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venuscorpio86 Knowflake Posts: 2191 From: salem,or usa Registered: Feb 2011
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posted November 11, 2014 07:15 PM
anyone up for a few exchanges IP: Logged |
luckystar25 Knowflake Posts: 713 From: boston mass Registered: Jan 2014
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posted November 11, 2014 07:18 PM
quote: Originally posted by venuscorpio86: anyone up for a few exchanges
I am...what's by our question..mine is basically is it my fault that RA has been weird? I get nervous easily and have been thinking about a few things that might have triggered his distance, what's your question
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cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 3177 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted November 11, 2014 07:23 PM
1. how will my relationship be with my manager? is she staying and how Long do you see me in the position?2. what's coming up for me in terms of romance? 3. is there going to be anything exciting that's going to be happening for me this upcoming year U have any q's IP: Logged |
venuscorpio86 Knowflake Posts: 2191 From: salem,or usa Registered: Feb 2011
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posted November 11, 2014 07:27 PM
Mine is how did HN feel when he read my message I sent him? Why hasn't he responded?IP: Logged |
venuscorpio86 Knowflake Posts: 2191 From: salem,or usa Registered: Feb 2011
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posted November 11, 2014 08:09 PM
Luckystar Knight of wands- RA does what he wants right now distancing himself from you is what he is doing this imagery is guy riding away. He is so cocky
The lovers- lust and attraction plays apart here and temptation it's all very shallow though. Does he maybe have a gf or someone he dates casually
Ace of swords- I think he maybe trying to cut you off and the hookup based on this sword image . Cut through the craps he feels after being intimate things and the vibe feels complicated weird I think he was just looking to hookup that's it
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venuscorpio86 Knowflake Posts: 2191 From: salem,or usa Registered: Feb 2011
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posted November 11, 2014 08:56 PM
CherfulTemperance- I see that you have a actually pretty well balanced working relationship with her. I think you two are opposites and are able to combine your different strengths to get the job done like ying and yang Ten of pents- I think as you two work together get to know each other more and more I think that you will enjoy working together the job won't seem boring.
Three of pents - I think you two will work together closely as a team withinh your department you had mentioned various changes happening so I think you will be the right hand woman to your manager in helping things run smoothly as well as probably having some seniority over other employees
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cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 3177 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted November 11, 2014 09:03 PM
Ya that sounds about right. Did u ask me is she's a water sign, she is. She's a Pisces quote: Originally posted by venuscorpio86: CherfulTemperance- I see that you have a actually pretty well balanced working relationship with her. I think you two are opposites and are able to combine your different strengths to get the job done like ying and yang Ten of pents- I think as you two work together get to know each other more and more I think that you will enjoy working together the job won't seem boring.
Three of pents - I think you two will work together closely as a team withinh your department you had mentioned various changes happening so I think you will be the right hand woman to your manager in helping things run smoothly as well as probably having some seniority over other employees
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venuscorpio86 Knowflake Posts: 2191 From: salem,or usa Registered: Feb 2011
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posted November 11, 2014 09:08 PM
No I didn't. But it make sense with the water in the card IP: Logged |
venuscorpio86 Knowflake Posts: 2191 From: salem,or usa Registered: Feb 2011
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posted November 11, 2014 09:16 PM
Here you go againKing of cups- hmmm I think you might meet a guy who is a water sign but I don't know how serious it Will get. I think he will be just fine like a nice normal guy though The death - I feel like your going to learn a lot about yourself through this and realize some things about yourself and even change some things I don't feel it will be negative changes very good ones in fact.
Six of cups- hmmmm I think this one is saying you might reconnect with someone from your past after changes you make it's going to be a lesson from universe so tread lightly and don't fall into old patterns way of thinking
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venuscorpio86 Knowflake Posts: 2191 From: salem,or usa Registered: Feb 2011
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posted November 11, 2014 09:28 PM
Can you answer the question I posted for luckystar????IP: Logged |
cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 3177 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted November 11, 2014 09:37 PM
Is this tht same guy we talked about yesterday? Danny so u contacted him. How did he feel. it's a simple as him saying OK. he has ur information I do not think is going to contact you. I don't know what you said but I almost feel like it gave him a window that you'll be there when he's ready to contact you and that's what he said to himself....ok quote: Originally posted by venuscorpio86: Can you answer the question I posted for luckystar????
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venuscorpio86 Knowflake Posts: 2191 From: salem,or usa Registered: Feb 2011
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posted November 11, 2014 09:43 PM
No his name is not Danny. Wtf is this guys deal like seriously....I'm so mad Like furious where I feel anxious like I need to get outthe house or go do something my anger isn't subsiding. I told him what street was it that another driver forced me into a Ditch so I can tell the insurance. He is such a ***** for not replying. I said damnit this is last time I'll bother you or message you then proceeded to ask about the insurance. He hasn't deleted me off his FB yet though. Does he think I'm ugly it has to be that he thinks I'm ugly there is no other reason he should be this way IP: Logged |
venuscorpio86 Knowflake Posts: 2191 From: salem,or usa Registered: Feb 2011
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posted November 11, 2014 10:06 PM
Ok Cherful Your last one.
Ace of wands - You will reach a new beginning you haven't before, especially in the realm of material things and money like your going to be able to get by yourself things you would not have been able to before.
Ace of cups- I see new friendships based on this card that might be made through work genuine nice ppl who care about you and will care about your emotions Six of swords- your going to end up leaving a situation that no longer fits in your life or something you don't feel passionate about anymore and I don't see it as a bad thing either
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cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 3177 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted November 11, 2014 10:25 PM
sorry I didn't mean Danny I actually said damn and my phone changed it. I don't think he's going to delete you not right away I think he's just not having that connection like someone you're dating would and want to take care of you after this incident of you getting driven off the road so I guess that's where I'm getting his message... is like ok. its like okay you told me now what am I supposed to do I'm not your boyfriend. I would just be done with him he's not looking for you to look at him like you can fall back on him. so really let that sink in. I know you want emotional comfort and he's not willing to give it to you he doesn't want to cross that line I hear your frustration because I'm right there with you and I remember I think it was bring flower or spiritual journey who said me and you are going to have the same Saturn transit will we will the isolated and feel lonely and it was right around this time November for like 90 days or something. so that's probably what's happening. I don't see people thinking that you're ugly and I understand why you would think that...cuz what else could it be at this point. I totally get that but I really don't think people think your ugly. but I see it more as the guys you're going for want a Jessica Simpson. I wish you could get out of that town and get a fresh start somewhere else and I think your energy would change your attitude would change. mean I'm getting that you should be more refined more ladylike and maybe you'll have better chances of getting better quality guys. or maybe it's sophisticated and classy. I would really try to reinvent yourself. I know that's never the politically correct thing to say but several years ago when I reinvented myself I'm not kidding I had men at my door. I was exhausted from all the dates but yeah I have to seriously lose some of the chubbiness that I had and I had a tone up my body and I straightened my hair. truth be told I felt amazing and I think that energy was very readable to those men that's why they were attracted to me but they also look the part of a sophisticated arm candy. fast forward four years and I can't be a size 8 10 or 12 people wouldn't say I'm ugly because I'm not but they're not interested in me and I get s***** guys. I thought literally this week I started again to reinvent myself to the person that I was when I felt amazing and he looked at me like I was something to reckon with that they would be proud to stand by. I know that's never the right thing to say. I'm not trying to tell people to change themselves but I had to change myself to get the quality of life men in jobs that I wanted the world treating me so much better and they thought that I had more to offer because it looked like I treated myself that well to where they couldn't treat me any less quote: Originally posted by venuscorpio86: No his name is not Danny. Wtf is this guys deal like seriously....I'm so mad Like furious where I feel anxious like I need to get outthe house or go do something my anger isn't subsiding. I told him what street was it that another driver forced me into a Ditch so I can tell the insurance. He is such a ***** for not replying. I said damnit this is last time I'll bother you or message you then proceeded to ask about the insurance. He hasn't deleted me off his FB yet though. Does he think I'm ugly it has to be that he thinks I'm ugly there is no other reason he should be this way
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cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 3177 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted November 11, 2014 10:28 PM
....can you go a little bit more into the last one about how I will leave something that I'm not passionate for. Can we look into that one... what it is ....when it could take place... what will be the aftermath quote: Originally posted by venuscorpio86: Ok Cherful Your last one.
Ace of wands - You will reach a new beginning you haven't before, especially in the realm of material things and money like your going to be able to get by yourself things you would not have been able to before.
Ace of cups- I see new friendships based on this card that might be made through work genuine nice ppl who care about you and will care about your emotions Six of swords- your going to end up leaving a situation that no longer fits in your life or something you don't feel passionate about anymore and I don't see it as a bad thing either
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venuscorpio86 Knowflake Posts: 2191 From: salem,or usa Registered: Feb 2011
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posted November 11, 2014 10:34 PM
Well.....ok this accident happened two weeks ago on my way to his place so he came I only asked him because it's in his city not mine. It was a simple question, what was that intersection so I can tell the insurance. I won't message you again I told him. I was asking for comfort or him to be my hero. The night it happened he told me just to stay the night at his place. I see pictures of girls he likes on face book and they are not that cute at all.....I don't understand it because he is the one who initiated things with me. He is from out of town, he isnt even that cute he's ok dresses nice but nothing special. I think I look better than two girls he was in relatoinships with in the past...
I mean something must have gone wrong here that he is being a dick I mean before all this we didn't talk much so I can just be paranoid right now ..... IP: Logged |
Haplesschild* Knowflake Posts: 1525 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 11, 2014 10:42 PM
I don't think it's your looks... I think he has picked up on your major insecurity and anxiety and doesn't want to deal with sb like that. :SIP: Logged |
venuscorpio86 Knowflake Posts: 2191 From: salem,or usa Registered: Feb 2011
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posted November 11, 2014 10:50 PM
Well....I haven't done anything to him though or even said anything hapless Thats what I don't understand. I feel he thinks I'm ugly or its that I didn't have sex with him the night I stayed there......I don't think it's my personality because I didn't do anything.....I'm so mad I'm so upset I never do anything always get my heart broken or made to feel like **** there's no reason for it.IP: Logged |
cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 3177 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted November 11, 2014 11:11 PM
I don't know how to say this in words because my words can come off totally harshly blunt. honestly I don't see it's your looks as it has more to do with your personality. like the anxiety that you're getting from this comes across so it showed when you said I won't message you again. its like you made it into drama by saying that. you could have worded it differently such as hey if you wouldn't mind when you get a chance can you let me know what intersection that was, thanks so much.I think the best way I can describe it is I think you viewed as having a chip on your shoulder. I think that might stem from wanting to be loved by a guy and it never happening and when it does happen it's always a heartless love...I truly think it shows through. I don't want you to get disappointed about yourself trust me I have experienced it to and ask the same questions about myself and I know what I did to distance myself from that I mean seriously like I moved away I worked on myself in terms of looks appearance and it clicked with how I felt about myself. I remember the pain that you are feeling it's like aimisly searching like your spirit is searching for another spirit to connect with nurture in love that's what you need that's what you want and it gets very crippling when you never get it.
quote: Originally posted by venuscorpio86: Well.....ok this accident happened two weeks ago on my way to his place so he came I only asked him because it's in his city not mine. It was a simple question, what was that intersection so I can tell the insurance. I won't message you again I told him. I was asking for comfort or him to be my hero. The night it happened he told me just to stay the night at his place. I see pictures of girls he likes on face book and they are not that cute at all.....I don't understand it because he is the one who initiated things with me. He is from out of town, he isnt even that cute he's ok dresses nice but nothing special. I think I look better than two girls he was in relatoinships with in the past...
I mean something must have gone wrong here that he is being a dick I mean before all this we didn't talk much so I can just be paranoid right now .....
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venuscorpio86 Knowflake Posts: 2191 From: salem,or usa Registered: Feb 2011
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posted November 11, 2014 11:18 PM
Yea I know I mean we didn't communicate that much that often before you know? Like he would take forever to write back or not reply I was ok with it....until after we spent the night together...can I ask how do you how does he thinks I, D feel towards him or a out him? And based on what he thinks I feel about him how does it make him feel? You can ask more too if you'd like
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cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 3177 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted November 11, 2014 11:47 PM
Can u look into thle thing that I might be leaving... Can u see what it is and what I'll be leaving it for quote: Originally posted by venuscorpio86: Yea I know I mean we didn't communicate that much that often before you know? Like he would take forever to write back or not reply I was ok with it....until after we spent the night together...can I ask how do you how does he thinks I, D feel towards him or a out him? And based on what he thinks I feel about him how does it make him feel? You can ask more too if you'd like
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cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 3177 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted November 11, 2014 11:49 PM
can I ask how do you how does he thinks I, D feel towards him or a out him?.....what is this mean...can u rewrite it quote: Originally posted by venuscorpio86: Yea I know I mean we didn't communicate that much that often before you know? Like he would take forever to write back or not reply I was ok with it....until after we spent the night together...can I ask how do you how does he thinks I, D feel towards him or a out him? And based on what he thinks I feel about him how does it make him feel? You can ask more too if you'd like
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venuscorpio86 Knowflake Posts: 2191 From: salem,or usa Registered: Feb 2011
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posted November 11, 2014 11:53 PM
Oops sorry! My question is how does HHN thinks me D feels about him, what does he thinks I think of him? His perceived opinion that he thinks I have about him, how does it make him feel?
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venuscorpio86 Knowflake Posts: 2191 From: salem,or usa Registered: Feb 2011
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posted November 12, 2014 12:23 AM
Ok cherful The hanged man- hmmm I feel it's an attachment to something or someone else. Are you consciously or inside deep inside waiting for something or someone?
Page of wands- do you know a make who is Sagittarius????? I think this literally representative of that person your walking away from. NinE of wands- you simply cannot continue with this person or are tir d if their burdens and are ready to walk away from it they feel like work and have been for you in a enotinal sense
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cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 3177 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted November 12, 2014 12:28 AM
nope I don't know a sag. I don't have a person to walk away from 😓QUOTE]Originally posted by venuscorpio86: Ok cherful The hanged man- hmmm I feel it's an attachment to something or someone else. Are you consciously or inside deep inside waiting for something or someone?
Page of wands- do you know a make who is Sagittarius????? I think this literally representative of that person your walking away from. NinE of wands- you simply cannot continue with this person or are tir d if their burdens and are ready to walk away from it they feel like work and have been for you in a enotinal sense
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