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cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 3648 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted January 29, 2015 01:54 PM
I made a formal complaint to human resources on what happened.... about my manager demanding the names and what they said.... in regards to an Audit that was supposed to be confidential. HR agreed with me and even said if I'm in such a role, then it's a conflict of interest. ...but still I am worried. I wanted to get an outlook on what will happen. Leave ur question IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 1015 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted January 29, 2015 01:57 PM
I want to, if you are ok that I dont use cards.- what do you get regarding me and A and our communication for next month brb IP: Logged |
tgem Moderator Posts: 3244 From: Registered: Jan 2013
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posted January 29, 2015 02:04 PM
I'll pull some cards cards for you Cherful...I totally sympahize with your situation. My professional background was in auditing for a major NA pharma company. I totally get it, trust me. My question is: is LR avoiding making plans with me? Why? BRB with your spread IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 1015 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted January 29, 2015 02:04 PM
I feel that your manager will be warned against such things, I can see your manager feel like they have every right to do so but I feel like this was in a way supposed to happen to prevent more in the future because you did stand up for yourself.I dont know what can be done in such situations so please try to put this in context to your work, but I do feel it being pulled back, them asking for names, I feel like they will say something like - fine ok then just the report. I feel like they will be pressured into not taking names, I get a feeling you will "win" in this situation, I dont use cards but the image of the Justice card came to me, so there will be some justice in this matter and it will be to your side, not for the manager. IP: Logged |
tgem Moderator Posts: 3244 From: Registered: Jan 2013
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posted January 29, 2015 02:26 PM
Ok Cherful, what will be the outcome of the audit issue at work? Book-roads-birds-key-anchor Birds being the central card, there will be a lot of discussion about this between several people going back to why certain secret knowledge was revealed (book). They will have to make a decision but roads mirroring key and birds + roads shows they will make the decision in favor of you and everything will turn out ok for you. Key is a very positive card (one of the best ) and the anchor at the end proves the universe is focusing the answer around your job . You'll be ok...IP: Logged |
cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 3648 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted January 29, 2015 02:47 PM
Ty!!!!I know she was in the wrong... it says she can't do that, per our accreditation.... but why did she.....I think they want to get ride of someone, and I feel a little used. But what if they Don t like me QUOTE]Originally posted by intuitivefish: I feel that your manager will be warned against such things, I can see your manager feel like they have every right to do so but I feel like this was in a way supposed to happen to prevent more in the future because you did stand up for yourself.
I dont know what can be done in such situations so please try to put this in context to your work, but I do feel it being pulled back, them asking for names, I feel like they will say something like - fine ok then just the report. I feel like they will be pressured into not taking names, I get a feeling you will "win" in this situation, I dont use cards but the image of the Justice card came to me, so there will be some justice in this matter and it will be to your side, not for the manager.[/QUOTE] IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 1015 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted January 29, 2015 02:51 PM
quote: Originally posted by cherful24: Ty!!!!I know she was in the wrong... it says she can't do that, per our accreditation.... but why did she.....I think they want to get ride of someone, and I feel a little used. But what if they Don t like me ]
I get the feeling your manager knew who would be reported and that your manager does not like this person and has some personal issues with them, it feels more personal then professional. I dont see it as something personal with you but more like using you to get to someone else. IP: Logged |
cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 3648 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted January 29, 2015 03:06 PM
Ty!!!!Yes, I would say they are but it's not because of u.... it's them. This person feels like they do this a lot. Kinda flakey. Not the most optimistic attitude towards Liu...little like Debbie downer. So it's them...going back and forth if they want to go out...its not because of u QUOTE]Originally posted by tgem: Ok Cherful, what will be the outcome of the audit issue at work? Book-roads-birds-key-anchor Birds being the central card, there will be a lot of discussion about this between several people going back to why certain secret knowledge was revealed (book). They will have to make a decision but roads mirroring key and birds + roads shows they will make the decision in favor of you and everything will turn out ok for you. Key is a very positive card (one of the best ) and the anchor at the end proves the universe is focusing the answer around your job . You'll be ok...[/QUOTE] IP: Logged |
cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 3648 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted January 29, 2015 03:14 PM
? I reported my manager. It was my manager who was inthe wrong. quote: Originally posted by intuitivefish: I get the feeling your manager knew who would be reported and that your manager does not like this person and has some personal issues with them, it feels more personal then professional. I dont see it as something personal with you but more like using you to get to someone else.
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intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 1015 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted January 29, 2015 03:20 PM
Yes .. thats what I said in my first post I am sorry I dont understand the confusion?I said what she did is not a personal thing against you... Also I posted a question, my 1st post, dont know if you saw it? IP: Logged |
cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 3648 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted January 29, 2015 03:28 PM
I'm not understanding the first sentence....I get the feeling your manager knew who would be reported ....who would be reported... in what content... like I would report her or she new I would have something to say about the staff member who I feel they don't like? Brb with urs!
quote: Originally posted by intuitivefish: Yes .. thats what I said in my first post I am sorry I dont understand the confusion?I said what she did is not a personal thing against you... Also I posted a question, my 1st post, dont know if you saw it?
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tgem Moderator Posts: 3244 From: Registered: Jan 2013
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posted January 29, 2015 03:29 PM
Ok..thx. Just to clarify, it's a neighbor of mine. So she's not mad at me or anything? I really enjoy her company but just didn't want to upset her in any way..I think the merc Rx is kinda driving me nuts. Is more of a winter blues thing for her? Like no motivation to actually do anything?QUOTE]Originally posted by cherful24: Ty!!!! Yes, I would say they are but it's not because of u.... it's them. This person feels like they do this a lot. Kinda flakey. Not the most optimistic attitude towards Liu...little like Debbie downer. So it's them...going back and forth if they want to go out...its not because of u QUOTE]Originally posted by tgem: [b]Ok Cherful, what will be the outcome of the audit issue at work? Book-roads-birds-key-anchor Birds being the central card, there will be a lot of discussion about this between several people going back to why certain secret knowledge was revealed (book). They will have to make a decision but roads mirroring key and birds + roads shows they will make the decision in favor of you and everything will turn out ok for you. Key is a very positive card (one of the best ) and the anchor at the end proves the universe is focusing the answer around your job . You'll be ok...[/QUOTE] [/B][/QUOTE] IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 1015 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted January 29, 2015 03:30 PM
well of the people you had to audit !! It feels to me she knew who you would have to report (name). thats allIP: Logged |
cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 3648 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted January 29, 2015 03:37 PM
A little more frequently... enough to make u happy. But he still seems unsure..... does that resonate, is they're something he'd be unsure of? Anyway it won't be where you're hoping, but it will be really good. Some confertation. R u 2 having some bumps? It looks like it will get better
quote: Originally posted by intuitivefish: I want to, if you are ok that I dont use cards.- what do you get regarding me and A and our communication for next month brb
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intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 1015 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted January 29, 2015 03:39 PM
quote: Originally posted by cherful24: A little more frequently... enough to make u happy. But he still seems unsure..... does that resonate, is they're something he'd be unsure of? Anyway it won't be where you're hoping, but it will be really good. Some confertation. R u 2 having some bumps? It looks like it will get better
He is my ex so we are in a way trying to work things out, figure out whats next. We had some bumps so this does resonate. Thank you.
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cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 3648 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted January 29, 2015 03:54 PM
Correct. She's not made at u. ...She's a moody person to begin with. Can I ask if my position will be restructured so that I don't report to my current boss? quote: Originally posted by tgem: Ok..thx. Just to clarify, it's a neighbor of mine. So she's not mad at me or anything? I really enjoy her company but just didn't want to upset her in any way..I think the merc Rx is kinda driving me nuts. Is more of a winter blues thing for her? Like no motivation to actually do anything?QUOTE]Originally posted by cherful24: [b]Ty!!!! Yes, I would say they are but it's not because of u.... it's them. This person feels like they do this a lot. Kinda flakey. Not the most optimistic attitude towards Liu...little like Debbie downer. So it's them...going back and forth if they want to go out...its not because of u QUOTE]Originally posted by tgem: [b]Ok Cherful, what will be the outcome of the audit issue at work? Book-roads-birds-key-anchor Birds being the central card, there will be a lot of discussion about this between several people going back to why certain secret knowledge was revealed (book). They will have to make a decision but roads mirroring key and birds + roads shows they will make the decision in favor of you and everything will turn out ok for you. Key is a very positive card (one of the best ) and the anchor at the end proves the universe is focusing the answer around your job . You'll be ok...
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cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 3648 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted January 29, 2015 03:55 PM
I think you'll be happy with whatever type of relationship u get from him
quote: Originally posted by intuitivefish: [QUOTE]Originally posted by cherful24: [b]A little more frequently... enough to make u happy. But he still seems unsure..... does that resonate, is they're something he'd be unsure of? Anyway it won't be where you're hoping, but it will be really good. Some confertation. R u 2 having some bumps? It looks like it will get better
He is my ex so we are in a way trying to work things out, figure out whats next. We had some bumps so this does resonate. Thank you.[/B][/QUOTE]IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 1015 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted January 29, 2015 04:00 PM
Yes any progress right now, I am happy. I am happy to have him in my life. So for right now. I am glad there are baby stepsIP: Logged |
cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 3648 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted January 29, 2015 04:20 PM
How Lon g do u see me working here?Can u see when I'll get a new job....here or in Chicago.... Will it be better/worse, etc quote: Originally posted by intuitivefish: Yes any progress right now, I am happy. I am happy to have him in my life. So for right now. I am glad there are baby steps
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intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 1015 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted January 29, 2015 04:29 PM
quote: Originally posted by cherful24: How Lon g do u see me working here?Can u see when I'll get a new job....here or in Chicago.... Will it be better/worse, etc
I see you stay maybe 2-3 more months, so after 3 months I see you in a new job. I get one will come quite fast after you decide to look more intense for one. And this one will have a much better work enviroment, I dont see if Chicago or where you are currently but I do see it be much better for you, less stress better coworkers. So,I have my birthday next month, at end of next month, what do you get around my bday? Might I spend it with A ?
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cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 3648 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted January 29, 2015 04:35 PM
How about the pay? I think he'llll have something to do with your birthday I don't know if you guys will spend it together like that actual day but I definitely think he'llll talk to you send you something via email a picture of flowers or something. I want to say 90% that maybe like a meet up for coffee or lunch or something but want casual around your birthday
quote: Originally posted by intuitivefish: I see you stay maybe 2-3 more months, so after 3 months I see you in a new job. I get one will come quite fast after you decide to look more intense for one. And this one will have a much better work enviroment, I dont see if Chicago or where you are currently but I do see it be much better for you, less stress better coworkers. So,I have my birthday next month, at end of next month, what do you get around my bday? Might I spend it with A ?
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intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 1015 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted January 29, 2015 04:38 PM
i keep getting the feeling there will be an even better job after that as well. I am not getting anything specific over pay, so I would say more towards it being similar. But yes on it being much better work enviroment... Do ask more if you want, just letting you know I am off to bed right now and, thank you
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tgem Moderator Posts: 3244 From: Registered: Jan 2013
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posted January 30, 2015 07:37 AM
quote: Originally posted by cherful24: Correct. She's not made at u. ...She's a moody person to begin with. Can I ask if my position will be restructured so that I don't report to my current boss?
Sorry for the delay- got sidetracked and was unable to get back online.... Roads-tower-flowers-ring-snake Well it looks to me like you will possibly have a choice here to seperate from her and the current structuring will be re-evaluated. The flowers as the central card show me however it pans out, it will work out well for you or at least you'll be happy with the decision I see her as the snake. They MIGHT make a decision to let her go (snake mirroring roads) and ring mirroring tower but that seems a bit harsh unless she's had previous incidences so I would say more of some possible re-arranging of things.
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tgem Moderator Posts: 3244 From: Registered: Jan 2013
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posted January 30, 2015 08:58 AM
BTW..would you mind looking into this question: should I give up on D and try to open my heart for love with someone else? I can pull for you again if you wish IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 1015 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted January 30, 2015 10:20 AM
I am back if you want to exchange more ?As the text with pic I sent before has not reached him ( no delivery) I sent something via FB, something I think might bring back memories I saw he read it, no reply but what did he think of it? IP: Logged |