posted February 25, 2015 04:08 PM            

Whatever my parents do to me, (Yelling, scorning etc.) I somehow reflect on him as it, it was his mistake. I'm aware of this. (I'm 23 but the situation is complicated)

But he seems to be withdrawing instead of supporting me. He says if he helps the relationship would turn into a needy one, which we both don't want or like.

In this case I'm really wondering if he is the one or not. I'm really fond of him.

I need a through reading of what's happening in this house, in my mind and his mind. I Would also appreciate some hints about future

I Would gladly do tarot or if you must, I could try helping you with your astro charts.

posted February 25, 2015 04:31 PM            

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Originally posted by birdy:
I pulled 3 cards-
The emperor, Judgment, The chariot r.

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posted February 26, 2015 12:20 PM            

I am doing a cross of truth spread for you to get a better view.

1. Present card, what covers you. The lovers.

What is affecting you right now is not so much your situation at home but how to mend the relationship with you boyfriend. This reading will be concerning the two of you.

2. What crosses you, Influence. Temperance

Temperance is a lovely card in readings when conflicts arise. It shows that emotions will be balanced through communication and compromise. The temperance angel often brings healing.

3. The basis of the situation, 8 of cups

The 8 of cups often means that you will choose to leave a situation that is no longer working for you. I feel that it is not our boyfriend but have you been thinking of moving out? There may be some sadness involved but it would be in your best interest. If you choose to do this make sure that it is amicable with your parents NOT the reason.

4. This is behind you, 5 of pentacles

This is showing that if the influence of this card has not happened yet then it will in about a week's time. The 5 of pentacles is showing a feeling of being alone, that you are the only one feeling like this. It is not the case. You need to ask for help in this situation and it will come. Perhaps ask a girl friend if living together would be an option. If you have been thinking of moving in with your boyfriend it would not be a good idea at this time.

5. Crowning thoughts, 6 of pentacles

This card in position 5 shows what your "crowning thoughts" are in relation to the problem. They go forward and manifest so they will have an enormous impact on the situation! Good news this is a positive card showing that you will want the situation to be fair without a lot of conflict, yelling etc. LOL. So...Any conversations you have will go smoothly. There is good energy to support you.

6. Immediate future, 7 of swords

You might be feeling suspicious of your boyfriend in that he wants to just get out of this situation? He doesn't. He wants to help. Read the rest of this spread. You don't have to come across as needy.

7.Your fears, The Empress

The empress is showing fear. Are you fearful of being alone? The empress also brings growth, happy conclusions to situations. She also shows that you are also a warm compassionate person. Don't "be afraid" when talking to your boyfriend and your parents about this situation. Show your softer side.

8.Enviromental factors, 3 of wands

This is how others are viewing this situation. The 3 of wands indicates progress, initial success, and even more planning to keep everything going in the right direction. So...your boyfriend (and your parents) will take you seriously when you confront them

9.Your hopes, page of pentacles

This is showing what you really hope for.
The page of pentacles is showing a lot of support when you have a tedious task before you. YEAH! So it shows that you will have the focus, backbone to stick with this. Don't however try to sidestep effort, or you will fall flat on your face. The positive energy is there.

10. Outcome, queen of swords

This is the outcome...The queen of swords shows a woman not be trifled with. You! She can point to the need to put your foot down. You already know what to do (you've been thinking of this all along. The universe is giving you the strength to do this. Just one caution, don't forget the empress and use your softer, feminine side.