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Topic: Mother Daughter Relationship help
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poppyryce Newflake Posts: 23 From: lakeland, fl, usa Registered: Jun 2014
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posted March 09, 2015 11:24 AM
Hello. My daughter is twelve years old and for the past year I really feel like we are always in conflict over the silliest things. I know when kids get older parents always go through this phase but here lately she drives me crazy! Is there anything in our charts showing this? We have always been close but here lately she has a lot of attitude and I am trying to be compassionate and patient. She always seems to have an attitude and I know that is part of the teen phase, but is there anything in our charts that you see or could it be past life influences. Things that I or she could work on. I appreciate any insight! Thank you. My daughter's is the 1st chart, mine the second chart.
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Springtimeflower Knowflake Posts: 901 From: USA Registered: Jan 2014
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posted March 09, 2015 12:23 PM
[QUOTE]Originally posted by poppyryce: [b]Hello. My daughter is twelve years old and for the past year I really feel like we are always in conflict over the silliest things. I know when kids get older parents always go through this phase but here lately she drives me crazy! Is there anything in our charts showing this? We have always been close but here lately she has a lot of attitude and I am trying to be compassionate and patient. She always seems to have an attitude and I know that is part of the teen phase, but is there anything in our charts that you see or could it be past life influences. Things that I or she could work on. I appreciate any insight! Thank you. My daughter's is the 1st chart, mine the second chart.Hi Poppy, The two of you have a lot of wonderful aspects between your charts, but there are a couple of challenging ones that are being brought to the forefront because of long-term transits that have been occurring and are getting closer to your (both) planets. The two of you have her natal mars conjunct Jupiter square your natal Saturn, which makes for a push/pull feeling with transiting Pluto in Capricorn activating it. She wants to sprout wings so to speak and feels you are holding her back (your wisdom and experience). Also, you both have a synastry of your natal Sun squaring her Mercury, which can make for ego conflicts--who is right and who is wrong. This is being activated by the Neptune in Pisces transit, which can make you feel like you can't control what is happening or add a nebulous aspect to your conversations. She will become forgetful at times--like walking into a room and forgetting why you went there or telling you something that doesn't come across as truthful, but it isn't intentional. Read up on transiting Neptune square Mercury--there should be stuff online. Transiting Neptune hitting your natal sun can make you feel ineffective in handling things, but it will get better when it moves off. Your intuition may not be as accurate as it usually is at this time as well. Take care. Hugs. Hope this helps, Spring IP: Logged |
poppyryce Newflake Posts: 23 From: lakeland, fl, usa Registered: Jun 2014
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posted March 09, 2015 12:38 PM
Thank you so much Springtime. It helps a lot. This makes a lot of sense. There is a lot of push/pull feeling between us lately. You nailed it what we are going through. Spot on. I am going to look up more about Neptune and Mercury. Thank you! Also her forgetfulness!!! I do accuse her of not being honest sometimes. WOW! Need to be more understanding there. IP: Logged |
Springtimeflower Knowflake Posts: 901 From: USA Registered: Jan 2014
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posted March 09, 2015 03:00 PM
You're welcome Poppy. I'm glad it helped! You can also check out transiting Neptune squaring your natal Sun. The signs that each planet is in colors all that's happening as well and the houses, too. This transit is making it harder for you to workout the Pluto transit, but will finish first. Spring IP: Logged |