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Topic: need help with a situation, can't exchange but do give advice
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ILovePoems
Knowflake Posts: 49
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Registered: Feb 2015
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posted March 02, 2015 03:27 PM
  
Hi,can anyone help me? I wrote a post before ( a few days ago) saying that my ex (E) was ignoring me but was looking through my pictures. Yesterday he saw my message an gave me his number so we could talk. He was making sure I wasn't fake at all an that he wants to see me. I told him we can cam or talk on the phone. He said "I'll have to cam you at some point". He's been hurt before, and i told him i have too. I thought he would never talk to me but he finally did. I also heard he's manipulative but I still care about him. :/ can anyone tell me how come he acted right that time? I was surprised because he always seem to hate me, he knows that I love him an care about him.IP: Logged |
ILovePoems
Knowflake Posts: 49
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Registered: Feb 2015
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posted March 02, 2015 04:34 PM
Also I would like to add, I'm kinda freaking out here.  IP: Logged |
dustib
Knowflake Posts: 41
From: USA
Registered: Feb 2015
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posted March 02, 2015 06:37 PM
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Originally posted by ILovePoems:
Hi,can anyone help me? I wrote a post before ( a few days ago) saying that my ex (E) was ignoring me but was looking through my pictures. Yesterday he saw my message an gave me his number so we could talk. He was making sure I wasn't fake at all an that he wants to see me. I told him we can cam or talk on the phone. He said "I'll have to cam you at some point". He's been hurt before, and i told him i have too. I thought he would never talk to me but he finally did. I also heard he's manipulative but I still care about him. :/ can anyone tell me how come he acted right that time? I was surprised because he always seem to hate me, he knows that I love him an care about him.
I feel like he is using you as a convenience when he's bored or lonely. You have said he's manipulative so why would you want to be around him? Unfortunately I don't see him changing so you are either going to keep playing his game and getting hurt or you need to walk away. A man who cares about you will not hurt you. IP: Logged |
ILovePoems
Knowflake Posts: 49
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Registered: Feb 2015
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posted March 02, 2015 07:03 PM
Its just I care about him so much. its so hard to walk away. IP: Logged |
dustib
Knowflake Posts: 41
From: USA
Registered: Feb 2015
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posted March 02, 2015 08:13 PM
Then know you will continue to be treated the way you are. Why do you care about him? I have read your other posts and it sounds like you need to forget about him and work on you. Hate to be brutal but if you stay there for him or with him, it will never change. IP: Logged |
ILovePoems
Knowflake Posts: 49
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Registered: Feb 2015
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posted March 02, 2015 09:37 PM
Alot of people told me to find someone better, so that isn't brutal lol. I care about him because I don't want him to get hurt anymore. I feel that's why I'm here. To try to change him in someway.IP: Logged |
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