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cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 3353 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted December 01, 2014 05:39 PM
I feel limited and restricted. Im Use to having some "power" at my job. I made some of the "shots" At NY new job...I have to run every thing thru a higher up. It's killing me! I think I need to move up...be in a. Authorities role. Any suggestions? I know I have pluto trine Sun so I'm probably gun ho about career movement. I have a higherup role...but I need some power!
Every time I try to change things for the better my boss stops me. Not in bad way but she needs to anaylaze it and then talk to people and then have a meeting and then bring it to the board.... So I can't further research stuff until her process is done with... It takes so long. I was brought on this job to structure it...I feel to limited. Ugh I'm an agent of change. I fix broken medical programs.... I need freedom to do so !! Maybe I should go into hospital compliance..... how would that work for Me??? Ca. I get a reading on my career path for the next few years, please IP: Logged |
vesta Knowflake Posts: 2379 From: Colorado Registered: May 2009
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posted December 01, 2014 07:04 PM
Hey, cherful I did a quick reading for you. I got ace of pentacles reversed. Eight of pentacles reversed The fool The page of rods The queen of rods. Outcome Three of wands, 6 of pentacles, 4 of pentacles rx Showing a merciless job where you are just not happy you may not be getting paid as much as you should. You need to talk to her and let her know how you feel in the situation. Remain calm and rational and explain how in your old job you had more freedom. There can be a peaceful resolution and you will get more freedom. BTW ... As I was reading your post I heard the message that you need to talk to her. IP: Logged |
cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 3353 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted December 01, 2014 07:20 PM
TyI actually do get paid very well. I know I have all the knowledge and the skills and the personality to hold a position that has authority and power to make changes to the system. she is relatively new, not experience but she is smart and works hard but this office needs a total overhaul to be in compliance but she's wasting a lot of time and she doesn't have the sense of urgency to make these changes happen so we can be in compliance. she seems fine with how things are running. .I'm happy but I'm just getting frustrated that it's my knowledge my research my experience that are going to get us through this accreditation visit and I don't necessarily know if I'm getting all the credit or even half of it. I don't want her to get the kudos because it's not due to her. I know she's the manager and everybody works under her direction to build a better department however she literally brought me in because of my wealth of knowledge in this department and how it needs to be running per accreditation standards so I'm the one that's doing all of this change I'm the one that's planning all of these errors and I better be the one that's getting the recognition from the other hospital staff. as my frustration grows a little and thinking to myself I really need to get out of this department and really grow into an authority figure and get into a more policy driven department IP: Logged |
vesta Knowflake Posts: 2379 From: Colorado Registered: May 2009
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posted December 01, 2014 07:28 PM
I understand what you are saying and how you feel but here is a thought. Take a couple of deep breaths and then read over your last statement. I am doing all the work, I better get the recognition ect... That is not the way to approach the situation if you are going to talk to her. That will not bring the results you want. Relax, do some meditation or tak a bath let it all go. Put a smile on your face think positive things about talking to her and see in your mind a positive resolution how you would like to see thing turn out and know it in your heart that all will go well. That is how you manifest positive results. IP: Logged |
vesta Knowflake Posts: 2379 From: Colorado Registered: May 2009
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posted December 01, 2014 07:51 PM
quote: Originally posted by vesta: I understand what you are saying and how you feel but here is a thought. Take a couple of deep breaths and then read over your last statement. I am doing all the work, I better get the recognition ect... That is not the way to approach the situation if you are going to talk to her. That will not bring the results you want. Relax, do some meditation or tak a bath let it all go. Put a smile on your face think positive things about talking to her and see in your mind a positive resolution how you would like to see thing turn out and know it in your heart that all will go well. That is how you manifest positive results.
Please don't take what I said the wrong way. I know it is frustrating though I have been in a different situation I know how it can wear you out. I am sure she will give you the positive recognition you deserve for all of your hard work you just have to keep thinking positive it is the negative that works against you. Oops ... It was supposed to edit not quote IP: Logged |
cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 3353 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted December 01, 2014 08:06 PM
well it's not really that. regardless or not if she wants to keep the credit for herself At the beginnings of my employment which she has been, is stupid on her part because everybody knows I was hired to get through this accreditation process. Thu tension is created because at every meeting It is documented how I found the errors...through my frustration I realize that I need to be in a different department or in a different sector altogether where I have to say and how things are run. my point is...that's what I do. I go into different programs or different institutions and fix what's broken and here I go again where they might pat me on the back and do give me recognition, first I'm always in a battle with my direct supervisor....for them to also give me recognition when its due. it's always the same pattern where they try to send out policy changes and emails under their name as if they found the errors. I was hired to find these errors and to create new policies so it is a big deal when someone tries to undermine my intelligence and try to take that recognition for themselves so it's not an issue of oh I did work and somebody else is taking the credit for it. I was specifically hired to find errors and fix the system so when I don't get credit there like why did we hire her and it's not until my final reports that I am able to demonstrate how I found these errors and so here I go again a new institution new people same ******** and it's just exhausting. so that led to my original question that there must be something else I am able to do that would give me the authority to make policy changes directly and I think I'm ready for a very big role in hospital administration and that's what I was asking about. QUOTE]Originally posted by vesta: Please don't take what I said the wrong way. I know it is frustrating though I have been in a different situation I know how it can wear you out. I am sure she will give you the positive recognition you deserve for all of your hard work you just have to keep thinking positive it is the negative that works against you.
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vesta Knowflake Posts: 2379 From: Colorado Registered: May 2009
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posted December 02, 2014 08:44 AM
Maybe this will cheer you up in this situation you are in. About a month ago I had an experience with automatic writing. The message that I got came from archangel Gabriel. It was basically about the balance being restored in all relationships. Not just personal one on one but even work related as well. Where maybe you did work and someone else took the credit. Just know that the balance is going to be restored and your dues will come in according to the angels how and when of course is in heavens hand but know it is coming. So you may get recognized for your work by higer up's and get the position that you have been waiting for. Hope that helps some. IP: Logged |
sunnybunny Knowflake Posts: 224 From: tellico plains,usa Registered: Oct 2014
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posted December 02, 2014 09:19 AM
hey cherful i will work on your reading, so will you do one for me?i met a man named alex last night. i'm white, he's black, so that may show up in the cards. what you see happening with us? he seems pretty nice so far, he seems to want to see me again. thanks. IP: Logged |
sunnybunny Knowflake Posts: 224 From: tellico plains,usa Registered: Oct 2014
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posted December 02, 2014 09:22 AM
cherful, i drew the 10 of swords with regards to your career path.you need to really watch your back and do not confide in ANYONE in the work place, at work, no one has any real friends who can keep their mouths shut. you may wanna try chiropractic office or a back pain clinic. things will eventually turn around for you, and get better, so it's gonna be ok. IP: Logged |
cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 3353 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted December 02, 2014 11:32 AM
Is he sexy? Maybe he finds u sexy? I'm not sure if I see you guys taking it far there just seems to be a lot of hype, a lot of premature interest but not formal dating. for whatever reason I think it's going to be drawn out flirtation and then it never lives up to the hype....I.e. relationship.
quote: Originally posted by sunnybunny: hey cherful i will work on your reading, so will you do one for me?i met a man named alex last night. i'm white, he's black, so that may show up in the cards. what you see happening with us? he seems pretty nice so far, he seems to want to see me again. thanks.
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cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 3353 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted December 02, 2014 11:40 AM
Was chiropractic a suggestion or did u see it in ur reading?I'm in hospital administration, I Audit medical programs so I am far from an office worker. I agree that there is probably some chatter. of course I'm here to find out what the problems are in that involve cooking how people are performing and doing the job......and fortunately the way this office is set up I am housed in the same office with some of the people I am critiquing......so yeah I can definitely see chatter might be starting as I start critiquing, but they're all adults they know that this is part of the job because they've lost accreditation to run their medical program. I feel I'm being restricted and documentation or lack thereof is being tempered with....if this is being done on purpose for some reason such as me not getting recognition and instead the manager gets it as if she found the errors or she trying to hide deficiencies..............can u look into that, please? Or is she just inexperienced in maybe means well what is making foolish mistakes
quote: Originally posted by sunnybunny: cherful, i drew the 10 of swords with regards to your career path.you need to really watch your back and do not confide in ANYONE in the work place, at work, no one has any real friends who can keep their mouths shut. you may wanna try chiropractic office or a back pain clinic. things will eventually turn around for you, and get better, so it's gonna be ok.
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sunnybunny Knowflake Posts: 224 From: tellico plains,usa Registered: Oct 2014
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posted December 02, 2014 04:59 PM
thanks cherfulIP: Logged |
luckystar25 Knowflake Posts: 780 From: boston mass Registered: Jan 2014
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posted December 03, 2014 01:29 AM
Cheerful can I exchange with you? Is RA going to come after me this weekend or no?IP: Logged |
cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 3353 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted December 03, 2014 09:09 AM
SureWill do this afternoon. What's coming up for me Ty quote: Originally posted by luckystar25: Cheerful can I exchange with you? Is RA going to come after me this weekend or no?
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luckystar25 Knowflake Posts: 780 From: boston mass Registered: Jan 2014
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posted December 03, 2014 02:36 PM
quote: Originally posted by cherful24: SureWill do this afternoon. What's coming up for me Ty
What's coming up for you as in love, work, etc?IP: Logged |
cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 3353 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted December 03, 2014 03:09 PM
Anything. I'm sure not much will be training. quote: Originally posted by luckystar25: [QUOTE]Originally posted by cherful24: [b]SureWill do this afternoon. What's coming up for me Ty
What's coming up for you as in love, work, etc?[/B][/QUOTE] IP: Logged |
cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 3353 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted December 03, 2014 06:56 PM
okay so that was very limited information and I don't know what coming after you is referencing but my initial feeling is that it's on the negative side and you're going to have to come face to face and words are going to be spoken to you from this person so therefore the answer is yes are you thinking this person is going to attack you in some sort or are you hoping this person is going to be like a love interest and chase you is this person already in your life permanently like they're not going to go away.... because that's what I feel but I don't feel this person is a love interest so if that's what you were hoping for sorry. No I don't think you're going to be attacked in any way but I feel like something but you will deal with them ..again I'm getting on a permanent basis so if there was something like an argument then yes I would say that person is going to verbally have their say with you but nothing like attacking IP: Logged |
luckystar25 Knowflake Posts: 780 From: boston mass Registered: Jan 2014
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posted December 03, 2014 07:55 PM
quote: Originally posted by cherful24: okay so that was very limited information and I don't know what coming after you is referencing but my initial feeling is that it's on the negative side and you're going to have to come face to face and words are going to be spoken to you from this person so therefore the answer is yes are you thinking this person is going to attack you in some sort or are you hoping this person is going to be like a love interest and chase you is this person already in your life permanently like they're not going to go away.... because that's what I feel but I don't feel this person is a love interest so if that's what you were hoping for sorry. No I don't think you're going to be attacked in any way but I feel like something but you will deal with them ..again I'm getting on a permanent basis so if there was something like an argument then yes I would say that person is going to verbally have their say with you but nothing like attacking
Is this my reading?
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luckystar25 Knowflake Posts: 780 From: boston mass Registered: Jan 2014
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posted December 03, 2014 07:59 PM
quote: Originally posted by cherful24: okay so that was very limited information and I don't know what coming after you is referencing but my initial feeling is that it's on the negative side and you're going to have to come face to face and words are going to be spoken to you from this person so therefore the answer is yes are you thinking this person is going to attack you in some sort or are you hoping this person is going to be like a love interest and chase you is this person already in your life permanently like they're not going to go away.... because that's what I feel but I don't feel this person is a love interest so if that's what you were hoping for sorry. No I don't think you're going to be attacked in any way but I feel like something but you will deal with them ..again I'm getting on a permanent basis so if there was something like an argument then yes I would say that person is going to verbally have their say with you but nothing like attacking
I really started to like him and then he got all distant and weird towards me, didn't answer my texts so I stopped texting him ..I work with him on weekends..and Friday night he was a huge dick and put me on the spot and imbarassed me becauwe of something I said that he had no right to do that..so Saturday night I totally ignored him and after left...so I was planning on saying something to him, like I really liked you, what happened, was there miscommunication? Hoping he saysbsomething first but I dont know I guess from your reading he is going to say something IP: Logged |
cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 3353 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted December 03, 2014 08:10 PM
Ok...that is sence that's why I see himstaying in your life and yes I do feel you're going to have to confront him if he'll confront you but sorry I don't see an actual relationship with thisIP: Logged |
luckystar25 Knowflake Posts: 780 From: boston mass Registered: Jan 2014
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posted December 03, 2014 08:36 PM
quote: Originally posted by cherful24: Ok...that is sence that's why I see himstaying in your life and yes I do feel you're going to have to confront him if he'll confront you but sorry I don't see an actual relationship with this
What's his problem with me? IP: Logged |
luckystar25 Knowflake Posts: 780 From: boston mass Registered: Jan 2014
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posted December 03, 2014 08:39 PM
Should I not say anything and let him say something firstIP: Logged |
luckystar25 Knowflake Posts: 780 From: boston mass Registered: Jan 2014
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posted December 03, 2014 09:09 PM
I'll be back with your reading within the hour IP: Logged |