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intuitivefish
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posted December 26, 2014 04:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for intuitivefish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Me and my ex were back in contact.
Then out of nowhere, he withdrew. People were saying problems and stress and this and that..

Now I saw on FB that he and this girl he used to date, went with his friend and his gf to the girls home town for christmas

Whatever clarity someone can give me on this.

- Is "A" (my ex) and her "E" back togeter? or what is going on?

and

- How did A feel when I sent him a message that I did hear he went with her?
- will he reply to this ?

( I did not send a harsh text, just that I am being honest that I am sad and that I wish I heard from him and that I deserve at least for him to say something )

thank you everyone who helps me

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venuscorpio86
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posted December 26, 2014 04:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for venuscorpio86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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intuitivefish
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posted December 26, 2014 05:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for intuitivefish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I saw the question you can edit now

will write to you now, sorry if I am off I am ofcourse now shaken up myself sO I might be off

I do not feel that he was embarassed, I feel he made the choice wanting to do so and not something he regret later, he does find you attractive as I did feel before, that your looks is something he finds attractive. I do want to warn you that this man is NOT ready to commit and this is something that will hurt you more than he will realize. In this case he should wonder how you feel but I am sorry to say he will not consider your feelings more than he would his. He liked what went on but to him it did not yet bring you closer towards a relationship. Please be careful because in the long run you will get more attached than him

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St@r2013
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posted December 26, 2014 05:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for St@r2013     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Awee Intuitive =(

It seems that A and E are going out together. I got - whip + dog + ring + park + heart.

It seemed that they had a fight but returned to being friends and are now together again.

How did A feel about your text:
anchor + scythe + tower

I think he was happy that he's far from your and that he doesn't need to deal with it.

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intuitivefish
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posted December 26, 2014 05:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for intuitivefish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by St@r2013:
Awee Intuitive =(

It seems that A and E are going out together. I got - whip + dog + ring + park + heart.

It seemed that they had a fight but returned to being friends and are now together again.

How did A feel about your text:
anchor + scythe + tower

I think he was happy that he's far from your and that he doesn't need to deal with it.


Thank you

do you feel my text made him relize it was not nice what he did and that he hurt me?

will he reply to it at all ?

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posted December 26, 2014 05:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for St@r2013     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think the text did make him feel like a jerk (that's why he hasn't responded yet) - he didn't want to upset you.

I asked whether he'll reply to your text and pulled one card - got the letter.

He will respond...

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intuitivefish
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posted December 26, 2014 05:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for intuitivefish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by St@r2013:
I think the text did make him feel like a jerk (that's why he hasn't responded yet) - he didn't want to upset you.

I asked whether he'll reply to your text and pulled one card - got the letter.

He will respond...


thank you Star!

I should have listened to my own gut when I felt something was wrong and my feelings pointed to this

merry christmas to me, this was a nice kick in the stomach

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posted December 26, 2014 05:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for venuscorpio86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wheel of fortune- ok, so yes I do think so thatvthey reconciled. This card represents change and that is what has taken place. Wheel of fortune changes so rapidly that yes, the opportunity arose and they did get back


Ace of pentacles-again a indicator of new beginnings. I feel he went to that town with E because he finances to do so felt energized about tjis reconciliation....probably spent a bit over holiday.


Seven of swords- hmmmm men are dumb . I feel he thought he could just kinda go no one really notice or question the relationship dont think hecwas expecting many people or anyone to ask...which is what he wanted.


Ugh sorry men are jerks yes he does owe a explanation to you because well...its the right thing to do. Im sorry your going through this. Will answer your 2nd question now.


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posted December 26, 2014 05:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for St@r2013     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by intuitivefish:
thank you Star!

I should have listened to my own gut when I felt something was wrong and my feelings pointed to this

merry christmas to me, this was a nice kick in the stomach


I pulled you a card from the soul cards:
Close your eyes
Focus on your breath
Your thoughts
Disappear gently
Peaceful silence takes place
Enter your loving heart
Sit there very quietly
Your old dreams appear
And suddenly you know
Why you came to planet earth
Do this meditation each day
Until you discover
Who you want to be

Call me and I will help you
Your divine child


*** This is actually really interesting, I was feeling miserable yesterday missing someone and feeling like my heart was breaking and did this "meditation" where you sit with your heart ... it really helped. Just visualizing being inside your heart surrounded by love. Felt so much better. *hugs*!

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posted December 26, 2014 05:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for intuitivefish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by St@r2013:

I pulled you a card from the soul cards:
Close your eyes
Focus on your breath
Your thoughts
Disappear gently
Peaceful silence takes place
Enter your loving heart
Sit there very quietly
Your old dreams appear
And suddenly you know
Why you came to planet earth
Do this meditation each day
Until you discover
Who you want to be

Call me and I will help you
Your divine child


*** This is actually really interesting, I was feeling miserable yesterday missing someone and feeling like my heart was breaking and did this "meditation" where you sit with your heart ... it really helped. Just visualizing being inside your heart surrounded by love. Felt so much better. *hugs*!


thank you so much !
many hugs, I will try it later when I calm down I can bearly breathe now

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posted December 26, 2014 05:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for venuscorpio86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Justice- I think A will respond A feels it the right thing to do. And only fair

Five of wands- hes I believe a bit concerned that you will argue with him in regards to this so at the momentbfeels a bit....on defense inside like imagery shows the boys are holding sticks in front of them as kind to shield themselves from any kinda attack.


Four of wands- I think his response will be short and kinda dull flat ...he will refrain from anything that will involve too much explanation.

I also have another only if your up for it though....did HN intend to keep seeing/talking to me after tHAT night or no?

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posted December 26, 2014 05:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for intuitivefish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by venuscorpio86:
Justice- I think A will respond A feels it the right thing to do. And only fair

Five of wands- hes I believe a bit concerned that you will argue with him in regards to this so at the momentbfeels a bit....on defense inside like imagery shows the boys are holding sticks in front of them as kind to shield themselves from any kinda attack.


Four of wands- I think his response will be short and kinda dull flat ...he will refrain from anything that will involve too much explanation.

I also have another only if your up for it though....did HN intend to keep seeing/talking to me after tHAT night or no?


I did write that I dont want to fight or argue but that I do desrve to hear something. It was actually a nice enough text concidering what I found out.

my "old" self would have told him to F* off and never to speak to me again but I took the more mature aproach.

do you maybe get if it will be "soon " as in days or if he might take long to respond?

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HN has not even made up his mind about what next. He for now only knows that that thing was good with him and that yes communication with you can resume but I feel like he wont push much of the conversation yet reply when you might text but sorry to say I do not feel him putting a lot of effort in

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Vivi327
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posted December 26, 2014 01:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Vivi327     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Intuitive I have to be honest...I pulled many times with tarot and playing cards and I do not think they are together

Tarot I got knight of pents, 8 of swords, tower,8 of cups and 10 of wands

In my playing card spread the last card I pulled was 10 of clubs and it's practically has the same meaning as 10 of wands...burdens...if these two are together I see it ending and ending very badly

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posted December 26, 2014 01:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ikja     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Can I just say that my heart goes out to you 10 fold. I have been in the same situation where I found out my ex went back to his ex via social media and it devastated me. Especially because there was NO honesty about their reconciliation. For me, I ended up going to his house and obtaining some closure. It involved me crying a lot!!!!! I would not recommend a surprise visit; but what I would say is, try your best to get to a place of closure on the betrayal you feel. Even though my friends thought I was crazy for going round, I felt like and still feel like grabbing closure by the neck helped me to function a little bit better on a day to day basis.

Wishing you healing and internal balance hun xxx

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posted December 26, 2014 01:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for intuitivefish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Vivi327:
Intuitive I have to be honest...I pulled many times with tarot and playing cards and I do not think they are together

Tarot I got knight of pents, 8 of swords, tower,8 of cups and 10 of wands

In my playing card spread the last card I pulled was 10 of clubs and it's practically has the same meaning as 10 of wands...burdens...if these two are together I see it ending and ending very badly


Thank you.

They had many break ups and fights before. So I did not expect this since he was making effort towards me .

Can you please check how he felt over my text where I said I was sad he went with her?

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posted December 26, 2014 01:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for intuitivefish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ikja:
Can I just say that my heart goes out to you 10 fold. I have been in the same situation where I found out my ex went back to his ex via social media and it devastated me. Especially because there was NO honesty about their reconciliation. For me, I ended up going to his house and obtaining some closure. It involved me crying a lot!!!!! I would not recommend a surprise visit; but what I would say is, try your best to get to a place of closure on the betrayal you feel. Even though my friends thought I was crazy for going round, I felt like and still feel like grabbing closure by the neck helped me to function a little bit better on a day to day basis.

Wishing you healing and internal balance hun xxx


Thank you on your kind words xx

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posted December 26, 2014 01:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Vivi327     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Here you go
Justice death 5 of cups

He feels terrible, he knows he treated you wrong and 5 of cups is the ultimate card of regret and remorse..he may also feel like he lost any type of chance he had with you...

If I may ask a question...what are Louis true feelings and intentions for me please...il be happy to answer what ever questions u have

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posted December 26, 2014 01:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for intuitivefish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Vivi327:
Here you go
Justice death 5 of cups

He feels terrible, he knows he treated you wrong and 5 of cups is the ultimate card of regret and remorse..he may also feel like he lost any type of chance he had with you...

If I may ask a question...what are Louis true feelings and intentions for me please...il be happy to answer what ever questions u have


His name gave me a smile, so he feels like a good kind person to me. He does not feel like he would want to hurt you.
I feel there will be a deeper bond with you two. Something stronger than you had before. I do feel this man to be significant in your life.
Also that he will be in a category of a true friend, not saying he will stay a friend but thst you will have a good stable thing, firm roots.
This I feel he wants with you. So this is more a mix of what I see for you two and what he feels.
He wants to treat you nice.

Can I ask something else? Do you see a reply from A or what might happen now with us?

Thank you so much x

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posted December 26, 2014 01:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Vivi327     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks intuitve. I will do it on a few. Taking s lunch break!

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Vivi327
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posted December 26, 2014 02:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Vivi327     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I will come back to this... I pulled so many times but couldn't really connect...for some reason I see you taking a stand and walking away...but il get back to it...also I keep getting something abou someone moving or helping someone move. Please let me know if this resonates

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posted December 26, 2014 02:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for intuitivefish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Vivi327:
I will come back to this... I pulled so many times but couldn't really connect...for some reason I see you taking a stand and walking away...but il get back to it...also I keep getting something abou someone moving or helping someone move. Please let me know if this resonates

Its ok dont worry over looking any more maybe best to let the energy settle.
I dont know about moving, maybe his friend but I really dont know.

Thank you on your time and energy

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posted December 26, 2014 07:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astro keen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Intuitive,

Sorry to hear about your travails. I pulled a Romance Angels card for you, and the message was to stay optimistic about your love life,

"in order to have a strong influence on your Love life satisfaction, the Angels guide you to shift to a more optimistic perspective. Even if you've had your romantic hopes repeatedly dashed, there's still reason to hold the faith that real love can be yours..... If you believe it!

Take action steps to positively manifest the love life you desire. See and imagine yourself with your partner who embodies the qualities that are important to you. Imagine that person appreciating and loving you, too.

You can write a list and conduct journalling sessions about your feelings, hopes and desires. You can also create a dream board with images and phrases related to your goals. Your positive outlook will make you into a more physically and energetically attractive person."

Intuitive, I think I may have also pulled this card for you sometime ago. The message sounds familiar.

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posted December 27, 2014 03:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for intuitivefish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you Astro! Yes I think it came before also.


Thank you all on your help x

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