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posted December 24, 2014 10:10 AM            

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Hi dear!

Ty for recomending me to your friend.
I enjoyed the exchange.

I do trust in what she wrote but I would like to ask you same maybe I need a bit more comfirmation. If its ok with you?
Since I am a bit sad over this

- what is keeping A from responding to me?
We were back in contact but now he is a bit off with communication. So I wonder whats up.

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posted December 25, 2014 10:49 AM            

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3 of Swords The Empress Page of Pentacles

Is A not ready to be in a relationship with you right now? My first impression from these cards is that he's busy playing the field, basically. From these cards I imagine he thinks you hurt him very much in the past and now he doesn't trust you as much, or he doesn't take you seriously / think you're serious about how you feel about him.

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posted December 25, 2014 11:31 AM            

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I am not sure. These are more my feelings.
Actually it seems like a mix of his and my feelings, but thank you v much !

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posted December 27, 2014 05:39 AM            

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Hanna it turns out you were right.
He went on a small trip with this ex of his.
Would it be ok if you could check somwthing for me please?

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posted December 30, 2014 02:15 AM            

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Hanna it turns out you were right.
He went on a small trip with this ex of his.
Would it be ok if you could check somwthing for me please?

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Hi, I just saw this while looking for an old thread I started with you I'll do it tomorrow morning.

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posted December 30, 2014 03:05 AM            

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Thank you so much, of course I can also do an exchange.

I just wish to ask what the cards show you for next 2 months or so for me and A.
I am having a bit of a difficult time with him being distant.

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posted December 31, 2014 03:02 PM            

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Originally posted by intuitivefish:
Thank you so much, of course I can also do an exchange.

I just wish to ask what the cards show you for next 2 months or so for me and A.
I am having a bit of a difficult time with him being distant.

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Hi IF, sorry it took me 2 days!

From what I drew I think the most major thing will be a conversation about the future between you two but this will end up in some kind of stale mate. Neither party willing to change or adjust in any way, and thus it'll be a time of reflection and time spent apart. What's strange is that this will work out in your favor even if it doesn't look like it at the time. A seems to be the type to respect someone who doesn't back down from their beliefs.

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posted December 31, 2014 05:43 PM            

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Thank you so much x

I am home sick and just saw his "ex" post a pic of them together.
Will this last? Are they back together?

Sorry for asking so much :| but you were right with me.

And happy new year

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posted December 31, 2014 06:28 PM            

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I do feel they're back together but that it's based off emotion and not because they're attached. Like when people stay together because they're afraid to go out and date, or afraid to be alone. They enjoy each other's company and the relationship seems to put them both in a "fantasy" land where they're able to avoid their real life problems. So, not serious from what I'm seeing.

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Can you tell me about N's behavior with me, why is he popping up more, etc.?

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posted December 31, 2014 06:35 PM            

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Thank you.

Do get if they will last long?

What I get is that N and you still have things to resolve, I mean in a more "higher" level. He cannot get you off his mind and I feel he seeks you out to feel some sort of ease about things in his life. I just feel you bring comfort to him. And he enjoys being in your energy. There is a karmik thing going on. You both are not done with being in each lives

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posted December 31, 2014 06:44 PM            

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Yeah I just keep my distance from him and then he'll do several things in one week or something, and I'm like "UGH can we just move it along already." I can see me bringing comfort to him, I'm serious in nature and stable compared to all his acquaintances and bar friends etc. He's just going about it in a very odd way.

I asked if they'll last...

6 of Wands 5 of Swords Queen of Cups

Honestly, it seems like they'll be celebrating some kind of milestone in the near future. Possibly an engagement...but the 5 of Swords in the middle suggest there's jealousy issues. Maybe it's saying they'll last if they can overcome those issues and the "one-upping" that exists between them.

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posted December 31, 2014 06:51 PM            

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Wow, thank you.

I could not picture them last so long, they fight a lot a keep breaking up.

He even admited to his friends to not loving her at all.

Will he keep communication with me?
I guess then he has no feelings for me.

N is like a child poking at those he likes. Not necessary romantic but he keeps a front then pokes around to see if you will react and if he still has an affect on you. I feel this will go on until you honestly tell him and talk to him

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posted December 31, 2014 06:55 PM            

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When we were closer before I was pretty obvious how I felt, and he backed away and insulted me in various ways, it wasn't a good experience but I felt like he was a good person and that this had just blown up wrong. So...I'm hesitant to do anything now.

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posted December 31, 2014 06:58 PM            

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Oh okay, the 6 of Wands makes more sense. It's not a celebration so much as they are concerned with winning against one another.

Will he keep communication with me?

Moon - 2 of Wands Strength

Most likely. The Moon while representing the unknown is also indicative of an intuitive connection or things unseen. There's more information to come to light regarding this love triangle, however the 2 of Wands is someone who you inspire and inspires you and about moving forward together. Next to Strength it seems that this connection is a strong one and not to be taken lightly / treated lightly.

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posted December 31, 2014 06:59 PM            

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If anything I would ignore him and if he means to be normal with you he needs to show it in a better way.
As of right now I see him only continue like this

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posted December 31, 2014 07:01 PM            

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Oh okay, the 6 of Wands makes more sense. It's not a celebration so much as they are concerned with winning against one another.

Will he keep communication with me?

Moon - 2 of Wands Strength

Most likely. The Moon while representing the unknown is also indicative of an intuitive connection or things unseen. There's more information to come to light regarding this love triangle, however the 2 of Wands is someone who you inspire and inspires you and about moving forward together. Next to Strength it seems that this connection is a strong one and not to be taken lightly / treated lightly.

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Sorry which connection should not be taken lightly?

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posted December 31, 2014 07:06 PM            

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Sorry which connection should not be taken lightly?

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OH you and A, sorry!

And yes I'll keep ignoring him because he does need to show it in a better way.

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posted December 31, 2014 07:11 PM            

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Thank you Hanna!

Maybe there then this is temporary?

Yes he needs to be shown that its not ok and ignore what he does as your reactions only fuel him and after giving you space he will continue in his way. But by ignoring him you are taking a stance and he will notice

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posted December 31, 2014 09:14 PM            

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edit.

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Sorry if I didnt catch your question on time

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posted January 01, 2015 12:24 PM            

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It's okay, I figured we were all out celebrating so I edited out until you came back or later. I was wondering if N really, honestly just wanted to simply be friends, or will he want something more later?

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posted January 01, 2015 12:33 PM            

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It's okay, I figured we were all out celebrating so I edited out until you came back or later. I was wondering if N really, honestly just wanted to simply be friends, or will he want something more later?

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Hope you had a great time, I was at home but fell asleep since I had a fever.

I get that N does want to be friends for now, I feel he has a feeling now that he needs to keep you a friend until he sorts his head out. I get that inside him its that he wants more but needs to keep you as a friend only for now. Its out of his insecurity not because of you personally.

Can I please ask you to clarify somwthing?

On this current thing with A and me.

As how you did not saw them as being serious but later u saw that 6 of wands differently on them lasting.
So at the end do you see them last or fall out again?

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posted January 01, 2015 03:09 PM            

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Edit!

Sure! Gimme a few minutes, I literally just pulled in the driveway. I'm sorry you were sick!

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posted January 01, 2015 03:14 PM            

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What about my personality, or did you man both of ours?

Sure! Gimme a few minutes, I literally just pulled in the driveway. I'm sorry you were sick!

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I meant that it is not something personal to you, like its not something you said or did and it is not your persnolaity, its something inside of him and him dealing with himself. You he cares for and keeps in his thoughts but needs to figure it all out so he does not lead you on. so for now he will keep it friends.

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posted January 01, 2015 03:17 PM            

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I think they will fall out again before 6 months is over. I think A feels controlled by her, and he also has feelings for you (unless there's *another* woman in the mix)

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