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Topic: Exchange: Should I give him a chance...
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Moonfish Moderator Posts: 4867 From: Tropical Ocean Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 23, 2015 05:30 AM
There's this guy named Jesse who has been crushing on me for almost a year now. He's a pretty good-looking guy but chemistry wise my feelings are neutral at best. I've tried to see myself with him as more than a friend...but the connection is just not there. What would happen if decided to go on a date with Jesse? What kind of relationship would we have? Thank you in advance leave your question(s) below IP: Logged |
birdy Knowflake Posts: 1561 From: Registered: Dec 2011
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posted February 23, 2015 05:53 AM
Im going to practice some intuitive skills here. I got the feeling of boredom but friendship. I think he'd realize there wasnt that much in common but he would find difficulty breaking it off..I dont get a sense he would be the one to break it off. There is a awkward feeling about it. You guys might just date for the sake of dating is what I sensed.IP: Logged |
birdy Knowflake Posts: 1561 From: Registered: Dec 2011
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posted February 23, 2015 05:56 AM
Heres tarot to the question what would happen if you guys went out- The star, The hermit, The hanged man R.IP: Logged |
Moonfish Moderator Posts: 4867 From: Tropical Ocean Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 23, 2015 05:57 AM
Ah thank you Birdy, that wouldn't surprise me one bit lolIP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 1300 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted February 23, 2015 07:58 AM
my Q - how/what is A thinking about our "fight" last night ? does he want to mend things? last night i calmly said things afterwards so to try and make it better so I dont know where his thoughts are now on things. thank youi get that at the begining, it would be good, you would have fun and he would like to take you out and make things special for you, but I get after a bit of time ( month or so ) you would get a bit bored. he feels a bit predictable, or he would seem so to you and you would miss the excitment, "butterflies" and your eye would start to wonder and look at others more than you would normaly. I dont see this lasting long, but it being more a "filler" until someone else comes along. IP: Logged |
Moonfish Moderator Posts: 4867 From: Tropical Ocean Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 23, 2015 02:40 PM
Thank you Four of Artifacts - Six of Artifacts (reserved) - Three of Tones (reserved) - Two of Man (reserved) A is in a phase of withdrawal right now. His pride as been a little shot by the argument you two had, and unfortunately this may have done some permanent damage on your relationship only because he was at a slow pace to move things forward with you to begin with. Clarifier: Ace of Man (reserved) He will communicate with you again soon, but now I feel the growth in the relationship has moved back a little. IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 1300 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted February 23, 2015 02:43 PM
thank you this makes perfect sense, especially how yes we were taking it slow.well we are both to blame but yes his leo pride was hurt IP: Logged |
Moonfish Moderator Posts: 4867 From: Tropical Ocean Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 23, 2015 02:57 PM
Oh a Leo man, no wonder. I don't think you should lose hope, but for the time being give him space, and he'll come around eventually.Just curious of your opinion, if I posted a picture of David do you think it might give a clearer vision of what his intentions for me could be? IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 1300 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted February 23, 2015 03:06 PM
yeah we had similar fights before and each time they hurt the same, I do know leos like drama.. but its unnecessary... he did kind of initiate it.. yup again, no wonder for a leo and now withdrew waiting for me to tell him how sweet he looks sulking licking his wounds :P are you meaning to post them here?
Not sure, for example me, I get more of a sense of the person not so much his intention towards others, I get more how they are as a person/the inside. so maybe ask around first if someone is good at that is that what you were asking? IP: Logged |
Moonfish Moderator Posts: 4867 From: Tropical Ocean Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 23, 2015 04:17 PM
I can imagine, so is his need for a constant ego boost a major or minor issue for you? Which I'm assuming was a theme you had to deal with in the past from him, and likely in the future if you got back together.*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~* Yes thank you it's not my preference to post pictures on the Internet but I was just curious if It was something that could give you more insight on him. He's just a very mysterious scorpio that I can't figure out. I have one more question (feel free to ask me another), is David the man I will end up with or will it turn out to be someone else? IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 1300 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted February 23, 2015 05:00 PM
the ego boost is not so much an issue, more his need for some drama, I think while it was going on he enjoyed the fight. as I am a pisces am enjoy when someone more dominating takes on the role to guide me around so I enjoy many parts of his leo majesty Honestly for the pic I am even getting to tell you not to post it, atleast not for me, I dont get I would be much help. I can read pictures well ( so i am being told by others) but not in the use you hope. that is quite an "ultimate" question. Yes I can feel a strong bond and yes I can feel a strong connection/relationship build with the two of you. But I am sorry to say now, like this year, I dont feel a marraige I dont even feel it much on his mind. I am better at sooner events thought, so this year or few months, there are too many things that can change which can influence the outcome so I am unable to even asnwer something like this. I dont feel it now, no, sorry. IP: Logged |
Moonfish Moderator Posts: 4867 From: Tropical Ocean Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 23, 2015 05:23 PM
Ah that makes sense, yes having pisces moon and rising I see where your coming from. Well dont hesitate to give updates or ask more questions. Btw do you guys share any saturn aspects? This seems like a bond that is made of cement. *~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~* No worries, I understand thank you for your honesty. Either way, I really am starting to see him take interest in another girl...and the sad part is they would actually make a good-looking couple. To be honest it made me cry, but at least it would force me to finally move on if they got together. IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 1300 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted February 24, 2015 01:06 PM
I have no idea about his saturn aspects, Ibearly know mine IP: Logged |
Moonfish Moderator Posts: 4867 From: Tropical Ocean Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 24, 2015 07:32 PM
Oh ok, well if your ever interested in having a chart reading I'd be more than happy to give you one IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 1300 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted February 25, 2015 07:48 AM
thank you for the offer but I am not so much into astrology point of view for such things.IP: Logged |