posted November 16, 2014 04:57 PM            

Any ideas *when* I would most likely meet someone significant?

A little info about myself... I hardly date. I've been on 2 dates ONLY. I can be quite a flirt but I prefer to be more reserved because I don't want to give off the wrong idea. I take commitment seriously, so I don't commit very easily. I don't appreciate men who make moves out of nowhere. I've rejected every kiss any guy had tried to plant on me, despite my being attracted to them. I like ambitious men. Serious but humorous men. I can't do simple or boring men. I prefer older men, love them, even, but age doesn't matter so long as he's mature.

posted November 16, 2014 05:03 PM            

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Originally posted by Enneline:
wheres your chart and why don't u get to interpersonal section? http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum35/HTML/000137.html

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Well, because it's an analysis of my chart and there is no partner There, it's more of... Synastries and Composites and discussions on relationships.

posted November 16, 2014 07:27 PM            

Yeah, and task master Saturn as the chart ruler doesn't help. So my 10th house ruler (Venus) is in first, so there is always a conflict between personal achievement and authority figures. I need to be my own boss.

Cap rising kind of stinks to be honest. I think the stellium helps to draw my personality out, but it is really hard for me to not let my emotions affect my mood because of my Pisces Moon. Its like being bipolar: when I'm high, I am very high. But super low when feeling down.

posted November 17, 2014 12:27 PM            

1. cancer around 9-14 deg. I'd prefer venus, moon or jupiter. That would make a grand trine involving your venus & jupiter. That would be wonderful: stability, completeness, affection & well-being watch out for cancerian traits!!!

2. something in gemini around 11-18 deg. Would conjunct your moon (emotional connection), would fall in your 5h (romance) + trines your mars (sexual attraction)

3. also, i vote for something in virgo falling in your 8h and opposing venus. Would add major sparks

But not too much of virgo & cancer since You don't have anything in cancer & virgo

4. Either something in Leo, falling in your 7h, conjuncting your desc and opposing your sun, or something conj the ruler of your 7h (sun). Both could work for you.

posted November 17, 2014 02:52 PM            

I totally missed Cancer filling in the Grand Trine. I've attracted Libra Moon guys, I think because it also makes a grand trine with my Moon and Mars. Gemini Moon between 11-18 degrees would square my Venus... I already have it in my chart so I worry about having that tension reinforced.

Good call on the Virgo as well! I've attracted quite a few Virgo Mars men. I found them to be the most sexually attractive. I felt we vibed so well, on an instinctual level.

posted November 17, 2014 03:06 PM            

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Originally posted by PisceanDream:
Thank you so much Enneline!

I totally missed Cancer filling in the Grand Trine. I've attracted Libra Moon guys, I think because it also makes a grand trine with my Moon and Mars. Gemini Moon between 11-18 degrees would square my Venus... I already have it in my chart so I worry about having that tension reinforced.

Good call on the Virgo as well! I've attracted quite a few Virgo Mars men. I found them to be the most sexually attractive. I felt we vibed so well, on an instinctual level.

Thank you for your observations. I definitely agree with "sensitive and non so conventional"

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yes, moon in libra is also a good choice.

Hmmm...i have natally sun sq moon. If this shows up in the synastry as well: i'd feel attracted but sometimes somehow uncomfortable. Some say that natal aspects that show up in the synastry are great, some say it's awful

posted November 21, 2014 01:45 PM            

Ruler of 5th, 7th, and 8th in 1st.
Mars and Venus also in 1st.
It may be up to you to pursue or to tell them how you feel (communicative Gemini moon in 5th, ruled by mercury in 1st.) With mars there also in the 1st, you may appear intimidating.
Ruler of first in 12, ruler of 12 in 1st. They may be hidden from you and/or you from them. Maybe a secret admirer.
Saturn sitting right there in the mix, causing delays or having it be juuuust out of reach.

Vertex conjunct Chiron in 7... I feel like this is extremely significant but I'm not sure how.