posted March 10, 2015 03:51 PM            

How is Ian feeling/thinking about me and "us"?

Is he happy where things are...want more, less, etc...

And what does he think of me in general

posted March 10, 2015 03:51 PM            

Why did he contact you? The lone man- ace of cups -seven of wands clarifier: star.

It seems like he has been keeping bit low profile but grown bored of it so he decided to contact you to spice his life up.

What he feels for you? three of swords-five of cups-four of pentacles clarifier: seven of swords. Wow. is he a ex-lover or do you had a fight about something, maybe about cheating? He seems to be upset about bad things what has happened between you and bit unsure what he feels towards you. I get that he would like to have you but not have you at the same time... like he wants to know that there is connection between you two, but at this point he doesn`t want it too be too strong. Does it resonate with you?

posted March 10, 2015 04:16 PM            

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Originally posted by Jinni:
I can

Why did he contact you? The lone man- ace of cups -seven of wands clarifier: star.

It seems like he has been keeping bit low profile but grown bored of it so he decided to contact you to spice his life up.

What he feels for you? three of swords-five of cups-four of pentacles clarifier: seven of swords. Wow. is he a ex-lover or do you had a fight about something, maybe about cheating? He seems to be upset about bad things what has happened between you and bit unsure what he feels towards you. I get that he would like to have you but not have you at the same time... like he wants to know that there is connection between you two, but at this point he doesn`t want it too be too strong. Does it resonate with you?

My question would be am I going to leave my job before Autumn?

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Ok yes you've pretty much picked up on the situation. He's someone I met online. Within minutes of talking we established there was a connection. We even share the same birthday. I've never liked and disliked someone so much at the same time, I am not the kind of person that fights but the same night we started talking online we had a huge fight lol. This happens every so often and it erupts out of nowhere. It's really strange. He disappeared for four weeks after a fight uneil last week. He seems to be so into me one minute and the next it's like he's annoyed over something and he's quiet again, I dunno... Thanks for the reading it made sense and confirmed what I suspected he was feeling like.

For you I got:

Four of cups, seven of wands, ten of Pents

posted March 10, 2015 04:23 PM            

What kind of person he sees you? The lovers-ace of wands. Are you as cheerful as your nickname? I think that he sees you as a serious love interest who is energetic and optimistic and very sexy.

How Ian sees you as a couple? Page of pentacles- ace of sword. Is one of you more practical and down-to-earth and other one more deep thinker? I get that he sees that you are different in some aspects of life, not in the negative way. More like that it`s part of the life to be similar in some matters and different in others.

How he would like your relationship to progress? ten of cups- page of cups- the fool
It seems that he could se a future for two of us for long term but right now he wants to enjoy what you have at the moment and not think too far to the future. Is this pretty fresh relationship? there is sense of newness and adventure? Does it resonate?

posted March 10, 2015 04:30 PM            

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Originally posted by cherful24:
I will...

How is Ian feeling/thinking about me and "us"?

Is he happy where things are...want more, less, etc...

And what does he think of me in general

Brb

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Hi Cherful,

I got 3 of Wands, 9 of cups, Knight of Swords, 3 of Cups, Ace of Pents

Ok well I think that he is being careful with his feelings for you. He may surprise you but he is keeping a part to himself. He is happy he finally got you if that makes sense? But maybe a little selfish and too full of himself over this. He needs to stop and think to consider what you need too.
I really see him being fine with the way things are for now. But I do think there will be a sudden change in the future. He will suddenly realise that he wants to give it his all so to speak. The romantic feelings will start flowing but there is something about a friendship being implicated?
When he does start to feel that strongly towards you he may not admit it to himself at first or maybe now. But he will see it makes sense in the end.

posted March 10, 2015 04:43 PM            

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Originally posted by Jinni:
Hi Heartsong I´m happy it resonated with you. Actually it was weird that you mentioned that ýou have same birthday. I share a birthday with a friend of mine and I feel towards her similar feelings: never liked and disliked someone that much. Maybe it`s never a picnic with someone who share the same birthday?

Your reading resonated very well too. I have a very boring job which doesn`t match with my education. I´m going to gradute in June so I hope that after that I could pick up more interesting job.

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posted March 10, 2015 06:31 PM            

even if you invested in one I don't think either them or going to be true love so therefore I don't think you should get rid of either of them. I think the one that will want you the most will be your ex. but you can ride this out for many more months to come and if you don't have your heart set on one I don't think you should invest in either. if you did involve stan either I think you would be dissatisfied and break it off so that's why I say just ride it out and enjoy the time with both of them

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Originally posted by Jinni:
Sure, Cherful

What kind of person he sees you? The lovers-ace of wands. Are you as cheerful as your nickname? I think that he sees you as a serious love interest who is energetic and optimistic and very sexy.

How Ian sees you as a couple? Page of pentacles- ace of sword. Is one of you more practical and down-to-earth and other one more deep thinker? I get that he sees that you are different in some aspects of life, not in the negative way. More like that it`s part of the life to be similar in some matters and different in others.

How he would like your relationship to progress? ten of cups- page of cups- the fool
It seems that he could se a future for two of us for long term but right now he wants to enjoy what you have at the moment and not think too far to the future. Is this pretty fresh relationship? there is sense of newness and adventure? Does it resonate?

My question is: I have sorta seeing two guys lately. My ex and the fling. Should I invest one of them or ditch both?

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posted March 10, 2015 06:34 PM            

yes this does resonate, thank you

. I don't trust your exs intentions I feel like he wants to gain something. but it's not like he wants you back. I just have a bad feeling about it... Meaning if you were hoping that he was coming to say I'm sorry or let's give another shot no I don't see that. he wants something and I don't even see that being sexual. maybe he wants an answer from you maybe he wants to have something over you and therefore tell you some information that he just found but its not a call to where you're going to be happy because you missed him so much.
QUOTE]Originally posted by Heartsong11:
Hi Cherful,

I got 3 of Wands, 9 of cups, Knight of Swords, 3 of Cups, Ace of Pents

Ok well I think that he is being careful with his feelings for you. He may surprise you but he is keeping a part to himself. He is happy he finally got you if that makes sense? But maybe a little selfish and too full of himself over this. He needs to stop and think to consider what you need too.
I really see him being fine with the way things are for now. But I do think there will be a sudden change in the future. He will suddenly realise that he wants to give it his all so to speak. The romantic feelings will start flowing but there is something about a friendship being implicated?
When he does start to feel that strongly towards you he may not admit it to himself at first or maybe now. But he will see it makes sense in the end.

Let me know if anything rings true.[/QUOTE]

posted March 11, 2015 03:42 AM            

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Originally posted by cherful24:
Hi,

yes this does resonate, thank you

. I don't trust your exs intentions I feel like he wants to gain something. but it's not like he wants you back. I just have a bad feeling about it... Meaning if you were hoping that he was coming to say I'm sorry or let's give another shot no I don't see that. he wants something and I don't even see that being sexual. maybe he wants an answer from you maybe he wants to have something over you and therefore tell you some information that he just found but its not a call to where you're going to be happy because you missed him so much.
QUOTE]Originally posted by Heartsong11:
[b] Hi Cherful,

I got 3 of Wands, 9 of cups, Knight of Swords, 3 of Cups, Ace of Pents

Ok well I think that he is being careful with his feelings for you. He may surprise you but he is keeping a part to himself. He is happy he finally got you if that makes sense? But maybe a little selfish and too full of himself over this. He needs to stop and think to consider what you need too.
I really see him being fine with the way things are for now. But I do think there will be a sudden change in the future. He will suddenly realise that he wants to give it his all so to speak. The romantic feelings will start flowing but there is something about a friendship being implicated?
When he does start to feel that strongly towards you he may not admit it to himself at first or maybe now. But he will see it makes sense in the end.

Let me know if anything rings true.

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Thanks Cherful,

I will have to think about this one. He's not an ex but someone I've been talking to a few months. There are issues though. We've fought about things so maybe he's back because of something I said that annoyed him.

posted March 11, 2015 03:50 AM            

I need advice on how to find a builder for a kitchen extension. The architect has suggested two people - Paul or Daniel. Would either of these do or should I look for someone else? Any pointers about who or where?

posted March 11, 2015 06:44 AM            

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Originally posted by cherful24:
Ty!! Yes, it's since Jan.

even if you invested in one I don't think either them or going to be true love so therefore I don't think you should get rid of either of them. I think the one that will want you the most will be your ex. but you can ride this out for many more months to come and if you don't have your heart set on one I don't think you should invest in either. if you did involve stan either I think you would be dissatisfied and break it off so that's why I say just ride it out and enjoy the time with both of them

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posted March 11, 2015 10:57 PM            

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Originally posted by Jinni:
Thank you, Cherful I really afrsid that this situation will as you say remain similar for months. I´m not type of person to date multiple people so I would prefer to be exclusive one of them or if nothing serious is not in a horizone just move on from them. Im just not sure if they are up to anything else than casual dating.

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posted March 12, 2015 10:28 AM            

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Originally posted by Astro keen:
Would anyone like to exchange?

I need advice on how to find a builder for a kitchen extension. The architect has suggested two people - Paul or Daniel. Would either of these do or should I look for someone else? Any pointers about who or where?

Please leave your question .

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