posted November 19, 2014 06:47 PM            

And I thought it was funny that when I saw your chart, we share the same Moon sign

I definitely think it has something to do with Moon in Sag. You don't want to be tied down. You want options and freedom in all aspects of life. The emotional commitment can be too much.

posted November 19, 2014 07:00 PM            

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Originally posted by frankie2912:
Before I even saw the chart, I was thinking you sound a lot like me, especially when I was 20 (I was also a virgin at that age and had only had two bf's, both i couldn't put much effort into because..meh..why bother?)

And I thought it was funny that when I saw your chart, we share the same Moon sign

I definitely think it has something to do with Moon in Sag. You don't want to be tied down. You want options and freedom in all aspects of life. The emotional commitment can be too much.

Just noticed your moon is also in your 5th house of romance/dating/fun. Yep, you sure want your options when it comes to those things

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"Why bother?" YES! lol that's how I feel too either that or just get too bored in the situation or I get so smothered/uncomfortable with the emotional connection part that I sure as heck can't get to the physical part lol. Did you ever grow out of this feeling? What's weird is my moon in sag just wants to live life with as little of emotions as possible, while my venus is in cancer and secretly wants emotions. Do you have any personal planets in a water sign?

posted November 19, 2014 07:50 PM            

I was gonna say moon in sag but thought maybe it was too simple!
Damn doubting myself.

posted November 19, 2014 08:02 PM            

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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
Dang!

I was gonna say moon in sag but thought maybe it was too simple!
Damn doubting myself.

Plus it's fifth.
Saturn in 8th
Venus in 11th
Love of friendships and they provide all the love you need

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posted November 19, 2014 08:08 PM            

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Originally posted by PlutonicGemini94:

Yes! That's really true for me, Iove being with my friends more than anything lol plus my mercury is there so when I was with a bf I was thinking about my friends & just really wanted too be around them lol. I know this is a vague question but do you think It would be possible to over come these placements or would I just have to find a guy who has "flighty" aspects like I do?

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Oh, you can change but even more than that is that there are millions of people out there which means millions of synastrys that may make you feel differenly.
You may find someone who you love deeply, based on the friendship you have.
There's a lot of possibilities.

No worries.

posted November 19, 2014 08:08 PM            

I grew out of the non-sex part. I can separate love and sex very well and now I actually delight in flings and just-for-fun sex. No emotions involved, just fun and pleasure.

I am in a committed relationship now, though..longest relationship I've been in, 2 years. I still find the commitment and emotional obligations confining. I seem to find reasons to leave, or plans to leave in the future. It is really confusing and hard on the other person.

posted November 19, 2014 08:46 PM            

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Originally posted by frankie2912:
Yes, actually my Venus is in Scorpio, Mars in Pisces, ASC in Scorpio. Lots of water.

I grew out of the non-sex part. I can separate love and sex very well and now I actually delight in flings and just-for-fun sex. No emotions involved, just fun and pleasure.

I am in a committed relationship now, though..longest relationship I've been in, 2 years. I still find the commitment and emotional obligations confining. I seem to find reasons to leave, or plans to leave in the future. It is really confusing and hard on the other person.

It must feel odd having Moon in Sag and Venus in Cancer..those are two very conflicting needs/wants. Just be sure to realize what your heart wants and needs before you make any sort of commitment, otherwise you'll find reasons to break the chains.

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posted November 20, 2014 04:23 PM            

We actually just had a big fight about this stuff last week, broke up, got back together to work on it. I had to be totally honest and tell him that commitment scares me, although I have been faithful to him. I had to tell him there is someone else in my life that I am very much interested in and that I don't want to have sex with just one person for the rest of my life.

He, surprisingly, told me he has the same interests basically. We saw eye-to-eye on that, but I know jealousy will arise. It will take a lot of growth and maturity on both our parts to be able to stay together while both wanting our own sexual and intimate freedom.

posted November 20, 2014 05:03 PM            

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Originally posted by PlutonicGemini94:
Omg yes, the sag/cancer thing is the battle of my life. Wanting emotional freedom and my own space & please don't call or text too much, I don't need to see you everyday. but also inside secretly wanting to be cuddled/snuggled and domestic and give cancer'y love lol. It makes me come off as "inconsistent" in love but it's more so I just need it to be balanced.
How does your partner now deal with your moon in sag and knowing that the emotion commitment part is confining for u?

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