posted December 27, 2014 01:15 PM            

she has such a bad life pressure from her family, like REALLY bad, domineering mother with successful siblings (she's successful but as big as her siblings and her mother keep giving her **** about it)

she has not been happy for the longest time- I haven't seen her for years but before my vacation we bumped into each other by accident in airline offices. I noticed her anorexia but unable to bring up the topic since she had to go to office- and she was very closed off, though amiable.

She's 33 years old.

after years of not meeting, that bumping was probably a sign I ignored now I don't know what to do.

I know I can't do anything except let things be.

If I did something back then, maybe she wouldn't be like this.

i know lots of you won't do health reading, so I pulled my own cards and got The World and chill ran down my spine.

posted December 27, 2014 02:38 PM            

First of all I must tell you that blaming yourself or thinking you could have done something is not how she sees it and is something that you have have have to stop thinking. This will help with the energy flow and it will keep less quilt from her.

She really feels like a failure in life and she felt like she is worthless

You bumped into her in the most right moment that was meant to happen. You will be her guiding light and you will help things along.

PRAY PRAY PRAY
just ask for guidance and send her love and visualize her in pink and white light.
You can make all the differnce.
I feel that the coma will last a bit but all the energy work you can try and do will help her and you will see results.

PLEASE try and stay calm and try and bring yourself back into positive energy. I am not saying sing and dance around but try and have a positive outlook.

posted December 27, 2014 09:55 PM            

thank you- just an hr ago she started to respond after her sister massaged her feet- and seem like she started to respond when doctor checked her eyes. still in coma but very good sign.

I will keep the faith up, this is a big lesson for me as well to look around me more than just focusing the outside circle. I still have a lot to learn

posted December 28, 2014 04:24 AM            

Be thankful now and keep those prayers up, she will need a stable figure in her life now and maybe this came to you.

Later when she recovers look to find her professional help, but go with baby steps if she will be resistant to it.

She will pull through but what comes after is most important to keep her well and alive, to help her heal and move forward

When you are next to her, close your eyes, take a few deep breathes, put your hand on her body ( maybe around stomach) and visualize sending white light and send her loving thoughts.
- if you cannot be next to her physically do it mentally just visualize it.
This is healing and anyone can do it and trust that it can help her and it will.

---Hope she gets well I will keep her in prayers also