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Topic: @intuitivefish, peacefulclouds, please?
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poochycat Knowflake Posts: 1127 From: Vancouver, Canada Registered: Jun 2013
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posted March 07, 2015 11:08 AM
MK and I are still on the outs. I did phone and left a message. 1. Will he phone me back 2. Will he be happy when he sees me 3. Will he charge me for something I asked him to make for me or be willing to let it go. Of course I will exchange with you two lovelies Poochy IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 1477 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted March 07, 2015 12:28 PM
So, his ego right now is very hurt, I say ego because deeper down he doesnt want to have a grudge against you and does want things to ger better. I do feel his ego want to charge you and possibly be mean to you, but I also feel like when it comes to the actual act of charging you he would be willing to let it go and not take any money from you, it wouldnt feel right and it would make him later feel bad if he does. But he is right now reacting from his ego and not his heart.He will get back to you but I am not getting a "when" on this, only that it might not be as you hope, he is still hurt. He will be happy but I get him not showing it totally, more that he will try to put on a poker face but you will see it on him that he is actually happy. IP: Logged |
poochycat Knowflake Posts: 1127 From: Vancouver, Canada Registered: Jun 2013
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posted March 07, 2015 01:02 PM
Thanks Intuitive for getting back to me. He is more stubborn than I am with his Taurus ascendant even though my sun sign is Taurus! I phoned and asked if we could get together on Thursday, my day off, so I'm hoping it will be then. If he doesn't I don't know what to do. We are engaged to be married in about six weeks. I don't want this over our heads. You can see why I asked for a reading! If you would like an exchange go for it PoochyIP: Logged |
peacefulclouds Knowflake Posts: 846 From: somewhere in south and the east Registered: Jan 2014
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posted March 07, 2015 01:42 PM
Hmm unfortunately I sense deeper issue activated.. the hanged man popped out.It doesn't have to be bad however, but i do sense some block that is hard to break. It's as if when you guys talk about sensitive issues it always get shut down. it's OK when it's all light stuff but when things gets heavy, the cooperation is not there. I am not sure if I'm making sense, but I feel this relationship of yours will be like walking on eggshells if this communication issue persists. I think in two weeks or so you will have another big argument- it will be break or make it type of situation. Be careful and try to center yourself. What I see is now both of you are not seeing your real selves, if it makes sense... I don't see him charging you anything, so you'll be OK. He'll be OK when you see him. IP: Logged |
poochycat Knowflake Posts: 1127 From: Vancouver, Canada Registered: Jun 2013
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posted March 07, 2015 01:48 PM
Thank you PC. We have been having little tiffs here and there as the wedding approaches. I am going to try suggest counselling to try to iron things out between us. I'm feeling rather depressed right now.IP: Logged |
peacefulclouds Knowflake Posts: 846 From: somewhere in south and the east Registered: Jan 2014
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posted March 07, 2015 02:02 PM
don't be depressed ( i know it's easier said than done ), the outcome is yours (and his) to make it helps to see things beyond marriage, a relationship is a constant improvement of two people in one path, so see this as one of lessons you both have to go through, remember the positives of what you both have and use that as motivation for both of u to mend the relationship good luck IP: Logged |
poochycat Knowflake Posts: 1127 From: Vancouver, Canada Registered: Jun 2013
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posted March 07, 2015 02:33 PM
So kind of you PC. XXIP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 1477 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted March 07, 2015 02:39 PM
many many hugs poochy. stay strong and keep those thoughts positive.IP: Logged |