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posted October 30, 2014 06:49 PM            

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hello there, what's new with you?

I'm saddened over fille, she was a good friend.

would you exchange with me?

I'd like to know, now that I'm not really seeing anybody, if I need to be prepared to be single for a while or not. I feel like I've learned a lot about relationships this past year, and I'd like to have something meaningful and significant. But I think I can learn to accept that the timing isn't right now.

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posted November 01, 2014 11:52 AM            

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bump for T

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posted November 03, 2014 10:24 AM            

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I am very sad over Fille. I think you will see someone new come in very soon. I mean the timing is really not right (IMO) for a lot of people with Jupiter squaring Saturn by sign. Saturn will move into Sag and I like that energy better for meeting people. People are too ready to have a date and then marry or just the opposite in the sign of Scorpio. So, I give it until January of next year and it will be time to meet someone new. I think you should not prepare to be single but to be happy to be single. Once we accept our status we can move forward with it. We can use the time to read the books, see the movies, and other things that when we are in a relationship we say we are going to do but don't because we put the other person needs on a continuum and it just does not get done. Use this time like that. That hobby you be wanting to try.. the new cards you have been thinking of learning... All of it comes down to one thing..,.. do it now and someone will be in your life before you know it. Sorry, I did not see this post. I have been offline a lot since Fille. I read and re-read everything I posted for her to determine why I could not see ... what I saw was wonderful and I want to believe where she is... is just that... wonderful!!!

T

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posted November 03, 2014 12:54 PM            

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Bump for bird.

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posted November 03, 2014 02:20 PM            

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T, I'm sorry to hear you have been struggling to sort out what happened. It is really interesting, because I felt like her life had so much inertia and hope. It's hard to reconcile.

thanks for the reading T, I appreciate it so much...I think you're right about me needing to be happy single. I just feel sort of restless about some things that happened last year in my first relationship and I find them hard to shake. It's as if I feel the need to somehow fix the wrongs of that relationship by experiencing a healthy relationship. Like things are out of balance...I don't know how to describe it.

I'm curious about your comment about Saturn in Sag, as Sag is my sun and Saturn sign. 2016 will be my Saturn return. my Sun/Saturn sit close to my DSC. It would seem that all of this would mean that Saturn in Sag will be bad for me and relationships? I mean it has been transiting my 6th house for a while but it's moving towards this complex DSC/Sun/Saturn axis in my chart. What do you think? Would Saturn in Sag/6th be a bad thing for me come January?

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posted November 04, 2014 06:51 AM            

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Aw.. the ole saturn return. I feared it with all my being. And btw I have Saturn in Sag too... This will be my second saturn return... But back to the first. ... I met someone had a wonderful relationship... quit my partying ways... and I had some partying ways...There were children to the mix...Usually when saturn hits the 6th house... you feel more attuned to watch your health needs. You take on a routine that you can do most any day... (usually incorporating exercise or some kind of yoga... thing) and when it comes to relationships... well, you will be so busy with your routine and work and etc... that the person swoops in... and thar ya go!

no, really!

And I felt that Fille was going to have the best year ever and maybe she is... just not here.. on this plane.

Be Well Little Sag.

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posted November 04, 2014 02:52 PM            

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Little bird sag!

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posted November 04, 2014 04:31 PM            

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thank you T! I'm hoping for good things from Saturn in Sag, although I don't think I want children this soon!

It's funny because I did start doing Yoga a few months ago and my health has been iffy for a while. Trying to figure out the secret sauce to getting it in balance.

<3 TBird

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posted November 04, 2014 04:38 PM            

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I did not have children they did... but thats a whole other story. I think if you put in the work... saturn pays off big... Look at how many successful and wonderful capricorns there are ... and it rules their lives... One of the women I pattern my life after is a capricorn... She truly has a wonderful spirit... and she is always saying... do what you are responsible for and the joy will come.. and IT DOES... But saturn can be doubly harsh if you try to do something outside of your inner most good. So, I think I can safely say you are in luck... Be good, my friend. Thank you for keeping Fille alive... I do hope she is having a great time wherever her soul is residing now.

T

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posted November 06, 2014 10:35 AM            

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hey again, T.

My ex-bf has been hovering a lot - I saw him yesterday and it appeared he was going to approach me but then he backed off and walked away. He is so passive...I keep wondering when he's actually going to get the guts to be direct with me.

But...I'm also terrified because our rship was so unhealthy...he's the one I mentioned earlier in this thread.

what does he want from me? is he really going to reach out, finally?

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