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Topic: I told him how I felt, but he cut me off..what is going to happen?
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SereneDaze
Knowflake Posts: 44
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Registered: Mar 2014
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posted March 17, 2015 01:49 PM
  
I was talking to P on skype and he was really open and talkative with me. I finally told him how I felt, i dont know why...i just really wanted to tell him and it felt like the right time.But it caught him by surprise, he just said sorry and that he had to go. Im crushed im really crushed...sorry if the details are messy. I left him a message asking him to please talk to me. Can someone tell me what is going to happen next with P? IP: Logged |
FairyDust75
Knowflake Posts: 1764
From: USA
Registered: Dec 2013
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posted March 17, 2015 03:06 PM
Hi Serene I can't offer you an intuitive answer only one from experience. You put your heart out there and he didn't react so well. I would leave him alone for now. He needs time to process and figure our how he feels. I know it's hard but just let him be for now. When he's ready to talk he will. Be prepared for whatever he may tell you. I've been down this road and the more you try to get him to respond the farther away you will push him. I'm sorry you are going through this. I've been there and it doesn't feel great. Just be strong and don't contact him. IP: Logged |
SereneDaze
Knowflake Posts: 44
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Registered: Mar 2014
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posted March 17, 2015 03:30 PM
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Originally posted by FairyDust75:
Hi Serene I can't offer you an intuitive answer only one from experience. You put your heart out there and he didn't react so well. I would leave him alone for now. He needs time to process and figure our how he feels. I know it's hard but just let him be for now. When he's ready to talk he will. Be prepared for whatever he may tell you. I've been down this road and the more you try to get him to respond the farther away you will push him. I'm sorry you are going through this. I've been there and it doesn't feel great. Just be strong and don't contact him.
Yes, he has a lot to process, I'm wondering if he will even talk to me again or if I will get closure from this. Thanks for the advice <3
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ikja
Knowflake Posts: 999
From: London, UK
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted March 17, 2015 03:46 PM
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Originally posted by FairyDust75:
Hi Serene I can't offer you an intuitive answer only one from experience. You put your heart out there and he didn't react so well. I would leave him alone for now. He needs time to process and figure our how he feels. I know it's hard but just let him be for now. When he's ready to talk he will. Be prepared for whatever he may tell you. I've been down this road and the more you try to get him to respond the farther away you will push him. I'm sorry you are going through this. I've been there and it doesn't feel great. Just be strong and don't contact him.
I agree with this.
From experience, men operate ALOT slower than women when it comes to emotions. It hasn't been that long (I'm assuming) and maybe now he needs to realise what you mean to him.
You forcing him to talk isn't going to make him evaluate your suitation objectively and focus on the good times. He is going to think the opposite if you crowd him. Wishing you luck and even if he doesn't return your feelings, just know you're stronger for putting your feelings out there and freeing yourself from a situation where (deep down) you weren't truly happy with the arrangements x There's nothing worse than settling for friendship when you know it's not just that! IP: Logged |
happyaskings
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posted March 17, 2015 06:01 PM
Sounds like doucher or game player or he just doesn't feel that way and didn't know how to handle the situation properly. Either way, I'd just let it go and move on to greener pastures. Plenty of fish in the sea, you deserve one that is just as honest and sweet as you are!IP: Logged |
LexusVirgo
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Registered: Feb 2015
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posted March 17, 2015 09:07 PM
Men are weird. He probably did not know how to handle the emotions. He will probably be back. Men are weird. I told my bf I liked him. And he told me he just liked me as a freind then we stopped talking and then we got together. Men are weird like that.IP: Logged |
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