|
Author
|
Topic: @intuitive
|
hannaramaa
Moderator Posts: 8951
From:
Registered: Nov 2011
|
posted November 24, 2014 12:53 PM
  
Sure, let's use this here though. I couldn't see your reply in the other thread until I pulled up a different web page. Maybe this will work better. What's your question, and did you want me to use Lenormand or Tarot?IP: Logged |
intuitivefish
Knowflake Posts: 430
From: Europe
Registered: Aug 2014
|
posted November 24, 2014 12:55 PM
Thanks you Hanna  Well which ever you feel more drawn to for my question and please leave your question also. I recently met up with my ex (A) I am wondering where his feelings are about this now? thank you IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
Moderator Posts: 8951
From:
Registered: Nov 2011
|
posted November 24, 2014 01:01 PM
What I get is caution. He is trying to be safe and protect himself since last time your relationship kind of overwhelmed him and before he knew it it was out of control and ended? I think he still has feelings but they are not strong enough for him to act on yet. He seems to have gone through some kind of shift in perspective that changes the way he sees you.King of Swords 10 of Cups Tower Death Page of Cups IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
Moderator Posts: 8951
From:
Registered: Nov 2011
|
posted November 24, 2014 01:01 PM
Will anything more progress between me and MS?IP: Logged |
intuitivefish
Knowflake Posts: 430
From: Europe
Registered: Aug 2014
|
posted November 24, 2014 01:03 PM
quote:
Originally posted by hannaramaa:
What I get is caution. He is trying to be safe and protect himself since last time your relationship kind of overwhelmed him and before he knew it it was out of control and ended? I think he still has feelings but they are not strong enough for him to act on yet. He seems to have gone through some kind of shift in perspective that changes the way he sees you.King of Swords 10 of Cups Tower Death Page of Cups
would you say it was good or bad shift? you are correct on the reading. I also feel that I need to protect myself. IP: Logged |
intuitivefish
Knowflake Posts: 430
From: Europe
Registered: Aug 2014
|
posted November 24, 2014 01:07 PM
quote:
Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Will anything more progress between me and MS?
Yes it will but not right away. I get a feeling that something still needs to be said / shared. Some more opening up from one of you.
One needs to open up to show the other that it is "safe" to do so also.
I feel like in the next month something will come in your way from MS, something that will show you where his head is and what he wants IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
Moderator Posts: 8951
From:
Registered: Nov 2011
|
posted November 24, 2014 01:09 PM
I would say he is just trying to be more realistic this time. Before it seems he was focusing on the future too much and all these high ideals instead of taking it one step at a time, and then it's like he got a reality check and it went downhill from there. So instead of reaching for the moon this time he is starting small. Using his head more. So not good or bad, just realistic. It seems he's also trying to dodge some bullets maybe? Really weird because I'm using the Robin Wood deck and the image of the King of Swords 10 of Cups and Tower just gave me this vision of people scrambling to find safety as their surroundings were being invaded during a space war (you know, like in a Sci-fi movie) so I took that as an impression that he didn't really understand what happened last time because he wasn't on the same page as you, so this time he is trying to move slower with his feelings.IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
Moderator Posts: 8951
From:
Registered: Nov 2011
|
posted November 24, 2014 01:10 PM
quote:
Originally posted by intuitivefish:
Yes it will but not right away. I get a feeling that something still needs to be said / shared. Some more opening up from one of you.
One needs to open up to show the other that it is "safe" to do so also.
I feel like in the next month something will come in your way from MS, something that will show you where his head is and what he wants
True, especially since he's my boss. He's done things here and there that are odd and I think were his way of trying to tell me something but I'm unsure how to proceed, or not proceed considering the circumstances. IP: Logged |
intuitivefish
Knowflake Posts: 430
From: Europe
Registered: Aug 2014
|
posted November 24, 2014 01:12 PM
That makes sense Hanna! thank you
I really dont feel like writing it all out but to me it makes sense. Last time we both got it all crazy . He did harm and so did I.. but yes he is avoiding me bringing up his bad decisions from last time. ANd I wont bring them up so that we could do just that, take it more realistic this time.could I ask you more? if you feel its fine, I want to ask what you see later in future for us? IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
Moderator Posts: 8951
From:
Registered: Nov 2011
|
posted November 24, 2014 01:19 PM
WOW! Would you believe I shuffled, and cut the deck twice, and this is what I got...King of Swords 10 of Cups The Tower 4 of Pentacles 7 of Swords Unfortunately it doesn't look amazing. I think it will start out as bliss but then one or both parties will start being inconsistent and a lack of trust will slowly sneak in. It doesn't say definitely that the relationship would end but under those circumstances it couldn't be too pleasant. I think a discrepancy could occur that one would try to hide. IP: Logged |
intuitivefish
Knowflake Posts: 430
From: Europe
Registered: Aug 2014
|
posted November 24, 2014 01:23 PM
quote:
Originally posted by hannaramaa:
WOW! Would you believe I shuffled, and cut the deck twice, and this is what I got...King of Swords 10 of Cups The Tower 4 of Pentacles 7 of Swords Unfortunately it doesn't look amazing. I think it will start out as bliss but then one or both parties will start being inconsistent and a lack of trust will slowly sneak in. It doesn't say definitely that the relationship would end but under those circumstances it couldn't be too pleasant. I think a discrepancy could occur that one would try to hide.
thank you! would you like to ask more?
IP: Logged |
intuitivefish
Knowflake Posts: 430
From: Europe
Registered: Aug 2014
|
posted November 24, 2014 01:25 PM
this reading was so helpful actually, it just hit me how this is a good warning and as I belive energies can change I believe this too can be worked on. So I am thankful I did this exchange with youIP: Logged |
hannaramaa
Moderator Posts: 8951
From:
Registered: Nov 2011
|
posted November 24, 2014 01:31 PM
quote:
Originally posted by intuitivefish:
thank you!would you like to ask more?
Sure actually. I've just realized I've been a fool concerning N. I was wondering...will I ever get my chance to be "right" with him? I mean to speak my mind and put him in his place? Sometimes I get those opportunities in general and then think it's pointless because it's like kicking a hurt animal when it's down. IP: Logged |
intuitivefish
Knowflake Posts: 430
From: Europe
Registered: Aug 2014
|
posted November 24, 2014 01:38 PM
quote:
Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Sure actually. I've just realized I've been a fool concerning N. I was wondering...will I ever get my chance to be "right" with him? I mean to speak my mind and put him in his place? Sometimes I get those opportunities in general and then think it's pointless because it's like kicking a hurt animal when it's down.
Well I do get you will have the chance to do so, but I get to him it will be in one ear out the other, I dont see him take it as serious as you hope for. What I also get is yes do it, it will help you release the energy and help you open up new opportunities. I feel after you do tell him that it will hit him only later, like it will take him a long time to process what you actually said to him. I keep getting, do it, say what you want to say to N ! any more ?
IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
Moderator Posts: 8951
From:
Registered: Nov 2011
|
posted November 24, 2014 01:40 PM
I think I'm going to. I don't think I'm going to just randomly text him with all of that. I'd rather do it in person. But yes, he's shallow and slow like that.Yes, can you sense why he even contacted me again? Why is he like that with me? IP: Logged |
intuitivefish
Knowflake Posts: 430
From: Europe
Registered: Aug 2014
|
posted November 24, 2014 01:43 PM
quote:
Originally posted by hannaramaa:
I think I'm going to. I don't think I'm going to just randomly text him with all of that. I'd rather do it in person.Yes, can you sense why he even contacted me again? Why is he like that with me?
I wanted to ask something else also, what do your cards tell me as more I should know, with aproach to A Ego ! nothing more, pure ego ! He wanted to see if and how you wound respond, he wanted to see if he can still get a reaction from you. Also he is just doing things you let him off the hook with. To him, unless you verbaly say not to, he will do it. I get a feeling he is doing it to provoke youe. He wants reactions to see if your feelings are there and to see if you are over with or he is still there in your mind. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
Moderator Posts: 8951
From:
Registered: Nov 2011
|
posted November 24, 2014 01:54 PM
quote:
Originally posted by intuitivefish:
I wanted to ask something else also, what do your cards tell me as more I should know, with aproach to AEgo ! nothing more, pure ego ! He wanted to see if and how you wound respond, he wanted to see if he can still get a reaction from you. Also he is just doing things you let him off the hook with. To him, unless you verbaly say not to, he will do it. I get a feeling he is doing it to provoke youe. He wants reactions to see if your feelings are there and to see if you are over with or he is still there in your mind.
Okay I'll do that in a sec. I think it's ego too and that's what Cherful said but he wouldn't listen to me before and that's why we stopped being friends. He doesn't like being told what to do so it's like I can't win. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
Moderator Posts: 8951
From:
Registered: Nov 2011
|
posted November 24, 2014 01:57 PM
With A - don't do anything. It seems then he'll start knocking down your door begging for your attention and wanting another chance. Remain aloof, and unaffected but not rude. He knows the difference it seems.2 of Swords Knight of Wands Ace of Pents IP: Logged |
intuitivefish
Knowflake Posts: 430
From: Europe
Registered: Aug 2014
|
posted November 24, 2014 01:58 PM
quote:
Originally posted by hannaramaa:
With A - don't do anything. It seems then he'll start knocking down your door begging for your attention and wanting another chance. Remain aloof, and unaffected but not rude. He knows the difference it seems.2 of Swords Knight of Wands Ace of Pents
Thank you this was good exchange, well for me it was! IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
Moderator Posts: 8951
From:
Registered: Nov 2011
|
posted November 24, 2014 02:01 PM
Lol you did really good too, I'm just annoyed by him, I just want him to go away from my mind and my life although he's not even really in it.IP: Logged |
intuitivefish
Knowflake Posts: 430
From: Europe
Registered: Aug 2014
|
posted November 24, 2014 02:03 PM
quote:
Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Lol you did really good too, I'm just annoyed by him, I just want him to go away from my mind and my life although he's not even really in it.
Tell him all that is on your chest, since you want to detach I can only see him get angry or feel like Where the hell did that come from. But you have every right to say what you feel and then be done with it. Say it and that should be it, do not get into discussions or arguments. its not worth it IP: Logged |
Lindaland
UBBFriend: Email This Page to Someone! 
