posted October 29, 2014 02:11 AM            

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Originally posted by BellaFenice:
Would anyone be interested in exchanging 5 readings (whatever you prefer to do) for 5 tarot readings?

Maybe exchange emails if you want a faster response from me.

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posted October 29, 2014 02:15 AM            

1) When will I get rid of Karma in my life?
2) What is the connection of me and 'Ab'?
3) 'D' is my best friend. How does 'D' feel about me?
4) I have strange visions of 'ap' my past love who also was a soulmate. It's haunting how i keep getting these visions about 'ap'. I really want to bury past in past, why is it chasing me. I want to let go of it. Please help here.
5) will I be a good wild life photographer?

Answer when you've time. Post your questions

posted October 29, 2014 03:19 AM            

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Originally posted by BellaFenice:
1) What are my life karma/lessons? (inspired by yours )

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I think the life lesson you have is to take the changes occuring in your life more generously. You are a person who has immense philanthropy in your being but you also tend to avoid changes. Once you learn to readily accept the life changes coming your way, you'll be a lot more at peace with yourself and your life.

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2) Give me a general overview for the month of November.

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6 of cups reversed and Page of pentacles reversed.

In the month of november appears you have to let go of the perceptions you've been building in the past for yourself. It seems there are some pleasant past memories that are holding you, but they are gone. That was a world that seems to be loosing it's luster in future for you.

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3) Is A is still planning to move to my town? (just a friend)

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2 of Cups and Page of Cups reversed.
Well Bella what's cooking here. It's a soul mate card for sure 'A' is looking forward to unifying with you, or at least moving to your city. But there are some immature blocks that are creating issues for both of you to be more open and acknowledge or discuss things between you two.

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4) Why didn't X go the wedding? He is really good friends with the bride, so it was shocking he wasn't there to celebrate.

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High Priestess and Death.

Both are cards of change. This denotes that 'X' was having trouble accepting to let go of his dear friend. If he was a good friend worries of 'holding on' could have been a big issue. He could have secret feelings for her.

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5) General advice for everyday life

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5 of swords and Sun reversed.

It seems you've been through a turbulent experience in the past lately, but things are really bright on the other end. The Sun denotes that positivity is about to shine in your life. Just accept it with an open heart because things will definitely change for better. Advice- Keep sharing a part of your wisdom with other and Sun will bless you with more.

posted October 29, 2014 08:33 PM            

2) Could you clarify this? I'm not sure what you are saying here.

3) 2 of Cups is can be a soulmate card, but it can also be platonic. A has always liked me, but I just don't feel anything past a friendship level. We do have some unresolved communication issues and discussing things because A is a little passive aggressive at times.

4) You picked up on the letting go thing- so my friend has always secretly liked X. X is a little arrogant and self-centered, and I feel he didn't treat her the way he deserved. I think death is a sign their friendship has changed for the worse. Didn't ask her about it b/c it was her day but there had to be a fallout I wasn't aware of.

5) Spot on. It has been tough, and hopefully it does turn around soon like you predicted.

posted October 30, 2014 12:50 AM            

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2) Could you clarify this? I'm not sure what you are saying here.

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3) 2 of Cups is can be a soul mate card, but it can also be platonic. A has always liked me, but I just don't feel anything past a friendship level. We do have some unresolved communication issues and discussing things because A is a little passive aggressive at times.

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Could you sense his passive aggressiveness is because of unreciprocated feeling.

posted October 30, 2014 02:01 AM            

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Originally posted by thequeen:
My 5 Questions are:

[b]1) When will I get rid of Karma in my life?

King of Cups
The Emperor

Do you have trouble controlling your emotions or expressing them? The K o C is a message to not to make run away from emotions and start trusting your intuition. You don't lose your power (The Emperor) by opening up and showing affection. Be secure in who you are and learn to relax a little- can't always sit on the throne.

2) What is the connection of me and 'Ab'?

The Tower
9 of Cups

Fated. Fate. Fate. This is a connection beyond your control- perhaps it is a little scary because you know Ab can seriously change your life. This is actually a karmic connection, and again, you are learning about emotional reassurance and feeling comfortable. Not a soulmate or marriage person, but you will learn a lot on sharing and opening up emotionally.

3) 'D' is my best friend. How does 'D' feel about me?

King of Wands
7 of Swords

Clarifier: Judgement

D feels you are an exciting, bold, passionate, and most likely impulsive person who knows how to enjoy life. D also sees another side of you- D feels you aren't completely open (perhaps communicating how you feel) about aspects of your life. I feel this is also an indicator that his thoughts on you are starting to change. You make him feel a little less confident and vulnerable- this what is keeping him from making a 'judgement' and telling you how he really feels (7 of Swords- hiding a -Judgement-declaration- of passion-K of W).

4) I have strange visions of 'ap' my past love who also was a soulmate. It's haunting how i keep getting these visions about 'ap'. I really want to bury past in past, why is it chasing me. I want to let go of it. Please help here.

6 of Wands
7 of Swords

Clarifier: Q of W

Realize your worth and the happiness you deserve- you have to make the choice to be confident and push yourself to try new things and take on challenges. You can be confident and fulfilled without him, but you have to stop putting 'ab' on a pedestal (6 of Wands)- realize you are a prize too. Protect your creativity and dreams- by focusing more on you, the pain will go away.

5) will I be a good wild life photographer?

Temperance
The High Priestess

Clarifier: The Devil

Be prudent and realistic- there are details and circumstances that you are not fully aware of or need to sort out before choosing this route. Make sure your plan and goals are for good reasons- there is a lot of risk and potential danger in this job. A lot of ego as well you may clash with. So you probably feel that this would be a good job for you, but the Devil is a warning you may become consumed by the nature of the job.

Answer when you've time. Post your questions

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posted October 30, 2014 05:06 PM            

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Originally posted by tgem:
Would you be interested in exchanging horary for tarot? I can do horary charts for you horary works best with yes/no questions, feelings between two people, lost items etc. "why" questions are tough though...

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posted October 30, 2014 05:25 PM            

I will be back to answer your question- sorry to hear about your hair pulling.

posted October 31, 2014 12:13 AM            

Clarifier: 8 of Wands

posted October 31, 2014 07:38 PM            

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Originally posted by tgem:
Ok well I can't a whole lot about your your future partner but I believe I can tell a couple of things. First, his sig is the sun which is sitting in Scorpio so I do believe he'll either be a Scorpio or quite Plutonian. Given that the moon is in your 12th and the sun trines neptune, he could have some Piscean traits as well. ..or at least have a good amount of neptune. POF is in your 3rd which rules neighbors and your neighborhood. So that might be a clue as to where he might pop up. It would make sense with what you were told about being someone you know. Does any of this resognate?

Thanks for the reading...I'm going to try and work on a plan..I desperately want to cure myself of this STUPID habbit..it's all the air in my chart..I'm pretty high strung.

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Neptunian? Eek!! Is the 3rd house count as communication as well? I guess the only thing that doesn't fit is being someone from my past, since no one from my past lives in my city right now. Who knows, maybe I'm in for a surprise.

Have you ever tried therapy? EFT I hear works really well if you are able to put in the time. Just try to research stress-relaxing techniques too. Of course this is easier for me to say since I don't have OCD, but hang in there.

posted November 01, 2014 09:13 PM            

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Originally posted by tgem:
Thanks ill definitely look into EFT!
Ok next question: why is J playing mind games with me about his girlfriend KC?

What's yours?

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4 of Cups
Strength
The Devil

posted November 02, 2014 02:48 PM            

It literally is a "test of your strength" because J is trying to make you jealous or feel upset- basically he wants to have control over you emotionally even though you two are calling it quits.

posted November 02, 2014 05:06 PM            

That reading TOTALLY fits...the fact that it is a test of my "strength" definitely resonates...how ridiculous...who is it affecting the most? Our son...hence why I have NO 2nd thoughts about taking this man back!! Thank you!! This was always my gutt feeling as well.

What's interesting about the cards that were pulled (especially the 4 of cups) is that he must be bored and unfulfilled in his current relationship to spend so much time trying to get a rise out of me...I don't know, this points to an emotional attachment he is not over...would you agree or am I off in left field somewhere? Just trying use common sense in response to the cards that were pulled.

posted November 02, 2014 06:26 PM            

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Originally posted by tgem:
Yeah, feel free to cast another horary for me to interpret

That reading TOTALLY fits...the fact that it is a test of my "strength" definitely resonates...how ridiculous...who is it affecting the most? Our son...hence why I have NO 2nd thoughts about taking this man back!! Thank you!! This was always my gutt feeling as well.

What's interesting about the cards that were pulled (especially the 4 of cups) is that he must be bored and unfulfilled in his current relationship to spend so much time trying to get a rise out of me...I don't know, this points to an emotional attachment he is not over...would you agree or am I off in left field somewhere? Just trying use common sense in response to the cards that were pulled.

Ok so question #3: if I am being tested, how do I pass the test? As in, what do my spirit guides say is the best way to vindicate myself from his selfish/controlling mind games?

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No. I would agree. And it also shows his self-centeredness, as he isn't thinking about how this could impact your son. He is unsatisfied and insecure, which is a big part of the 4 of Cups. Never emotionally satisfied, and yeah he is not fully over your relationship. I would say it is also a test of strength because the reasons for his current relationship are questionable and maybe not of a fulfilling nature. More like a "look what I have and you don't" sort of petty thing.

posted November 02, 2014 10:45 PM            

Clarifier: 6 of Cups

posted November 04, 2014 01:07 AM            

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Hanged Man
The Moon
Death/Rebirth

Clarifier: 6 of Cups

Sit on it and wait it out- things will figure themselves out soon. Your best reaction is NO reaction, because if you let your emotions (The Moon) get involved, you will fall right into his trap. Meditate and reflect- sometimes the best answers are within ourselves. Just focus on you, the rest will fall into place. If you refuse to play a part of his chess game, ultimately you will get stronger and see a transformation (death/rebirth) to where his mind games no longer affect you. Allow yourself to be happy because J doesn't want you to be- take the high road.

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posted November 04, 2014 08:08 PM            

Hopefully things turn around soon, I'm starting to get bitter and sad about it.

I haven't been in a divorce situation, but I have been in plenty of situations where people try to antagonize or bother me for a reaction. Class A narcissists do that: they need attention for validation and to prove they are 'superior' to you, will go out of their way to put you down. The best reaction is no reaction because it is cutting of their lifeline. Let them rant, badger, gloat, or whatever, juju will get them eventually. Focus on the good things, and good will come back to you.