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From: salem,or usa
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posted March 08, 2015 04:20 PM            

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Hello

Anyone up for some exchanges? I'M really upset and just so....tired I'm hurt etc....can anyone tell me how did B.D. feel about me when we were together? Was it all based on lies and did he only date/see me to make M.E. mad? Im totally hurt and sad wish that so badly this wound would heal....

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From: salem,or usa
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posted March 08, 2015 06:07 PM            

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From: chicago, il
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posted March 08, 2015 06:07 PM            

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I'm sorry! Be right back with yours

my question is EDIT...I just spoke with him and he's not upset he's coming over tonight...

what are his thoughts and feelings with me and being with me? Is he attracted to me, intimately

can I also ask what you see for me in terms of my job? I like it there but I think there's a better opportunities for me with the better fit elsewhere. And I'm trying to find the state that I want to live at. Maybe North Carolina maybe somewhere like in Tennessee. can you pull anything from the cards

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posted March 08, 2015 06:12 PM            

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I wouldn't put it that way. there was an attraction to youbecause of his motives of making somebody else mad but he new this girl is really going to get ****** off and basically take him back... He knew that so he knew what he was doing but again he was attracted to you.

I can also say he really had no idea you would be so upset about it. But he's selfish. it wouldn't be worth to tell him off or attack him on his character about it. because to him there wasn't any thing invested with you to such a short time.. so it hurts you and I totally get where you're coming from, he's a dick. He shouldn't have done that.

I'm just advising you to take some time alone, not look for anybody. Not date. Just wait a couple of months regroup get rid of this energy from people in your past. start fresh and new and maybe better men come to you

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From: salem,or usa
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posted March 08, 2015 06:20 PM            

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It was along time ago....this just came out I try so hard to make peace amends since we run into eachother have mutual friends....did he even care about me? Or was interested im really upset hurt

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posted March 08, 2015 06:22 PM            

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honestly at that time, to be honest there wasn't much invested his energy seemed to be with somebody else. He didn't get into it thinking that you guys were going to be anything but again he was attracted to you. is really nice of you to try to keep the peace and to be honest if you tell him how you felt about it I'm sure he would gulp and be embarrassed for what he did because he didn't expect you to feel that way you thought it was too short lived for you to really be that invested and vice versa

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Originally posted by venuscorpio86:
It was along time ago....this just came out I try so hard to make peace amends since we run into eachother have mutual friends....did he even care about me? Or was interested im really upset hurt

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From: salem,or usa
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posted March 08, 2015 06:29 PM            

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Thats the meanest thing anyone ever done he used me to get this woman back....we hungout all the time & were together like a couple he treated me good and everything ....I will never get over tjis or be ok again....ill get to yours but im just so hurt crying n upset

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posted March 08, 2015 06:31 PM            

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I'm sorry sweetie. but you know I could be wrong, I have been wrong in the past.

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Originally posted by venuscorpio86:
Thats the meanest thing anyone ever done he used me to get this woman back....we hungout all the time & were together like a couple he treated me good and everything ....I will never get over tjis or be ok again....ill get to yours but im just so hurt crying n upset

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posted March 08, 2015 07:44 PM            

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Hi Venus,
Please don't feel sad and start questioning yourself because of this douche bag. I see that you have had it rough this year when it comes to relationships. My advice is for you to really figure out the type of man that you want and to try and stop attracting men that are not going to give you what you need. Write down what you want and need in a man and do not settle for less because you are worth it. You have to believe you truly deserve the best because if you don't you will keep attracting jerks and that's what they are they are jerks I'm sorry to say! You are worth so much more you just have to start believing it!

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