posted December 03, 2014 06:55 PM            

I reserve the right to decline if I feel like you are someone who frequently over-asks on the forum, as I put a lot of energy into the readings I do.

posted December 03, 2014 06:59 PM            

My question, is marriage and having children a possibility with the person I'm in love with? If so, will it be a good marriage?

posted December 03, 2014 07:01 PM            

May I sit please?

I am currently wondering about N. and M.

Will M. help me get over N. or is there some hope left for N. and I to be together? Does N still think of me? What's his opinion of me?

posted December 03, 2014 07:11 PM            

K if I did make the cut, I'd really appreciate it. Thanks in advance!

Wanted to know what you see happening with B and I in the next 3 months and how he feels/thinks towards me.

posted December 03, 2014 08:22 PM            

My question is : is there e relationship for me in the near future (1-2 months' time) ?

posted December 03, 2014 11:46 PM            

Four of Cups - Empress Reversed - Daughter (Page) of Swords

posted December 03, 2014 11:59 PM            

On things with M:

Four of Swords Reversed - Eight of Pentacles - Ace of Cups Reversed

I get the feeling that M leaves you feeling a bit unsettled, as if somethings a bit off. They are someone practical who's pursuing you and putting some effort into you. I don't see things getting off the ground though. I think you will keep expecting to feel something and it won't happen, you can't force yourself to care in that deep way.

On N:

Eight of Wands Reversed

Nothing on the N front anytime soon. you can feel the anticipation, as if they're about to walk back in again and say all the right things but it isn't going to happen right now.

I pulled an extra card on what N feels/thinks and I got the Two of Wands. It seems warm and friendly but with a bit of distance. They want to be on good terms with you or see you as a positive force/friend. I'm feeling some distance here, like there's a wall up. It's not one of hurt per se but intentional space. They aren't ready to do anything about the situation at this time.

posted December 04, 2014 12:11 AM            

Hanged Man Reversed - Ace of Pentacles - Two of Wands Reversed

Eight of Swords Reversed

posted December 04, 2014 02:54 AM            

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Originally posted by Twitterbird05:
Proxy

Four of Cups - Empress Reversed - Daughter (Page) of Swords

it seems that this person has some issues that are preventing you from fully connecting with each other. I can see how you want a life with this person and children, but it seems unlikely because of this person's issues/baggage. I think the best thing for you moving forward is to be honest with yourself about the situation. do you want to be with them or do you want to seek marriage/children from someone else? I wish I had a better response for you, but with Empress RX it feels like the cards do reflect your question.

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posted December 05, 2014 03:47 PM            

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Originally posted by Twitterbird05:
MineAgain

On things with M:

Four of Swords Reversed - Eight of Pentacles - Ace of Cups Reversed

I get the feeling that M leaves you feeling a bit unsettled, as if somethings a bit off. They are someone practical who's pursuing you and putting some effort into you. I don't see things getting off the ground though. I think you will keep expecting to feel something and it won't happen, you can't force yourself to care in that deep way.

On N:

Eight of Wands Reversed

Nothing on the N front anytime soon. you can feel the anticipation, as if they're about to walk back in again and say all the right things but it isn't going to happen right now.

I pulled an extra card on what N feels/thinks and I got the Two of Wands. It seems warm and friendly but with a bit of distance. They want to be on good terms with you or see you as a positive force/friend. I'm feeling some distance here, like there's a wall up. It's not one of hurt per se but intentional space. They aren't ready to do anything about the situation at this time.

Sorry - I hope this helps. Probably the best thing you can do for yourself is not to use this new person as a crutch - it will just add to your disappointment over N. Maybe it's too soon to be trying someone new?

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UPDATE/FEEDBACK:

Thank you very much Twitter.

I stopped communicating with this young man because as you said, I felt something was off which was confirmed through my extensive reflection and research. Although this young man sounds like a good guy, I believe he's not a match for me. Something does leave me feeling unsettled, indeed. This interact made me think of N even more.

I hope N. and I will get to talk again someday. He was the best connection I've ever had, truly.

Sigh ...

posted December 05, 2014 05:15 PM            

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Originally posted by Twitterbird05:
BILL

Hanged Man Reversed - Ace of Pentacles - Two of Wands Reversed

Eight of Swords Reversed

I think the Hanged Man Reversed here is representative of you in this situation. You think you are trying to help your sister and be sacrificial but really you have to let her make her own decisions/manage her own life. Even if others are dictating it for her, she needs to come into her own. She's making new plans and starting a new life with this person, which might be a bit poorly planned out and not thought through well. But I think whatever happens, she will find her way out of these struggles and find a new way of being, she will be a lot stronger and know how to speak for herself. These events have been put in motion to bring about a big change in her. Have faith that all will work out in the end, even though there might be turmoil. Even if she marries this guy, it's not the end for her.

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Hi Twitter, thank you for your reply.

posted December 05, 2014 10:08 PM            

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Originally posted by BILL10:
Hi Twitter, thank you for your reply.

I don't intentionally try to manage her life or make decisions for her. My mother can be overpowering and manipulative, so I try to stick up for my sister. It's her decisions, but I fight for her decisions more than she does, I guess. That's only because, I can stand up to my mom more better than my sister. You said my sis is planning a life with him, but she's not. It's more my mom is planning a life for her, and I'm afraid lives will be destroyed. I hope it will all work out, and I hope you turn out to be right about her going through this for a reason, and that she will come out of this a better and stronger person. "A new way of being" gives me a lot of hope. Thank you.
Just a follow up, do you see her getting married to this guy though? Sorry.

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Okay, maybe she isn't doing the planning but there's plans being made and they are a bit misgiven. Ace of Pents points to the fact that she will likely marry him, but the vibe I got was that it doesn't matter either way. Your sister will be okay in the end, whether it's making the difficult decision to leave him now, later, or learn how to be happy with him. The cards were a bit mum on whether she will actually marry him.

posted December 05, 2014 10:49 PM            

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Originally posted by Twitterbird05:
Okay, maybe she isn't doing the planning but there's plans being made and they are a bit misgiven. Ace of Pents points to the fact that she will likely marry him, but the vibe I got was that it doesn't matter either way. Your sister will be okay in the end, whether it's making the difficult decision to leave him now, later, or learn how to be happy with him. The cards were a bit mum on whether she will actually marry him.

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I hate to keep asking you more questions; I feel like I'm bothering you, but I'm just really anxious about whether my sister should go back home with my parents to meet this guy or or if I should help my sister fight the trip. You said that "Ace of Pents" means she will likely marry him, but you also said that the cards were mum on whether she will actually marry him. I'm not sure what the difference is?

But you're right, the plans are VERY misgiven. My mom thinks that no guy will come along if my sis says no to this guy. She gets very angry at my sis, and its hurting her. I try to defend my sister, but my sister nor I like to see our parents upset, especially our dad. We don't know if my sis should stand her ground, or go back home and see what happens.