posted January 28, 2015 09:37 PM            

the weirdest thing happened at work to me today I was cornered into giving names of who said what and it's absolutely against policy but my manager totally cornered me. I've only been there for 3 months so it's just shocking but I just wanted to see how my work environment is going to go for the next month or two.
I'm a lot more knowledgeable and have more years of experience than my manager and I know I'm making a lot of changes and people are not that happy but that's what I was hired to do... So I'm confused and how my manager sees me and what she wants for me is she okay with the fact I have the most experienced in the office cuz I almost feel like she keeps trying to hinder my success I almost feel like she's a little bit resentful if not jealous

posted January 28, 2015 09:42 PM            

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Originally posted by cherful24:
I think he will if not tonight then its in a few days I don't think it was anything intentional of like blowing you off but he does seem to be preoccupied and doesn't know how to answer your text. Did you ask him a specific question such as like do you want to hang out

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Well I said hey what are you doing?

Is there someone he's seeing?

posted January 28, 2015 09:48 PM            

...I don't necessarily see him interested in anyone to be honest so if there is another girl it's probably more her doing than his

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Originally posted by luckystar25:

Well I said hey what are you doing?

Is there someone he's seeing?

I'll be right back with your question

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posted January 28, 2015 09:50 PM            

Your going to have to make a difficult choice and DONT trust anyone you work with right now. Whoever is going to get in trouble is going to try to get back at you so message I hear is watch where you step..

Another card of change and new begginings..you didn't really like that job much any way right? Look at this as its a push to put you on the right path, one that will bring you to a job you enjoy...theres many new opportunities that will be presenting themselves

posted January 28, 2015 09:53 PM            

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Originally posted by luckystar25:
That was so wrong of your manager to do that

Your going to have to make a difficult choice and DONT trust anyone you work with right now. Whoever is going to get in trouble is going to try to get back at you so message I hear is watch where you step..

Another card of change and new begginings..you didn't really like that job much any way right? Look at this as its a push to put you on the right path, one that will bring you to a job you enjoy...theres many new opportunities that will be presenting themselves

Seven cups + fool

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posted January 28, 2015 09:53 PM            

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Originally posted by cherful24:
I don't get that he has a girlfriend. I can't see him dating now if he's talking to other girls that's definitely a possibility. However is there some reason why he would think you asking him that would be a little out of the blue? Did you have some cutting word you said to him in the past or something

...I don't necessarily see him interested in anyone to be honest so if there is another girl it's probably more her doing than his

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posted January 28, 2015 10:01 PM            

QUOTE]Originally posted by luckystar25:

Monday he texted me out of the blue being all cute and sweet and we talked for a few hours, he kept saying things that I know he wanted to hang out but I slept 3 hours that night and worked all day.. And was dead..but he sent me some nauvhty pics lol and I sent him a few also and it was fun, but then I texted him because I wanted to hsmg out tonight and nothing [/QUOTE]

posted January 28, 2015 10:53 PM            

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Originally posted by cherful24:

okay then that's it I thought it was for hanging out originally....and I'm sure he got that as well but I think he doesn't want to. however I don't think it's because he doesn't want to see you I just think he's not up for it tonight and doesn't know how to respond cuz he does want to offend you or upset you

QUOTE]Originally posted by luckystar25:
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Monday he texted me out of the blue being all cute and sweet and we talked for a few hours, he kept saying things that I know he wanted to hang out but I slept 3 hours that night and worked all day.. And was dead..but he sent me some nauvhty pics lol and I sent him a few also and it was fun, but then I texted him because I wanted to hsmg out tonight and nothing

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posted January 29, 2015 12:13 AM            

yeah can you answer why this happened?

is my manager out to make me look like I'm not as knowledgeable as she is or what? I'm shocked that she did this and didn't stick up for me and instead question me and I actually confronted her on that. So I'm not sure how this all came about and why I got dragged in to this if this was something personal with me or what anything you can tell me would be great because I'm bordering on telling HR

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Originally posted by luckystar25:
Do you use cards or are you intuitive?

Do you wanna do another exchange?

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