posted March 06, 2015 02:08 PM            

So, there was a moment of madness this morning and I messaged my ex jokingly asking why he changed his number, but didn't let me know. We didn't end on bad and explosive terms, we just stopped talking like a month and a half ago. He didn't message back.

I'm trying to everything in my power to stop myself from doing something stupid because he knows for a fact that being ignored does my head in.

So, I'm trying to reign in this bloody Aries moon. I think what annoys me is the fact that, he could have been like 'hey, I've got a new girlfriend or whatever and I think it's best we don't talk etc.' I wouldn't have been ecstatic, but he chose to ignore me.

Now, I'm even more determined to move on with my life; and I have to trust that the world is going to balance the scales of justice on my behalf.

posted March 06, 2015 06:22 PM            

I am sorry
I think ignoring sends a message too. Maybe he's trying to move on as well? Or didn't like the tone of your message? Or thought answering you would give you false hopes?

I can pull cards for you, but I need a question.

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posted March 06, 2015 07:32 PM            

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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
Hi

I am sorry
I think ignoring sends a message too. Maybe he's trying to move on as well? Or didn't like the tone of your message? Or thought answering you would give you false hopes?

I can pull cards for you, but I need a question.

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I think there are so many possibilities for his non response. He definitely could be trying to move on, or has moved on. I've just known him for such a long time that I didn't think that our relationship would end up being non-existent i.e. hard feelings and animosity.

It's so hard for me to fathom. How he could just let our relationship go and not even batter an eyelid. I'm quite cerebral, so this is going to haunt me for a very long time.

Overall, this relationship was exceptionally painful for me. It brought to the fore alot of scars and I shared alot with him. Someone that I thought I could trust, and it seems that I couldn't or he couldn't handle it.

My question is (I guess), will I ever understand the extent to which he hurt me/let me down; and how long will that take?

posted March 07, 2015 08:09 AM            

Was this a good relationship? How long have you been a couple?

Are you sure you miss the relationship or his so-called indifference makes him more attractive maybe? Are you sure this is not a matter of pride? From what you are telling me, this wasn't a happy relationship, so why missing it so much?
I am just trying to help with my apparently nosy questions

Let me know if you have a guidance question, rater than just venting

How about your love life during the next period?

But ask what you really want to know.

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posted March 07, 2015 08:40 AM            

I did actually manage to pull some cards for myself. I managed to buy some cards the other day, I did a little spread for myself and found that it made some sense.

However, I didn't use a traditional layout etc. Maybe that's wrong... ah well:

The relationship was happy until it turned out that he was keeping some things from me. I felt at home with him and I let him into my feelings, my struggles and my world. I thought he was all present in our relationship - Apparently not!

I think his indifference makes me more annoyed tbh, I think for the fact that he doesn't feel that he has any explaining or apologies to offer makes me even more angry. People make mistakes everyday of the week, but own your **** and be genuine about it, put yourself in the position of someone else and recognise and understand exactly what you did that hurt them.

The only thing I want from this is for him to understand how much his lies, avoidance of the truth etc. Hurt my feelings. The cards pulled (by me) indicate that he will, but he has a journey to undertake and it will be some time. I've realised that I don't even think that a relationship with him is what I want, i just want the justice tbh.

posted March 07, 2015 10:03 AM            

I am really sorry for your experience

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I seem to have loved you in numberless forms...

posted March 07, 2015 10:06 AM            

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I seem to have loved you in numberless forms...