted by tphoenix5:
Proudleo,

Again, I stand behind you are very different people but yes, I find mars or venus in cancer (and I was a wild one for years) to be the ultimate as far as sex goes.. But I have pisces in mars... and venus in virgo... and most venus in virgo adhere to strict cleanliness rules... So, if you want to initiate sex, ask him to take a shower or bath with you... when the kids are not around... Again, if you ever get to his core, you will see he suffers from being disappointed this lifetime and I do not think it is the type of disappointment that can be cured. Its a karmic thing.T

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I already get the cleanliness thing...he says baths are gross lol. And I also get the disappointment thing...I can feel the energy of his disappointments in life that may be why he is taking such a sensible, slow, and tender approach to our relationship. He says he wants a best friend and a chance at being a good husband someday....but I think at the same time he is very scared of getting too close. I don't want to push him away but I don't know how to get close. It feels like he cuts off emotionally from time to time and he looked me right in the eyes and said "I don't know how I'm doing that". He loves spending time with the children...especially my son...but he is like a buddy. Actually, I think inwardly he is very vulnerable like a child and he feels most at peace with no pressure, no strife, and he's happy to be at home just lounging around and enjoys the kids. He does like to help with things around the house sometimes. I, on the other hand, am rarely a lounger...I am always busy doing something...my sag moon? Maybe....maybe I think too much into things. I'm just trying to figure out what he needs from me and if this is going to be a potential long term relationship. I know he treads safely at my house because my separation/divorce is still very recent and my kids are still pretty young. He says he cares and loves the kids and I and wants to be a good role model but I don't know if he really even knows how to do that. I'm so confused