posted March 20, 2015 11:56 AM            

I was wondering if I could request a read? I've been having trouble with an ex of mine. We fully stopped communication but it's come down to him not being able to leave me alone. He has his friends watching and keeping tabs on me and even though I have him blocked on social media and from my phone number, he still finds a way to come into my life.

I woke up early in the morning from a message of his on one of the messaging apps I still have him on. He started arguing with me over something that shouldn't even be an issue anymore. I haven't talked about him to anyone in the last two weeks and don't plan to talk about him to anyone in the next 2 weeks or ever again at that... But in the message he sent, he was insinuating that I was talking about him. I honestly feel like he's delusional! This whole situation is messing with me mentally and emotionally and I'm just so sick of it. I want peace of mind already but whenever I feel like I'm getting to that calmness, he comes around again in some way to mess it up. I don't know what to do.

Anyway, if anyone could read on these questions I'll definitely exchange with you in return!

1) What does MR want from me?
2) Why won't he leave me alone?
3) What do you see happening next with us?

posted March 20, 2015 01:04 PM            

I asked the cards the first question you had and got the following:

4 of Wands
7 of swords
8 of cups
6 of wands

It looks like he wants to be back with you, but it's something he goes back and forth on--fantasizing, etc. The eight of cups speaks of him finally being disappointed that he can't get back into your circle and will eventually move on. It's as though someone else will come along to help with this and you will be successful (6 of wands) in finally having him leave you alone.

posted March 20, 2015 01:10 PM            

I don't know. The 6 of Wands usually helps someone to overcome something.

Hope this helps in some way.

posted March 20, 2015 01:20 PM            

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Originally posted by goddessofthemoon:

1) What does MR want from me?
2) Why won't he leave me alone?
3) What do you see happening next with us?

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I just got my lenormand cards so new to this but wanted to give it a shot.

posted March 20, 2015 01:22 PM            

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Originally posted by Springtimeflower:
Hi Goddess,

I asked the cards the first question you had and got the following:

4 of Wands
7 of swords
8 of cups
6 of wands

It looks like he wants to be back with you, but it's something he goes back and forth on--fantasizing, etc. The eight of cups speaks of him finally being disappointed that he can't get back into your circle and will eventually move on. It's as though someone else will come along to help with this and you will be successful (6 of wands) in finally having him leave you alone.

After reading your last post, I pulled more cards and got one showing them being restrained and another about getting help for a mental disorder.
I don't know. The 6 of Wands usually helps someone to overcome something.

Hope this helps in some way.

Spring

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Thank you, Spring!

posted March 20, 2015 01:27 PM            

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Originally posted by dustib:
I just got my lenormand cards so new to this but wanted to give it a shot.

It looks like MR wants a relationship with you again and just isn't getting the obvious message that the feels are 1 sided. He's not leaving you alone because you are familiar to him and he's very immature as well and feels if he can just convince you then everything will work out the way he wants it to. I see even more dishonesty coming from him. I would recommend the restraining order as well since he is obviously not getting the message to leave you alone.

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posted March 20, 2015 01:31 PM            

Here's the other ones:

Page of Wands
2 of wands (rev) --restraining
6 of coins (rev)
Death
4 of swords (convalescence--escape from mental disorder)
king of wands (rev)
high priestess (rev)
strength (rev)
7 of coins
page of swords
chariot
sun (rev)
justice (rev)
empress

looks like you'll finally gain some control over all of this (chariot)
looks like any court thing may not ultimately help like you thought, but the empress is showing that you will become more in touch with yourself and less likely to be bothered by any comments he makes on those sites or he will find another empress and things will just go on the same way with someone else.

Hope this helps more,
Spring

posted March 20, 2015 01:43 PM            

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Originally posted by goddessofthemoon:
Thank you, dustib! Can I ask what cards you pulled? For a beginner, this is really good. MR is very immature, you're right about that. Such a shame since he's 21, you would think at his age, he'd know better. I'm not surprised that you sense dishonesty from him because that's what he's best at. I do agree that he feels he can convince me that everything will work out the way he wants it to... He has before because of my naivety but it won't work this time around.

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posted March 20, 2015 02:02 PM            

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Originally posted by Springtimeflower:
Goddess,

Here's the other ones:

Page of Wands
2 of wands (rev) --restraining
6 of coins (rev)
Death
4 of swords (convalescence--escape from mental disorder)
king of wands (rev)
high priestess (rev)
strength (rev)
7 of coins
page of swords
chariot
sun (rev)
justice (rev)
empress

looks like you'll finally gain some control over all of this (chariot)
looks like any court thing may not ultimately help like you thought, but the empress is showing that you will become more in touch with yourself and less likely to be bothered by any comments he makes on those sites or he will find another empress and things will just go on the same way with someone else.

Hope this helps more,
Spring

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posted March 20, 2015 03:22 PM            

By the way, and you're an exception, but most people don't reach their earliest stages of overall maturity until around 27-29 or their Saturn return, so 21 is young.

I also have someone I once went out with over 10 years ago who watches me, TS. He goes from girl to girl. Do you see him stopping by soon? I have a feeling he will and will be glad when he is gone.

posted March 20, 2015 04:29 PM            

Not a reading, but maybe you can try the Cut & Clear candle (http://www.missionaryindependent.org/candle-altar-cut-and-clear.html) - You seem very intuitive so maybe you don't even need to purchase it - but make one yourself and just have the intention that he would cut all ties with you.

Other thing - take a piece of paper, write on it a request for the angels to help you with - maybe, help with him leaving you alone. Fold the piece of paper into four folds and lit it (in a safe place) as the smoke from the paper will occur imagine the smoke going to the angels and they listen to your request.

posted March 20, 2015 05:21 PM            

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Originally posted by Springtimeflower:
You're welcome Goddess.

By the way, and you're an exception, but most people don't reach their earliest stages of overall maturity until around 27-29 or their Saturn return, so 21 is young.

I also have someone I once went out with over 10 years ago who watches me, TS. He goes from girl to girl. Do you see him stopping by soon? I have a feeling he will and will be glad when he is gone.

Thank you,
Spring

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posted March 20, 2015 05:23 PM            

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Originally posted by St@r2013:
Hey goddess

Not a reading, but maybe you can try the Cut & Clear candle (http://www.missionaryindependent.org/candle-altar-cut-and-clear.html) - You seem very intuitive so maybe you don't even need to purchase it - but make one yourself and just have the intention that he would cut all ties with you.

Other thing - take a piece of paper, write on it a request for the angels to help you with - maybe, help with him leaving you alone. Fold the piece of paper into four folds and lit it (in a safe place) as the smoke from the paper will occur imagine the smoke going to the angels and they listen to your request.

Hopefully your ex will leave you alone!

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posted March 20, 2015 05:24 PM            

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Originally posted by goddessofthemoon:
Thanks, Star! I was actually thinking of getting a candle lol I'm so sick of everything. But thank you for the advice! I will definitely check that out. I've only used a candle once before. You helped me on that! Actually, I don't think I updated the thread... But someone did come back around like you suggested. It was my ex though... Lol. He is a soulmate of mine but definitely not the kind of soulmate I want in my life anymore

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Oh lol! sometimes we need to be so specific otherwise...

posted March 20, 2015 06:35 PM            

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Originally posted by goddessofthemoon:
[b]The Hanged Man - The Fool - Ace of Swords
Yes, he will. He sees that it isn't getting him anywhere and he will eventually move on from you for good. I do think in some way he had comfort with you. I do feel he missed you, most likely regrets what happened, but can see the relationship will never be revived. Ace of Swords is always a yes for me
I asked why he was watching you and pulled Mice - Birds - Heart. He didn't wanna let you go. I do feel he misses you and wants to talk to you again and to see if anything rekindles. He still cares for you a lot and doesn't want to lose you.[/B]

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That makes sense. Thank you. I think he becomes attached to all that he meets or spends time with, but ultimately the physical part is his goal. My intuition has given me some insight as to what he is like to be around on a daily basis, so I wouldn't be interested. Was there a time frame associated with the cards?

The "one" for me is requiring a lot of patience on my part (I haven't seen him in over a year) and is a true connection of the heart.