posted November 03, 2014 04:42 PM            

Ok, so it feels there is a conflict but it more so is because both are equal in temperament. Both think they are right, it more so seems an ego conflict. 'E' to me appears as a very balanced and disciplined lady who is also very attractive. While 'A' seems a little careless, but stubborn. This is leading to conflict between them, however, it doesn't seem likely that they are in relationship. 'E' is a very tempting person who attracts 'A' but when together ego issues might come up that are not easy to resolve. Thus there is lot of hindrance between them, it seems like, 'Cant live with you, can't live without you, but more so, can't live with you.'

hope this resonated

posted November 04, 2014 08:29 AM            

What would you like to ask next? Sorry I did not check the other thread so I dont know what you want to ask now.

I have another one, if its ok.

posted November 04, 2014 08:45 AM            

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Originally posted by intuitivefish:
Thank you that resonates very much!

What would you like to ask next? Sorry I did not check the other thread so I dont know what you want to ask now.

I have another one, if its ok.

- When my temporary contract ends, do you see me get a permanent position or do you see me at a new job?

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Hey great to see you

Of course will be right back.
Do you think my mother will ever be a world traveller. lol

Will be right back with the answer

posted November 04, 2014 08:53 AM            

I got Devil, Page of cups, Sun rx, 5 of cups rx, 7 of cups rx.

I don't think you'll be quitting your job. You're most definitely lured into continuing the same. You pretty much don't have much idea about which way you are going, but you'll definitely get a promotion in the present job. Seems like though delusional you'll be continuing with this job. Also does it seem to you that you lack the clarity to switch to another job. You're comfortable here, or even if not comfortable, you're not going to change jobs

posted November 04, 2014 09:07 AM            

true though, I want to change but I am not sure what to right now.

posted November 04, 2014 09:14 AM            

If you've another question post it

posted November 04, 2014 09:20 AM            

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Originally posted by thequeen:
I dont see firing anywhere in scene. Only there will be lack of clarity, else things will be smooth.
Lol Yes my mom is a very responsible and worry freak. Do you think I will help her in travelling, like take her on trips a lot

If you've another question post it

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I feel you would organise her, give her all the facts, where to eat, what to buy, where to go. I can see you on some trips but I can also see her without you. I feel she might need a few trips with someone and then she would like to venture a bit on her own. I feel she might enjoy trips more planned for her age group, those will make her feel more secure and feel more at ease that all the travel details are how she likes it.
I can even see her go and meet new people.
Some sort of freedom feeling will happen, she will become more relaxed the more she would go.

posted November 04, 2014 09:28 AM            

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Originally posted by intuitivefish:
I feel you would organise her, give her all the facts, where to eat, what to buy, where to go. I can see you on some trips but I can also see her without you. I feel she might need a few trips with someone and then she would like to venture a bit on her own. I feel she might enjoy trips more planned for her age group, those will make her feel more secure and feel more at ease that all the travel details are how she likes it.
I can even see her go and meet new people.
Some sort of freedom feeling will happen, she will become more relaxed the more she would go.

Do you see me move to a new place ( move out), after I get this more permanent contract?

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The cards don't show me travelling to another city here but you could change your apartment. It will be in the same city but I don't think you'll love it as much. The cards are again pointing towards lack of clarity, are you feeling like you're just drifting without control. Don't worry it'll be great even if you don't like it
Seems like your manager will just tell you what you've to do and you'll be doing it without any thought of your own. You wont enjoy it as much but you'll do the moving out more as an obligation towards your job

Emperor rx, Page of cups rx, Page of pentacles rx, King of swords, Four of wands rx.

Does that resonate

posted November 04, 2014 09:32 AM            

what did you want to ask?

posted November 04, 2014 09:35 AM            

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Originally posted by intuitivefish:
Yup! resonates a lot
Yes I did mean more in the same city, to be closer to work. Thats also pretty much how I feel right now, I am not happy but I do it, its a job.
Right now that is how I feel, lack of clarity on all aspects of my life, like I am a zombie in my own life.

what did you want to ask?

I want to ask, if I were to contact A, what do you see as an outcome?
or what do you see for communication for me and him in general

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My question is do you think I'll gain my lost respect back
Right away with your answer

posted November 04, 2014 09:42 AM            

To me it doesn't seem a good idea contacting 'A'. You're not in love like before but more so you both have moved past that aching phase now. There was a soulmate relation between you but seems you grew apart but your love was definitely of high quality. Even though you're in healing phase seems like you guys found your strength in each other. There could be old issues revived and initially you may find a momentary comfort but it's most suitable to not revive those issues that could cause heartache again. However, even if you talk to 'A' things will move towards end and as I see this will happen before or when you move to your new apartment.

On a general note let me know what happens with your job and 'A'

Hope all this makes sense

posted November 04, 2014 09:42 AM            

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Originally posted by thequeen:
My question is do you think I'll gain my lost respect back
Right away with your answer

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posted November 04, 2014 09:47 AM            

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Originally posted by thequeen:
Lovers rx, Strength, queen of swords, three of swords rx, four of wands rx.

To me it doesn't seem a good idea contacting 'A'. You're not in love like before but more so you both have moved past that aching phase now. There was a soulmate relation between you but seems you grew apart but your love was definitely of high quality. Even though you're in healing phase seems like you guys found your strength in each other. There could be old issues revived and initially you may find a momentary comfort but it's most suitable to not revive those issues that could cause heartache again. However, even if you talk to 'A' things will move towards end and as I see this will happen before or when you move to your new apartment.

On a general note let me know what happens with your job and 'A'

Hope all this makes sense

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Sorry I dont understand " things will move towards end" end of what/when ?
I have no plan for my move right now, so I dont know how this could even be a factor .

posted November 04, 2014 09:53 AM            

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Originally posted by intuitivefish:
Sorry I dont understand " things will move towards end" end of what/when ?
I have no plan for my move right now, so I dont know how this could even be a factor .

Well i dont know how I resonate but thank you

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posted November 04, 2014 09:56 AM            

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Originally posted by thequeen:
Okay just so you bring this up, why cant certain people just leave me alone. When they were not honest to me, why do they expect like they possess me. I mean I have zero obligation towards others. Don't you feel like there are certain people who must instead apologise to me for making a fool out of me? The redemption you see must be because I'm a person of morals, if I'm wrong I'll bow and ask for forgiveness, but if I'm not, hell cares

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Oh God , I tried to reply 3 times and 3 times i closed this instead of another tab!

posted November 04, 2014 09:58 AM            

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Originally posted by thequeen:
I mean the passion's gone. memories are left but passion has gone towards the end means you'll eventually loose interest

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posted November 04, 2014 10:03 AM            

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Originally posted by intuitivefish:
Thank you!
I have no question right now, but if you want to ask more its fine with me, if I get a question down the road I'll ask. But you can go on asking if you want

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Okay, no I don't want them to apologise to me. I just want them to stay out and stop poisoning my life because if they were my well wisher they wouldn't have brought me in this phase and no, I'm not wrong from my side it was all unconditional care and affection, but I'm no one's mother. I need to grow past them and God needs to help me here. I'm done, yes I'm done.

posted November 04, 2014 10:07 AM            

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Originally posted by thequeen:
Okay, no I don't want them to apologise to me. I just want them to stay out and stop poisoning my life because if they were my well wisher they wouldn't have brought me in this phase and no, I'm not wrong from my side it was all unconditional care and affection, but I'm no one's mother. I need to grow past them and God needs to help me here. [b]I'm done, yes I'm done.

Your reading makes me want to kick those people in the face!![/B]

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posted November 04, 2014 10:10 AM            

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Originally posted by thequeen:
My one question is do you think I will go crawling back to any of those people?

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posted November 04, 2014 10:12 AM            

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Originally posted by intuitivefish:

Yes their energy is not so pleasant. I didnt say you were in the wrong, only that they view all your moves are less or negative in their eyes
No, sorry I do not see them stop right away, but I can see the less you show it bothers you the less it will happen

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Hey I am sorry if my last post was rude but their actions sort of enraged me. Do you have any suggestions how should I handle them if they poke again, please help here.

posted November 04, 2014 10:20 AM            

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Originally posted by thequeen:
Hey I am sorry if my last post was rude but their actions sort of enraged me. Do you have any suggestions how should I handle them if they poke again, please help here.

Feel free to ask a question whenever you like

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Its fine, do not worry

posted November 04, 2014 10:25 AM            

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Originally posted by intuitivefish:
Its fine, do not worry

Poker face comes to me, you must stay cold and also keep your calm. I must emphasize to stay calm and collected. You should not react to them in any way. Your reactions is what feeds them and even asking to stop is not good. I would advise full ignoring.

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Thanks intuitivefish may God bless you. Blessings.
I think this discussion however drained me, reminding of those people so I'm off for a while now

Thanks again dearo