posted January 16, 2015 09:18 AM            

I'm going to copy and paste from the old thread to take into account what you had said earlier about my meeting with J: "... I feel like he is excited and nervous as if not knowing what to expect....I get he has made no decision but is waiting on the meeting and to see how you are going to be with him, how it goes and so on. I feel he is closer to making a decision... Its important to be yourself and not to put pressure on "answers" from him when you see him, let things flow naturally...."

Anyhow, our weekend together went very well. I did ask him questions before he left and he was noncommittal, said he needed to think about it - no change there! I wondered if he was disappointed in something or just too anxious over the future.

Strangely, we exchanged belated xmas gifts and he had bought me a lovely gift but didn't give it to me till just before leaving. Weird! Was he even unsure about that?

I will be seeing him again later this month- me visiting his part of the word on a study trip. Could you say how that would go? What lies ahead, if any thing?

posted January 16, 2015 09:26 AM            

I am glad that the meeting did go overall well.

He wasnt disappointed I feel that he is taking it all in still, he is processing what you said and he is giving it more thought. He was very excited yes and had no idea what to truely expect from you, he was worried you would "jump" all over him about commitment and the future and that you would pressure him and he was then releaved that you did not. The things you asked he expected and I feel like he prepared himself as to what to tell you.

Do expect him to be slow, and do know he will take his time and he will take as much time as you permit him to take ! so in a way you will have to do something to "push" him into a decision and not let it stay status quo for a long time.

He was not going to give you your gift if you had not given him his, he would have felt like it was unfair if he gave you something and worried if maybe you would feel bad if you got him nothing, so it was more him worrying how it would look on you.

posted January 16, 2015 09:56 AM            

would you want to try them on me a bit? I am curious to see what you get.

So.. maybe something simple, I sent A a text on wednesaday, got no reply. Maybe, why and will there be?

posted January 16, 2015 10:09 AM            

Whip, Moon, Lilies

A mixed picture. Whip and Moon indicates a conflict related to his attraction to you. The final card lilies seems to indicate a positive outcome - so, yes, he will respond.

posted January 16, 2015 10:12 AM            

its so interesting to see, so many on here use many different decks, different type of cards and most get a similar result.