posted January 02, 2015 04:39 AM            

I saw you are here so wanted to ask something quick if you feel like it.

I did send him a happy new year message, just now.
not sure if he saw it yet, i didnt get the delivery report yet.

will there be any communication between us while this thing with her is going on?

posted January 02, 2015 05:20 AM            

I pulled 3 major cards: Magician, Temperance, Hermit. I feel that while he'll be flattered, he may not respond. Communication with you at present is not something he can deal with. (I hope I'm doing this right)

I feel inclined to say that showing you are open to communication is the most you can do. Withdraw if he doesn't come through. You now need to busy yourself with things that take him off your mind.

posted January 02, 2015 04:11 PM            

I feel he will be getting better in the end of the month but I feel he will need to go back again ( I am really sorry ) I ony tell you how I feel this, please remember energy can change and many things can change as well and they can go better only by believing

I feel this year he will have slight improvement in his energy and overall behavoirs. This will help him in keeping up with selling the house. what else I feel is may keeps coming to me so sorry to say but house sale wont happen sooner but again this can change, dont take my words as gospel.

his year will only slightly change because his health took a toll on him and he has a hard time getting back on his feet so to say.
but I do feel some helping hand come to you in the form of a male, maybe a bit younger than him? could be a family member of friend but he will help out with the money or will pay some bill at least half or something.

its hard for me to look into the whole year so these are aspect i feel around mos year or i think it is in the 1st half of the year.

you will be coming to help again and i feel you will try to find someone who can come help him more often in his health.

but job wise, I dont feel one come yet

I am really really sorry this dose not sound so great I truely hope I am wrong, but this year feels only slightly better than the previous one and it will take effort to make it better

posted January 04, 2015 04:10 AM            

I sent A a text, saying I am glad he is in my life and hoping our communication improves.

posted January 04, 2015 04:38 AM            

I got Aurora which seems to be very approving of your action:

You are flying high right now which may threaten others. But don't descend, because others may soon become inspired by your example (He may follow your example and be clear of his intentions too - that remains to be seen). Your intentions have created an upward trend in your life. You may also worry about the future, about where your new path is taking you. Trust that each moment is taking care of itself. God has always taken care of you, and He always will. Ask me to help you stay focused on the now, and to let go of the worry habit.

Do you work with children by any chance? Another card I pulled and wondered what it was about was Rosetta:

"You have a gift for working with young people, or parenting children. Children respond to your openhearted nature. You are also charmed by their straightforward honesty, laughter and innocence. In many ways, they engage and heal your own inner child. You seek to give these children that which you desired when you were young. You also feel an inner calling to improve the lives of children, and you may wonder about the best way to proceed.

I am with you as a guardian angel who delights in bring you new opportunities to help children. All you need to do is notice the young people whom I bring into your orbit. Be your delightful self with these children, and the rest will take care of itself. As soon as your read for an increased role, please say the word to me, and I will increase the number of lives you touch. Please be assured that I understand your temperament and will only bring you to situations that match your passions, talents, and interests. You are a blessing to children everywhere!"

posted January 04, 2015 04:44 AM            

thank you Astro on your help, it resonates a lot. Yes I am feeling full of love and warmth.
I dont expect a reaction or response because I know how he can be and its not something easy to respond to.

posted January 12, 2015 12:59 PM            

Could i ask a couple of questions please? I am seeing J these couple of days and while things seem well on the surface, I wonder how he views things and if he has come to a decision about us. Would you able to say how he's thinking at the moment?

I am thinking of deferring all my studies to the next academic year so I can cope with other family demands. I also need work done on the house in time for my son's marriage. My mum isn't well etc, so I could visit her instead. Do you think it is a good idea to defer all of the studies or could I manage to do part of the course next term?

Thank you. I will be able to exchange with you tomorrow if that is OK.

posted January 12, 2015 01:27 PM            

At the moment ( these few days surrounding your meeting) I feel like he is excited and nervous as if not knowing what to expect. I get he is quite nervous, like he can feel you expecting to hear decisions and answer from him.
I get he has made no decision but is waiting on the meeting and to see how you are going to be with him, how it goes and so on. I feel he is closer to making a decision but one has not been made yet, he feels undecisive.

its important to be yourself and not to put pressure on "answers" from him when you see him, let things flow naturally because feelings from both sides are there.
at the moment he has a lot going on in his head but a lot of excitment .

Before I read your question about studies till the end I felt you should defer only a part of your studies, I felt like if you defer all of them the tough part will be restarting all of them again and gettting back on track, I feel if you keep some for now it will keep you focused enough to keep going when you take up on the rest after some time, also try to keep up with people who take the same studies, I mean like keep in touch with them so that you keep on top of things and see what is going on.
Keeping some studies will be better for you.
it will help you also focus on other things you need to take care of and you will manage it all well.

posted January 13, 2015 07:09 PM            

How is A feeling right now? 8 of pentacles, 3 of swords, 3 of cups

He is absorbed in his work right now, busy with the practicalities of making a living. His heart is not in a good shape though - he is very conflicted. The eventual outcome seems undecided. He may be considering a break from a friendship or the reverse - a rekindling of friendship ahead.

Sorry . 3 of swords came up twice!!

posted January 14, 2015 08:21 AM            

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Originally posted by Astro keen:
Intuitive, thank you for your reading. You were right - he had not made a decision, at least till the very end. I did ask for answers (didn't get a chance to read your message till later), but none were forthcoming! Could you say what's keeping him in this state -is it fears or disappointment?

Strangely, we exchanged belated xmas gifts and he had bought me a lovely gift but didn't give it to me till just before leaving. I wondered if he had even been undecided about that. Weird!

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thank you on the reading.