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hannaramaa
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posted March 15, 2015 12:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
1. First, tell me what baggage I need to get a grip on and deal with before my next romantic partner will arrive in my life:

10 of Pentacles

Ha, well hmmm do you have a lot of baggage? Do you have any room right now to let a GOOD potential romantic partner in? The biggest vibe I get is that you need to create space for someone to fit into your life. You seem to be taking care of everything yourself, always keeping busy (maybe so that you don't feel as lonely, which I totally get) but it's okay to have lulls and be bored and not have anything to do. Often times it's those spontaneously flat moments that lead to us finding a great match because we're not expecting anything spectacular. This could also say you don't have any baggage you need to get rid of, it could just have to do with timing. Another characteristic is you need to heal wounds within your family or resolve them on your own if that's not possible. "History" just popped in my head, so maybe look at previous relationships and see where you could've done better, or what you didn't like and won't put up with again. Ah, this card has so many avenues

2. Now, who is this new person that I will be romantically involved with next? Astrological sign, significator card (can describe looks, personality, etc.):

9 of Cups - I think this guy will be wise, first off. He is relaxed but not afraid to be assertive. I believe this card is associated with the sign Pisces, which is very fitting considering this card is about wishes coming true, relaxing and that feeling you get when you settle into a nice warm bath after a long day. He will be "home" for you. He may be lazy at times but I feel he'll be open with you and make you happy / be fulfilling emotionally. He's taller than you, but not outstandingly tall. Mischievous and unexpectedly observant.

3. What will I be doing/where will I be when I meet this person?

7 of Cups - Hm. I definitely think you'll be in a better place than you are now. This card represents "options" so you may be dating around casually at the time, or window shopping. You might feel confused and overwhelmed at the time you meet this person, (which is so like Pisces to be there at the right time and they love to help! Weird how it syncs together!) In any event you'll be making an important decision. I don't think it's going to be a huge life changing decision but this is speaking of when you'll meet them, you'll be unsure and deciding on something. I feel like you'll be picking out something to buy honestly, just am not sure what.

4. Your first impression of them:

8 of Swords - They must be the type who has their emotions written all over their face or you're just really good at reading people. You'll see them as stuck, maybe they'll even seem depressed to you or downright afraid. You will think they're smart and that they are their own worst enemy. They may even come off cold when you first meet them and intimidate *you.* but...

5. How will they feel about you initially?

The Tower. Need I say more? You will shock them and maybe even overpower them, hence why they showed up as a little shaking Chihuahua in the 8 of Swords! LOL! I think they will not be used to being treated like you treat them and it / you will come as a surprise. They will be VERY sexually attracted to you too!

6. How do they love?

Death - Intensely, obsessively, passionately.

7. What are they doing/dealing with right now in their life?

3 of Cups - They may work with a lot of women, and are not doing a lot. I don't think this means he has no job it's just that he loves socializing more and that's coming through stronger than his work energy.

8. Our compatibility:

The Star - You have the potential to help each other grow and become the best version of yourselves. I'm not sure The Star is a "forever" card, but it's certainly positive! I think you two will be blind to each other's faults, things that others would recoil at.

16. When can I expect to meet them?

Strength - Most likely this summer, August at the very latest. Also could be saying when you've grown stronger and learned how to pick your battles, and be more diplomatic without compromising your own values.

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ikja
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posted March 15, 2015 01:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ikja     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am just on the phone at the moment HR x

However, I really appreciate this <3

I am going to read this thoroughly. I hope I don't end up crying loool x

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hannaramaa
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posted March 15, 2015 04:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No problem, everyone deserves an act of kindness / a treat.

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posted March 15, 2015 05:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for moonstruck87     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sorry to barge in, I just wanted to comment on what a neat spread this is! Really love the questions, particularly the first one 💚

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posted March 15, 2015 07:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ikja     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I finally get time to provide the response that I want, yay!

Thank you so much again for the guidance HR, it really does mean alot as I wasn't expecting anything. I was just venting and hopefully connecting with some of the people on LL who feel like I do.

In response to:

Question 1: I feel like I am at a stage where I don't have THAT much baggage. I have a lot of time to think, and I now know what my life journey has been about. I would like to connect with someone to tell them about it, but it seems that no one is around to really establish a real connection with. The rift in my family is quite major, but nothing I can resolve by myself. However, I have made peace and come to understand why certain people have behaved the way that they have. You're right, it could be an issue of timing, but it seems that time is never really on my side... there's always something. You're also right, people do lean on me quite a lot and I take on quite a few family issues due to the rifts that have developed over the years.

Question 2. I like that you described him as home. In fact, it almost brought a tear to my eye because I only ever really feel secure and safe when I am at home. I only ever really feel connected to people who allow me to feel like I do when I am at home. There is only one person, and that's my best friend (the one I mentioned in the other thread). Apart from her, there have been other people that I have nearly felt at home around, but something has always blocked me letting my guard down completely.

Question 3: I need to quit online shopping then! ha ha

Question 4: Typically, when I fancy someone or meet someone new, I do feel quite intimidated. I am definitely shy and often move quickly or avoid much eye contact lol

Question 5: Perhaps that will be Pluto conjunct my ascendant working (according to Ami Anne's thread) lol

Question 6: GREAT! I am honestly of the belief that passionate people are a dying breed!!!!!!!! x 1000

Question 7: Other women... Gosh, but do you know what? I don't think I will ever let a situation involving another woman or women affect me again. Although having my heart broken really did take me to hell, I know that I will never be second best to anyone ever again. I will never allow anyone to make me feel like second best again. (a little side note, but it seemed to flow on from my response lol)

Question 8: Well... at least the star is bright. Even if it is not forever, I need to be around someone who truly understands my energy. I have had enough of feeling out of place because of my depth of emotion.

Question 9: Summertime has come up alot in recent times. Not too sure why, but it sounds good. Your comment about my own personal strength and me growing between now and meeting him... this is true, I have even realised how far I have come during this response.


Thank you so much HR <3 sending a lot of gratitude and love your way x

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