posted February 02, 2015 10:01 PM            

But I just feel like I have bad luck with Aquarius men. I'm a Cap sun, Leo Asc, Taurus Moon, and Venus Aquarius. I've had Aquarius come in and out of my life and I get along with them the best.

But when it comes to romantic relationships, (I've been with 2 Aqua men) things just mess up. They are capable of love, and they are deeply caring people, and they will fight for you and will show affection if they truly do care... However, the distance they show sometimes is something I can't handle so I end up pushing them away. I've done this more than once in both relationships with Aqua men. And even though I'm the one to break up with them, why is it so hard to get over them?

posted February 03, 2015 12:23 AM            

Especially if making a square aspect natally;as this can suggest that you easily feel insecure in close relationships and partnerships.

Emotionally,you crave physical intimacy and expressive signs of affection and caring. Things that you can visibly see and feel(Taurus).

But you also want intellectual banter, stimulation,enlightenment and to discuss a series of issues ranging from politics to technology.A strong need to feel mentally stimulated(Aquarius).

The combination of the two does suggest issues with Aquarius as they'll fulfill one aspect of your security needs(Venus),but not the other(Moon):Leaving you feeling "half-empty" or "half-filled".

I wonder where your Mars sign is at?Any additional aspects to other planets?

What aspects does the Moon make with other planets? What house is it in?

What aspects does Venus make with other planets?

posted February 03, 2015 11:09 AM            

It's true that I really do crave expressive signs of affection and I do need people visible signs of emotion, but yes. You're so on point that I do need to be intellectually stimulated I think this is why I am pulled to Aqua men so much because they intrigue me like no other. My most recent ex is an Aqua sun, gemini moon, and an Aqua venus. I think his moon was our downfall.

My mars is in Capricorn, but as for aspects and all of that, I really don't understand how to read them but I would love to learn. Here is my chart:

posted February 04, 2015 12:05 AM            

And how is the relationship that you have with your siblings/neighbors? (Chiron in Libra in 3rd)

But back to Moon/Venus/Mars.

Moon in 9th is a compulsive writer/learner just as much as Sun/Moon in 3rd/9th is(and that is ME btw Sun in 9th/Moon in 3rd).

I am assuming that your brain rarely switches off;always absorbing,storing, thinking,conceptualizing,contemplating etc.

This is the stuff that keeps you sane;making sense of the people,places,world around you intellectually.Trying to understand why people do what they do etc.

With Moon in Taurus,could the contemplations be related to how people handle their financial affairs,what sexual needs really are,what it means to be secure? The issue of materialism? Or perhaps why there is obsession with beauty or what true beauty actually is etc.?

The Moon forms a square aspect with Uranus in Cap and Venus in Aquarius; suggesting sensitivity first to too much detachment (Aquarius)and not enough physical closeness(Taurus)

Whilst with Uranus,it also suggests there is too much focus on rationale and practical consideration(Cap)to the detriment of needs that are purely indulgent and self-gratifying(Taurus).

So if a lover tends to project a consistent pattern of what is highlighted above,you may feel insecure,abandoned, not paid enough attention to and very much alone. Even when with them.

But you must understand that this chasm is within you. YOU are the one who gives mixed signals of what you want and may even cringe at getting the physical closeness(Taurus Moon) that you desire.

I am particularly taken by the close aspect of Mars/Neptune conjunct:As it suggests a tendency for one to have some issues expressing their "go getter" attitude(Mars). Or repress it a lot(Neptune-Mars conjunct).

In Cap,it could suggest that you may have good strategies,very good ideas on how to do things/implement change but there are issues of insecurities and inhibitions that get in the way (Neptune conjunct)i.e "Maybe it won't work?", "oh its a stupid idea!", "maybe someone else has thought of it and it didn't work?" etc.

The square to South Node also suggests an oversensitivity in having others "chip in" from the peanut gallery.

An example of this is when someone says something like "It would be a mistake to have someone take that Manager's job. That person would be a complete idiot!" etc.

This statement could have you fly off the handle and respond like; "So what are you saying? That people who want to succeed and improve themselves are "idiots"? That we should all just be satisfied with what we have?" etc. Before storming off and leaving the person's mouth wide open.

The reason being is that you may have possibly applied for the post yourself,but secretly of-course(Mars-Neptune conjunct):So that person's put-down seem like a personal affront to you( Mars in Cap square South Node in Aries).

The confusing thing for them is that they didn't know that you had your heart set in it.So they don't understand what your prickly and heated reaction is all about(as Mars-Neptune rarely expresses its goals/plans openly).

My point is that people may hurt you without being aware that they are hurting you etc. Surfacing a very defensive,prickly and heated response from you.

Some may think that you are volatile and moody and probably have a chip on your shoulder. Not really getting why you get so angry about things that they don't associate with warranting that kind of explosive response.

In relationships,this could amount to a similar reaction by you/your partner i.e one of you abruptly ends things unilaterally.

The reasons for doing that may be more difficult to decipher rationally-as they may be strongly motivated by emotions(Neptune). An emotional response that may be very subjective.

So walking out,storming off ,saying "its over" is very much characteristic of South node in Aries square Mars.

But the reasons for the storming off may be not be clear to the person who does the breaking up. They just 'know" that it won't work etc.

Usually regret comes in much later(Mars/Aries storm off are usually followed by regret).

My advice?If its you who is throwing your toys out of your cot, count to ten and leave your reaction for at-least one day before letting the other person know that you just can't deal with them anymore.

If its your lover that ends things,you may agonize for weeks on end on what you did wrong. Go over everything with a fine tooth comb. (This is the Mars-Neptune conjunct projected to your lover)