posted February 04, 2015 01:57 PM            

I haven't even started working yet but I have to "quit" due to accomodation and financial issues. No one can help me out.

This was my "dream job" which I thought would open the doors of graduate school and a future career in investment law. The Universe chose to take it away from me, which breaks my heart.

I thought I could finally breathe and move out of my parents toxic atmosphere, but my dream crumbled right before my eyes. It took me about 6 months to find this job and the thought of having to re-apply to jobs again is extremely painful, especially as I have no clue when I'll be moving out.

I am kindly asking you for confirmation.

Am I making the right choice by sending my resignation? Will I find another job soon?

Thank you.

posted February 04, 2015 02:09 PM            

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Originally posted by athenegoddess:
In my opinion you need to try harder to make this opportunity happen. I don't feel its the universe I feel its negativity that doesn't want you to make for this job.

With that said I see in about 5 years you are going to be transformed by a serious love relationship/marriage that will produce children and this is your future.

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Thanks.

The problem is that I'm starting the job in two weeks and I have no money, no apartment (it's miles away from home). I tried getting loans, I can't. I tried finding jobs at random places, they declined my application. My parents won't help me out because they went bankrupt.

Unless there is a miracle of some sort, I don't see what I can do.

My future is to become a housewife?

I'm only focusing on the near future right now. I need a job and I want to go to graduate school first before thinking of falling in love and having children.

It sounds great and it cheers me up, but for now I need to build my career.

posted February 04, 2015 02:12 PM            

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Originally posted by MineAgain:
Thanks.

The problem is that I'm starting the job in two weeks and I have no money, no apartment (it's miles away from home). I tried getting loans, I can't. I tried finding jobs at random places, they declined my application. My parents won't help me out because they went bankrupt.

Unless there is a miracle of some sort, I don't see what I can do.

My future is to become a housewife?

I'm only focusing on [b]the near future right now. I need a job and I want to go to graduate school first before thinking of falling in love and having children.

It sounds great but for now, I need to build my career.

My future surely can't be to become a housewife. This is tragic. [/B]

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posted February 04, 2015 02:15 PM            

My sincere apologies, I'm slightly emotional tonight. I can't read properly. I didn't mean to sound harsh or rude.

It's very sweet of you to even bother replying to this thread. Plus, what you said is very positive.

My intuition is telling me to give it one more week but I'm afraid I won't be able to show up at work if I can't find an apartment.

You're right, I should not let the Universe dictate what I should do. It's just everything seems so complicated. I want to push harder but I'm afraid of the breach of contract that could arise if I can't move on time.

@ Vivi

Thank you very much for your kind help.

I can't really read my intuition right now although part of it tells me to keep pushing because you never know. I think I won't be able to recover from this if I were to resignate.

posted February 04, 2015 02:21 PM            

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Originally posted by Vivi327:
@ athene would it be possible if you can read my chart and tell me when il be married? Il trade if you'd like

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posted February 04, 2015 02:30 PM            

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Originally posted by LoadedPistil:
How many miles we talkin'?

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It's basically a different country.

posted February 04, 2015 02:32 PM            

There are ways you can find a roommate too. Maybe someone kind enough to help you in exchange for cleaning up or something. There are many ways!

I'm also seeing here Jupiter in the 2nd house and you are experiencing your Jupiter return. Ninth house cusp is being activated so Money should not be an issue for you very shortly as long as you keep following your heart.

@V you can start a new thread and post your natal chart.

posted February 04, 2015 02:36 PM            

Some replied but wanted me to get the kids from school at 4.30 which isn't possible, some others sounded shady ... Argh.

I've only been looking for shares, not flats per se.

posted February 04, 2015 02:41 PM            

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Originally posted by athenegoddess:
Hmm.. Would you want me to inquire with my friend he lives near brussels. What is the exact place located so I can see how far he lives from it?

He is a very nice guy.

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Thank you very much Athene. That's very sweet of you.

posted February 04, 2015 02:46 PM            

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Originally posted by MineAgain:
Am I making the right choice by sending my resignation?

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NO

I had one awfull break-up. I was "on the street" within a night. I asked a friend to sleep there for some nights and had a house to live in within a week for free. I am unpredictable and those things happen to me, but the comfort of a house could not hold me back to leave this situation. I could manage that in a time without facebook, couch surfing or whatever opportunities that are out there by now.

This job is very good and there should be other opportunities today than in my days to find an interim solution to that.

From the bottom of my heart I wish that you will see that opportunity of the sleeping obstacle very soon!

Edit: That is soon

posted February 04, 2015 03:03 PM            

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Originally posted by athenegoddess:
I don't know what time it is there but he will respond soon.

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posted February 05, 2015 02:44 AM            

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Originally posted by athenegoddess:
He said its 40 miles away. What do you think of that?

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Thank you very much athene

Yes, it sounds very interesting. Do you know the exact area? I'll check on a map.

Thanks!

posted February 05, 2015 06:54 AM            

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Originally posted by MineAgain:
Thank you very much athene

Hum. Does he think going back and forth between Watermael-Boitsfort and this area is feasable daily? (It's only for 8-10 days).

Thanks!

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At this point Google should be your best friend, ask her and she will tell what your options are for traveling between these two places. Trust me she knows everything and she works for free lol

posted February 05, 2015 06:58 AM            

However, athene didn't give me the exact area, just the distance from my work place so I can't potentially look on Google map right now.

posted February 05, 2015 10:13 AM            

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Originally posted by MineAgain:
I know Computer

However, athene didn't give me the exact area, just the distance from my work place so I can't potentially look on Google map right now.

I'll definitely check it out on Google once athene gives me the name of the area.

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I am sure you will be able to make the trip most places will have some form of commuter train on bus to get u around