posted December 06, 2014 08:29 PM            

The stars + home + letter tell me that it was online communication when he was at home. The things you told him were when he was at his home.
He felt emotional about it (moon) and now wants some isolation (tower). You haven't heard from him since, right? Cause it seems after the message you wrote to him (letter) he closed down and doesn't want to interact...

I also asked what's going to happen between you two this week and got - cross + birds + book + stars + home

Beginning of the week there will be obstacles but you will talk again (maybe Tuesday?) the conversation will start a big guarded, but there will be more texts etc end of the week (stars) but no face to face interaction (home, meaning you'll stay at home).

So what you told him did upset him but you'll still talk and this isn't the end of it.

posted December 06, 2014 08:40 PM            

Venus, I have some advice if you are willing to listen objectively to what I have to say (or what the cards are saying). HN is not good for you, this is causing you emotional distress and no guy worth your time should put you through this.

I agree with St@r that your interactions aren't over, but perhaps in the long run aren't worth it. I can explain the cards above if you want, the concern and obsession over HN is not healthy.

I know you were looking for St@r and Cherful only to answer, but it is really sad to see that you are putting so much of your self-worth into this one guy. The right person for you won't make you lash out or play the waiting game to simply spend time together.

posted December 06, 2014 08:47 PM            

I told this once to my friend when she was in a relationship and every time she'd call me she would tell me about another fight (they lived in different cities so interaction was via phone etc most of the time). I told her what I wrote above and she said no, no, there's a lot more happiness than stress.

Once they broke up she was honest and said that she now understands the emotional toll it took on her. She cried so much...

posted December 06, 2014 08:53 PM            

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Originally posted by venuscorpio86:
Two of pents- this has its pros and cons even though your asking I feel inside your swayed one way more than the other.

Six of pents- this tells me you put much more effort forward than M does. Its unbalanced and based on previous card it shows that.

Nine of pents- I think no based on fact that there is so much unbalance here.

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posted December 06, 2014 09:05 PM            

The World is telling you to stop trying to make things work, because things will not get better. The underlying message is to end your current situationship with HN- you will not get what you desire out of it.

9 of Cups is telling you that you know deep down inside that the current situation is not okay, and you are holding on because you hope things will turn around and be joyful and fulfilling, Basically, that HN will change for you. 9 of Cups is also a warning that HN is hiding a sensual pleasure from you: sex, alcohol/drugs, money, material items, etc. There is something HN is not fully honest about.

5 of Pentacles is saying due to the above you are going to get hurt even more by trying to make things work. You will end up leaving rejected because HN will not change into the type of man you really need. This is also a reflection of the current insecurity and hurt you have been dealing with the last month. This card is also a message to step out and look at things from the outside (a beggar looking into the church is what my card shows) because sometimes we get tunnel vision by being so invested in something.

posted December 06, 2014 09:18 PM            

Why would you think he that he thinks you're ugly? Don't judge yourself like that. He obviously attracted to you, why would he keep in touch otherwise?

posted December 06, 2014 09:42 PM            

I totally understand where you're coming from cuz you know I always ask about my ex. I feel like you're in a limited area where it's kind of hard to meet new people and get yourself oriented with the new crowd but I feel like you need a little change so these memories.... you will easily be able to get past him.... to do that it's kind of like you need that excitement and wonder back and therefore, that's why I'm thinking you need a total change like a new area to go live in or explore etc

posted December 06, 2014 09:56 PM            

I'm not sure how else to get my words across because every time someone tries to talk about you about HN truthfully, you become too upset to listen to what we are trying to say.

It has nothing to do with your looks.

It has nothing to do with your personality.

It has nothing to do with your lifestyle and career.

It has nothing to do with you, period.

It does, however, have everything to do with HN's immaturity. At least 3 times the cards have told me HN isn't looking for anything serious, and I know other readers have gotten this too.

HN doesn't want to commit to anyone or have a serious relationship: he just wants FWB and not have to deal with the time and commitment with a relationship. You can continue to try and make things work, but I am telling you the longer you hold on, the more pain is going to be released. The two of you have different expectations and needs right now, it just is not compatible after the physical attraction.

Why do want to be with someone who disrespects you as you say? What exactly is it that he has to offer you in return? What makes him more appealing than other men? To me the reason 'why' he treats you badly does not matter, what really matters is you and your happiness.

posted December 06, 2014 11:34 PM            

I wish I could give you better advice but again I've done this with my ex so I know where you're coming from and I get it and if somebody better came around and treated me great that hell yeah I wouldn't be obsessing over my exes so I hope some wonderful guys going to come into your life soon