posted December 19, 2014 01:15 PM            

Long time no forum, but my life has been something of a hectic mess lately. I was hoping I could get someone to do a reading for me (preferably a Celtic Cross spread, but beggars can't be choosers).

I just need a little clarity on what's going on in my life/why certain things are happening, and what I can do to help the clouds clear a bit. Nothing bad... just feels a little out of control at the moment (lots of little molehills making mountains).

posted December 19, 2014 02:32 PM            

I can exchange with you. I dont think I have before?

posted December 19, 2014 02:41 PM            

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Originally posted by LoadedPistil:
Please hold. Your call is very important to us...

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posted December 19, 2014 02:43 PM            

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Originally posted by venuscorpio86:

My question is why do I have a hard time getting a boyfriend? If I go on dates it doesnt ever take off, I rarely have anyone interested in me or who really goes the distance to attempt to establish a relationship with me. What is the problem??

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Hello Venus! I'll definitely trade with you. Give me an hour or so to get home and situated (and with my cards!)

posted December 19, 2014 05:22 PM            

Seven of pents- it seems like you feel your success, good fortune isn't happening your constantly in a state of waiting. Have you been hasty with making decisions without clearly thinking them through? It seems that maybe the case. That why you feel out of control.

Two of swords- I thinkb you need to find a harmonic balance within yourself and your life right now I thinkbyour shying awayb from situations you need to face head on. But yoyr blinded to it so face any and all issues.

Three of pents- keep your head up keep working hard, and chugging through. Dont be so impatient you need to learn to be patient for good things.

I wish I could of gotten a better reading let me know how this resonates!

posted December 19, 2014 07:58 PM            

Thank you! SO, I asked: Why can't Venus find a boyfriend?

Magician - King of Cups (r) - 6 of Cups - 6 of Wands - 10 of Pents (KNoP clarifier)

I read my 5 cards like so:
the CENTER card is the root of issue
the two inner cards are things unseen/emotions
the two outer cards are things seen/actions
the left two cards are the past
the right two cards are the future

So: the root here is 6 of Cups. Are you still stuck on someone in the past? Or perhaps still have an outdated view of men or relationships from your past? Almost like a "Cinderella" fantasy -- a handsome prince to sweep you off your feet and out of the doldrums? I ask because the KoC (r) and 6 of Wands suggests to me that there was someone you wanted to be proud of, or were proud of, but now he's gone (or is no longer someone you can champion). Perhaps a father-figure? Someone who might have set the bar too high early on (or, opposite, was emotionally withholding which only made you want his affections more?) Whatever the issue, it seems to me there is some residual aspects from your past that are still clinging to your subconscious and white-washing potential mates out. They don't meet those specific standards molded early on in your heart and mind.

You want to be proud of your mate, and you want him to be successful (who doesn't), and you can find such a man... but you have to do some work on yourself. Pentacles, for me, are both professions/jobs and work we need to do on ourselves. The 10 of Pentacles, harmony-prosperity-success, can be yours, but you first have to take action as the Knight of Pentacles. You have to start living in the future a bit more, I think. Being a bit more practical and cutting some of these men a little bit of slack. Perfection is hard, and diamonds look ugly until they're cut and polished. You need to take a look at either the system you use to select men and go out with them, or, the way you offer yourself to them.

Hope any of this resonates (sorry if not) but to me, this says... get out of the shadow of the past, stop weighing people against previous experiences (and a past man who I think, the more I sit with this, really made an indelible mark on you for the worse). Start to look at things with a clean, practical slate -- be proud of both who you are and where you've made it to. Work on yourself, and the mate will appear.

Hope this helps

posted December 19, 2014 08:29 PM            

First of all, I have the 7 of Pentacles crossed by the devil. You're assessing something and are afraid of Ye outcome and/or afraid of making the wrong decision as I feel consequences are of the utmost importance in some pressing matter. With 4 of Pentavles in the il environment, I feel you're holding on to every tool you have to remedy this issue which I feel is something tangible like money or property.
Crowning is the 6 of Pentacles. Someone may be needing your help at a time where you don't have the resources to help them. Passing is the 7 of Swords, so all the finagling and manipulation you could do to stall or band-aid have been exhausted. It didn't work.
With Justice approaching, it's time to do things right. The problem seems that your shortcuts also need to be undone and remedied. My advice is to not make any more shortcuts. Do not try to use a bandaid. With Justice approaching, you have to face it and handle things in order.
Final outcome as Knight of Cups says you may be able to charm your way through, but be careful. Be nice, but don't use it as a weapon.