posted January 10, 2015 03:10 PM            

Anyways.. it's been a day and I haven't even heard from him

Can anyone see how he feels/thinks, how this might play out?

posted January 10, 2015 03:18 PM            

Can I ask what do you sense regarding my trip next week? Will anything romantic might happen on the trip?

posted January 10, 2015 03:31 PM            

Your card (cards signifying you): You are very keen towards him. You feel that you have gone through so much and finally you met someone who you can actually see a future with.

His card is interesting because his card is the the second chance card. He needs to learn from his past and not make the same mistakes with you. There's a pattern with this guy and he needs to forget about the past and focus on the future with you. His card is also signifying that he is willing to give a second chance.

What you should do - the cards are saying you need to overcome the obstacles in this relationship. Don't let it go and wait for him to be the one contacting you - fight for this relationship. Also, don't sweat the small stuff. Realize what is really important and focus on that.

What you shouldn't do - emphasizing again that you shouldn't wait for him to make all the moves now. You need to be more active and don't be passive here, wanting him to make the first move etc etc.

Potential: there's a tendency to always look for something else, someone better, someone more exciting. You need to actually allow yourself to get more involved in this relationship.

My feeling is that this guy is not gone from your life, there will be a second chance. I think you need to clarify with yourself what is it that you really want and need. You will need to be the one who will reach out to him first (you're probably not happy with that).
I think there can be a good potential between you two once you won't think about what else can be out there but actually give this a try.

posted January 10, 2015 03:38 PM            

you're not going with someone with a romantic interest? Is this really a vacation cuz I don't see it like far off to where you can never been to this place again unless you make it to the kitchen would be, is that correct? Is it more like a trip...one u have gone to before or can go back to...I feel like this place holding something to Mexican is that correct?

posted January 10, 2015 03:45 PM            

This is a holiday/trip to a place I've never been to, about 9 hours by plane (but yeah, I could go back there again, many people go there often for holiday). I'm meeting the people I'll be traveling there - one of my best friends, her boyfriend and two of his friends. I've never met the guys.

posted January 10, 2015 03:50 PM            

QUOTE]Originally posted by St@r2013:
Send him a text I don't think you need to be scared (in my mind I always think the other side will say something nasty but then they don't ...). I really think the cards are saying you need to fight here a bit, don't just let this go...

This is a holiday/trip to a place I've never been to, about 9 hours by plane (but yeah, I could go back there again, many people go there often for holiday). I'm meeting the people I'll be traveling there - one of my best friends, her boyfriend and two of his friends. I've never met the guys.

I did a spread for myself regarding the trip and the heart card came out so I was wondering if something might happen... so you think yes? maybe with one of the guys... Could be interesting ... [/QUOTE]

posted January 10, 2015 03:57 PM            

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Originally posted by cherful24:
Lol now I get it!!! Ur meeting people there, that's the connection.... Will one of those guys live by u? Like u can see him again? I think that will happen. So it's not about going back to that place, it's about u going back and seeing him. So yes I think u will hit it off with one of them and have some sort of encounter... fun times!

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Ohhh should be interesting then! At the moment all four live in a different country to me (a country I grew up in) so we shall see...

posted January 10, 2015 03:59 PM            

Guest service, for some reason I'm very quick not to say food services like banquet hall...so if u have done In that and I don't see that's a good fit. you have a lot of masculinity energy, go getter...a hard worker, and a lot of leadership energy and you could do well in a manager or supervisor role. Ideally, concierge is what I see. Even if it's a business that caters to executives.

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Originally posted by tgem:
Hi Cherfulgood to see you! I'll do your Chicago question
My question is: what do you see as my ultimate successful career? Like what was I made to do in this lifetime (destiny career I guess? BRB with yours!

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posted January 10, 2015 04:30 PM            

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Originally posted by tgem:
Ok, I definitley see a successful move back to Chicago this year! It will be a wry beneficial move for you. You will make your $80K mark but it will only come with heavy negotiations. You may not be so hot about the people you work with in the beginning as they may cause obstacles or not hold up their end of responsibilities. This will probably cause some worry and second-guessing on your part as to whethercuou made the right decision but eventually a man will show up that will be very significant for you and the position will prove to be a very good mover for you! I see him as some sort of soulmate for you so this may be professionally or even romantic but he will make getting the position worth it

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posted January 10, 2015 04:31 PM            

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Originally posted by cherful24:

This is probably going to sound stupid.
But I think u are in hospitality right, or where?
But I can see u working at a retreat, like sandels or a place like that... away from ur home...but the place becomes ur home. I'm very quick not to say some sort of spiritual retreat because I think you need a lot of energy a lot of activity around. A lot of happiness, not a place where people are in recovery or need help. Stay away from that energy.

Guest service, for some reason I'm very quick not to say food services like banquet hall...so if u have done In that and I don't see that's a good fit. you have a lot of masculinity energy, go getter...a hard worker, and a lot of leadership energy and you could do well in a manager or supervisor role. Ideally, concierge is what I see. Even if it's a business that caters to executives.

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posted January 10, 2015 04:45 PM            

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Originally posted by St@r2013:
Ohhh should be interesting then! At the moment all four live in a different country to me (a country I grew up in) so we shall see...

Thanks Cherful! I really hope it goes well with the guy for you!

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posted January 10, 2015 04:47 PM            

Perhaps u can work in the form of management and thus cater to them. Or being a concierge for that industry

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Originally posted by tgem:
Yes, I've done hospitality before in the food banquet services..meh...not that great. I do want to be in a happy environment making people happy!! I need lots of positive energy!!
What about anything to do with music? Do you think I have any professional future with the GGG band? I LOVE music!!!

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posted January 10, 2015 04:52 PM            

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Originally posted by cherful24:
I don't professionally see anything. Of I can be wrong.

Perhaps u can work in the form of management and thus cater to them. Or being a concierge for that industry

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posted January 10, 2015 05:05 PM            

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Originally posted by cherful24:
I just talked to him...it's over . No second chance. 😵

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Oh no =( I'm sorry

posted January 10, 2015 05:08 PM            

We text and I felt my last reply was strong... in my favor.

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Originally posted by St@r2013:
Oh no =( I'm sorry

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posted January 10, 2015 05:10 PM            

i want to know if me and miguel will get back together.
he broke up with me to go back to his x girlfriend.
i already helped her bust him for being on plenty of fish looking for new dates.
i don't think they'll stay together in the long run.
he and i had a fight so bad he threatened me with an order of protection so i don't try to talk to him anymore but i told him he could come back to me.
will he ever come back to me and be my boyfriend again?
he goes out of state for 2 weeks at a time for work then comes back to tennessee for 2 weeks so he will be back in tennessee around the 18th.

posted January 10, 2015 05:11 PM            

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Originally posted by cherful24:
Do u think he'll have a change of heart? Maybe contact me again, etc

We text and I felt my last reply was strong... in my favor.

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I did another spread just now and again got second chance...

I really don't want to give false hope but the cards I got was for second chance and reconciliation....

posted January 10, 2015 05:15 PM            

6 of wands makes me think he's gonna come back around.

the high priestess makes me think you won't make the money you need in chicago.

posted January 10, 2015 05:21 PM            

He's not ready for u...he's kind of messed up....ur not. So don't be upset that ur energy isn't clicking with his. Really spiritual wise, ur to advanced/good for him...that's why it doesn't work out.

QUOTE]Originally posted by sunnybunny:
cherful i will start on your question and come back. here's mine.

i want to know if me and miguel will get back together.
he broke up with me to go back to his x girlfriend.
i already helped her bust him for being on plenty of fish looking for new dates.
i don't think they'll stay together in the long run.
he and i had a fight so bad he threatened me with an order of protection so i don't try to talk to him anymore but i told him he could come back to me.
will he ever come back to me and be my boyfriend again?
he goes out of state for 2 weeks at a time for work then comes back to tennessee for 2 weeks so he will be back in tennessee around the 18th.

thanks
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posted January 10, 2015 05:23 PM            

QUOTE]Originally posted by sunnybunny:
cherful

6 of wands makes me think he's gonna come back around.

the high priestess makes me think you won't make the money you need in chicago.

thanks[/QUOTE]

posted January 10, 2015 05:25 PM            

QUOTE]Originally posted by sunnybunny:
cherful

6 of wands makes me think he's gonna come back around.

the high priestess makes me think you won't make the money you need in chicago.

thanks[/QUOTE]

posted January 10, 2015 05:27 PM            

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Originally posted by St@r2013:
I did another spread just now and again got second chance...

I really don't want to give false hope but the cards I got was for second chance and reconciliation....

In the first spread it talked about you fighting for it and that's what you're doing so hopefully he'll get it

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posted January 10, 2015 05:35 PM            

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Originally posted by cherful24:
Than you!!! I hope so. I already miss him😊

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