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GoingDutch
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posted October 22, 2014 09:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GoingDutch     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted October 23, 2014 03:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The only 2 things I'd worry about is the Aries mixing with Taurus (for some reason many people can react poorly to it, even Linda Goodman mentioned that admitting she wasn't sure why) and that someone who is Libra tends to "balance the scales" which means can debate for the fun of it, and the Taurus ASC could really make him stick to whatever contrary thing he says...and that might not go over well with your Cancer (I assume you're a Cancer sun and merc) which tends to be dogmatic and easily upset by disagreement.

Other than that I think the potential is good...well when so many things are in synch it can create hate as well as love but given that he's been chasing you and you're obviously interested (to say the least) in him then I'm assuming the combination is good in this case rather than alienating.

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posted October 23, 2014 04:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GoingDutch     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted October 23, 2014 04:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GoingDutch     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted October 23, 2014 04:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GoingDutch     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted October 23, 2014 04:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Libra and Pisces generally go well together, though sometimes Libra's seeming detachment and playful contrariness can be hard for Pisces to handle while Libra can find Pisces a bit too dreamy (both can be indecisive, too, though they can help each other in this if approached right). His other placements suggest one who is traditional in love, old school romantic, and that looks as if it would mesh well with you, and he should be willing to put in a lot of effort to do right by you but he'll have equally high standards for you...but it looks like you might be able to live up to them with little trouble, unless he thinks you spend too much time with your friends (your Gemini moon, which he'd have a hard time understanding).

He'll also be critical at times (both his Venus and his Mars combined) and his feelings can be easily hurt (Pisces moon)...not sure how it would mix with your Scorpio Mars, that could either help (by countering some of your Gemini and Aquarius energy to give him the closeness he craves) or could make you harshly critical of him in turn, be it sex or even material needs (though he'll try to provide, but people from impoverished backgrounds rarely rise far above them, at least not for a long time).

Astrology is potential, it can evolve so that the energy manifests in mostly positive ways or be poisoned so it manifests in mostly destructive ways, and everything in between. I'm just giving a general view.

ETA: I'm going to bed now, and as I got plans for tomorrow I doubt I'll be on LL long enough to visit this forum tomorrow.

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posted October 23, 2014 04:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GoingDutch     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted October 23, 2014 04:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GoingDutch     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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If you could provide the degrees of his and your placements, it would be nice to look at what aspect you make to eachother.... right now its very basic!

But generally on the libra sun + pisces moon guy - dont you just think they are like a sweet prince out of a fairytale? Maybe it is just me, but these guys are just extremely NICE. I'm sure they make a good and loving husband, you should be aware that this is the kind of guy who is always VERY romantic and kind, and does his very best to please you. Both libra and pisces are pleasing and kind energy. And both are charming too.

I could personally not wish for a better combo for a man, cause if you are the independent kind of woman, you will really like this combo in a guy, because he gives you so much personal freedom. He might be a bit clingy at first, but a pisces moon also like their own space, and they are never jealous. Pisces and libra are both signs that are great at backing you up with anything you do, so this is the guy that will stand by your side like a solid rock!

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posted October 23, 2014 05:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GoingDutch     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted October 25, 2014 03:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by GoingDutch:
traditional love and old school romantic, Where in his placement planets did you see this? like under which planet placement?

Sun in Libra can lean that way and moon in Pisces can be dreamy (which MAY include dreams of old school romance), but I wouldn't call either placement old school. What directs the sun and moon in this case is his Taurus ASC and placements along with Virgo Venus & Mars.

But I'd be a bit wary of the Taurus Lilith mixed with Scorpio Saturn (which is probably where his "hot temper" can come from as these guys can lash out if they feel hurt or that they've been wronged) because one manifestation when not evolved is is likes to control by "keeping" a woman, that is through finances, and old school romantic paradigms make that easy. If evolved then it just makes him determined, if not so evolved then once he has you then he may try to assert a lot more control than he does before he feels you're fully in his power. Neptune in Capricorn can also lean that way. It doesn't mean he is this way, it's just something to watch out for.

That said, Libra sun/Pisces moon don't necessarily have multiple relationships at the same time as the other placements also matter and affect the others. He's got enough fixed and stable placements that should make him a lot more steadfast and devoted...and one advantage of a guy who doesn't have a lot of money is that he can't really afford to be dating more than one woman at a time.

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posted October 25, 2014 10:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Given his Libra, Taurus, Scorpio, Cap and even Virgo (a lot more horny than many give this sign credit for) I expect his sex drive is going to be high. But being into old school romance he likes that you're passive, so if you're receptive (that is can tolerate the sex even when you're not in the mood) then this shouldn't be a big deal and may even be useful if he's selfish/shortsighted like many men in bed. OTOH, if you think you'll push him away when not in the mood then don't let romance blossom and make sure he understands there is no chance of you two being a couple, it will hurt him less than your rejecting his sexual advances (always take reasonable precautions against violence).

Aries has a lot of fire while Leo probably won't have patience for Pisces. Scorpios and Pisces can understand each other but some Scorpio can have a lot of control issues. Btw, see the 7 signs of Scorpio as this is an excellent example of how a sign can manifest in different ways:
http://hubpages.com/hub/The-7-Symbols-of-a-Scorpio

And no, this guy isn't sure to cheat on you just because you go Dutch. Nor does a 5H Mars means he's destined to cheat. One placement doesn't define a person all by itself, and again, signs can evolve to emphasize the positive and be poisoned until only the negative is left. Astrology isn't super simple.

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posted October 25, 2014 10:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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And what do you think about dating a guy who is in the same neighborhood/town as you? Isn't it kind of awkward? Due to the close distance. I pretty much know his family and all, it just plain out weird.

I think that's the norm. Most people who date do live in the same town at least and also the same neighborhood (or go to the same school, college, church, etc). I actually find your question weird.

But you might be reassured to know that if a man is introducing you to his family and church then he is almost certainly committed to you rather than playing you. Men who intend to use you and lose you or otherwise play the field typically try to keep such women out of his personal life where it could embarrass or inconvenience him at church and home, and furthermore if he's bringing all his dates around his family and friends then there's too big a chance that someone will let it slip. Likewise, it becomes harder to cheat if you're practically next door neighbors (with the notable exception of prostitution).

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posted October 25, 2014 11:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GoingDutch     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted October 26, 2014 04:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GoingDutch     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted October 26, 2014 01:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Geeky     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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I'm 30, and he 29, yet we still stuck in the hood. he works in warehouse and i work in retail, we pretty much stuck, lol

I know it's not astrology related, but I grew up in what people would call "the hood" and you can leave. I feel so sad when people feel stuck. The walls are invisible.

However, you have to be willing to leave any family/friend attachments you have (and most people won't do that). It's not easy, but you can work retail and warehouse ANYWHERE.

If you have an adventurous spirit, save up some change and then pack up your car and roll out of there when you have plenty of gas money.

I didn't have a car, so I literally packed two suitcases & left everything else to goodwill. I spent my last $ on a plane ticket and an "extended stay" hotel to sleep at while I looked for a job and the only reason I had that money is because of my tax return.

I know that sounds insane, but it worked. You just have to be okay with maybe sleeping in your car for a night and maybe things being a little rough until you get settled. But you CAN leave.

Don't give up. You're still young enough until the day you die.

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posted October 26, 2014 01:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Geeky     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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I want to be SURE before I put myself into this, becuz it going to be an interacial relationship, I'm Asian-American, and he African-American, sorry for throw the race out there, but I just want to get a better picture of why all my hesitation. It won't be easy due to culture differences, it NOT easy basic as if love is all you need, if you know what i mean.

No, it won't always be easy. But no matter WHO you end up with (whatever color of the rainbow), people will talk crap about it because unhappy people are the ones that will bother you. Happy people (people happy in their own lives) have nothing to say about something so trivial as what your skin tone is.

Haters will be haters no matter what... might as well go for what makes YOU happy!

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posted October 26, 2014 01:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Geeky     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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One last concern I have though, can you give me your advice on this.
You right about his "temper", he sure have a temper, not to me yet, but I can see it when he around his guys friends. I can see the real self of him, thanks to the close distance.
I don't know if it have anything to do with him growing up in the ghetto, so he learn all the "street smart" to use it to protect himself. He have a past of fighting in his younger days, like he would jump in a fight with other guys if neccessary to save himself.

I know this is strange for a Libra to acts like this, but he does this stuff, I can't explain why use astrology, I can only blame it on his environment and childhood background, maybe he African-american so he more on the aggresive side?

Should his "temper" be something I should be worried that he might be violent/abusive with me later on?


Growing up in a rough environment will harden you. I was once a wild cat, ready to rip someone's face off with my claws if they looked at me cross. Moving away from that calmed me down.

It's hard to be relaxed when everything around you is chaotic. I absolutely think it's environment.

However, saying someone is more aggressive because of their race is not a good idea. Not only is it untrue, but it can be very hurtful to others because those stereotypes are hurtful.

I think Mars (astrology) is a big part but I believe very strongly that environment is a bigger indicator of one being aggressive or not. It's all about what you learn. If you learn that you have to be ready to kick someone's ass to survive, you're always going to be ready to fight.

Make sense?

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posted October 26, 2014 02:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GoingDutch     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted October 26, 2014 04:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GoingDutch     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted October 26, 2014 06:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Geeky     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Geeky, if you reading this, reply me okay. I feel that you might misunderstand some points, cuz you don't know the situation i am in.
happy halloween to you. thank you for your advice

I understand more than you know. I'm working today, not much time to chat.

Real quick - I didn't have good parents. My mom is a drug addict and my dad is an alcoholic. Haven't seen my mom in 19 years now. No one handed me anything... I worked very hard. Was homeless. Slept in my car, etc. etc.

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posted October 26, 2014 09:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes I'm a Libra, though on the Scorpio cusp (with Jupiter in Scorpio along with a few asteroids). And it's a stellium. My moon is in the 5H Sag stellium (I also have a Leo ASC while the 5H also has Leo energy).

Libras are about balance, and when the scales are out of balance they can become monsters (usually they're just depressed, but other factors matter, for example a Libra I've known with a Pisces moon living in a violent area became violent himself as his Pisces moon absorbed the psychic atmosphere but still tried to be as "fair" as he could, though of course it was fair to hit someone who had hit him). Libras range from asexual to hypersexual, I think the other placements as well as environment matters. I made a guess based on both his behavior as you've shared it AND his various placements.

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