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Topic: rain all over me.
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ohfemmefatalex
Newflake Posts: 6
From: north providence, ri
Registered: Jun 2014
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posted December 09, 2014 11:20 PM
  
could someone pull a card or give alittle insight. I'm in a really dark place and just need a little hope. I've spent 2800 in 5 months on psychics looking for answers. my gf broke up with me and moved to hawaii. our last contact wasn't good. I just want to know if she's happy. or regrets it. or whar she's thinking or feeling. or if I'll ever see her again. it's just killing me inside with the holidays around the corner. could anyone just take a minute and see if the outcome is positive. IP: Logged |
BellaFenice
Knowflake Posts: 2006
From: Pseudo-Leo with a 1st House Stellium
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted December 09, 2014 11:32 PM
O_O $2800?!?!?!?!?!? Yeah, I can read for you. You seem very down, and I can relate.  I have to wonder, is the breakup the only thing that is going on? I feel there is more to the story since you are really upset. It will get better, time heals all wounds. IP: Logged |
ohfemmefatalex
Newflake Posts: 6
From: north providence, ri
Registered: Jun 2014
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posted December 09, 2014 11:42 PM
I'm overwhelmed by a lot in life I guess. yeah I lost control financially with psychics.
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BellaFenice
Knowflake Posts: 2006
From: Pseudo-Leo with a 1st House Stellium
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted December 09, 2014 11:51 PM
For the ex gf:
10 of Swords
She had a tough time with the break up, so it wasn't only you that suffered. Thought about you a lot and made her feel depressed. Feeling powerless and hoping to get a new start. Talking to you opened up new wounds. 8 of Wands Suddenly and unexpectedly met someone that was immediate attraction. Very fun and exciting, got her out of her rut. Feels a little defensive now this person after talking to you. King of Wands Met a guy (probably a fire sign or fire-like) who was passionate, bold, impulsive, confident, smooth talker, etc. A charmer that she has been spending time with, IP: Logged |
ohfemmefatalex
Newflake Posts: 6
From: north providence, ri
Registered: Jun 2014
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posted December 09, 2014 11:53 PM
yikes  that isn't good.thank you for looking into it for me. IP: Logged |
cherful24
Knowflake Posts: 3367
From: chicago, il
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted December 09, 2014 11:57 PM
honestly I think way down the line you guys will come in contact probably face to face and she'll be back in the States but its not a reconnection. but I do think you guys will talk maybe she'll regret a little bit of how the break up was handled but its not that she just made a hasty decision and moved she was looking for something electrifying in her life she needed new energy she needed to feel again she needed to be alive I think breaking all ties not just to you was going to help her do that so she might explain a little more but remember this is down the line probably a good eight months out.to the best thing is tried to get closure and move on and live your life I don't think a guy is going to be sticking with her right now as in long term. I think she's just going through a different phase like a kid in a candy store. IP: Logged |
BellaFenice
Knowflake Posts: 2006
From: Pseudo-Leo with a 1st House Stellium
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted December 09, 2014 11:58 PM
Its okay Do you have any other questions? Would you happen to be in your 20's? A lot of people (including myself) feel lost at times. It is a normal feeling and it is actually a blessing because it helps you to discover who you are and what you really want in life. The holidays are really tough, but try and keep your head up because life will get better. IP: Logged |
ohfemmefatalex
Newflake Posts: 6
From: north providence, ri
Registered: Jun 2014
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posted December 10, 2014 12:03 AM
thank you cheerful and thank you bella.I'm 29 Bella the whole situation is confusing and it happened so fast. i just keep trying to wrap my head around it. IP: Logged |
cherful24
Knowflake Posts: 3367
From: chicago, il
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted December 10, 2014 12:07 AM
it might have seemed a hasty decision on her. but she's been restless and it's been in her mind and her soul that she needs change.I think she's really feeling right now she's living right now having the time of her life right now but I just want to clarify that she's working on her inner soul or spirit that is making her so happy so like I said I don't think any guy is going to stick and that's not why she left she wasn't looking to find love she was looking to find herself and really be happy enjoy living it's like she's dancing on the beach for the first time in a long time she's found what she's wanted she's found happiness I do think so come back to the states I do think you two will run into each other but honestly I think you're going to be passed at all and moved on from her but I think you guys will be good friends still but this is something like a quarter life crisis that she's going through so let her go find her happiness let her spirit being lined with her loving heart let her have that and you yourself start moving on so just know she did for her own spiritual enlightenment trying to align what's really in her heart and that is of a happy loving girl
QUOTE]Originally posted by ohfemmefatalex:
thank you cheerful and thank you bella.
I'm 29 Bella the whole situation is confusing and it happened so fast. i just keep trying to wrap my head around it.[/QUOTE] IP: Logged |
ohfemmefatalex
Newflake Posts: 6
From: north providence, ri
Registered: Jun 2014
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posted December 10, 2014 12:13 AM
thank you so much cherful and bella.I'm usually a happy person and I know life has it's onstacles but I just felt like the past few months have been such a battle. and then this whole breakup and move thing on top of everything else has made things worse. I know it's silly to be so distraught over a breakup but it's just so difficult for me. I really appreciate everything though! thank you again. I'm trying my best to stay positive. IP: Logged |
ohfemmefatalex
Newflake Posts: 6
From: north providence, ri
Registered: Jun 2014
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posted December 10, 2014 12:17 AM
I agree cherful. I know she was unhappy with her job and her living situation. and she wanted to escape it all because she felt stuck. she's 35 and she felt extremely unhappy with herself and I know she's trying to find herself.I guess it just hurts that she had to move to hawaii to do that. and it had to be the end all to us. but you are absolutely right with the midlife or quarter life crisis! ❤️ IP: Logged |
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