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posted March 21, 2015 09:09 PM            

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Hello

My questions are regarding this guy at work, JP.
Funny story, he met my mother first, at a cooking class they are taking at night. She told him something like "Oh, my daughter works there as well, she just started this week!". And for almost 3 weeks he was asking our coworkers if they knew me, and I kinda did the same xD
So, then we finally met, he was giving support to the newbies. It was strict work environment so nothing really happened besides a joke here and there like "I better help you out, or your mom will kill me!"
I really like him. He's very different from the guys I usually fall for, but somehow something is wrong. I added him as a friend on FB and he did not accept. I already canceled it.
I'm starting to crush for him really bad, I need answers so I can focus myself on a solution, for better or worse, so...

1) How does he feel about me?
2) Why did he not accept me as a friend on FB?
3) Will anything happen between us romatically?

I will exchange, of course.

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posted March 21, 2015 09:42 PM            

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hi can I do another exchange with you please? my question is what is Ian feeling or thinking about me and what's going to happen with us?

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posted March 21, 2015 09:46 PM            

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Hi cherful! Of course

But I need it to be as insightful as possible, ok?
I'll do the same for you, of course!
Pick a question and read ahead, I'll be back with yours as soon as possible!

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posted March 21, 2015 09:46 PM            

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I was actually liking the story as I was reading it I thought how sweet! I don't think him not accepting you with a diss I just thank he wanted to cross that line. I don't think anything romantically will happened between you two. are you sure he's not seeing somebody else because it kind of feels like he is? so an immediate future I don't really see much changing I'm sorry to say.

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posted March 21, 2015 09:48 PM            

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....trying to be insightful as I can...

well I'm sure you're just as comfortable now with what happened and for the same reasons he's uncomfortable now. I don't know if you gave him two weeks or more to accept the friendship but I think in time he would have accepted it for him I just don't think he knew what your intentions were and I think he felt it was that you have the hots for him and I really think he has somebody that he's dating and I think that's why he was on the border of it. And yes he seems very professional but I don't necessarily think it was because she's my coworker so I can't be friend her

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posted March 21, 2015 10:26 PM            

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What is Ian feeling/thinking about you?
The Hermit RX, The Empress Rx, 6 of Wands Rx

Right now it doesn't seem like he's thinking about you. He might just not be interested in anyone at the moment. If you are sort of playing a waiting game in the hopes to see how he will respond, do know that he is aware of it. If you're not then it just means he thinks you're too dependent on others (what is weird because I have a strong feeling that you're actually very independent by nature). He also feels you have no confidence in yourself.

I'm sorry, these cards were horrible. I don't know how is your relationship, and to what degree you actually know each other, but as I said before, I don't get the feeling you're dependent on others or that you even lack confidence, so maybe the way he sees you is greatly distorted from the reality?

Alright, as to what's going to happen between you two, I got 2 of Cups Rx, Ace of Swords, Page of Wands

I'm sorry, the very 1st card is telling no romance on the horizon for you two, but there could be something physical, if you know what I mean (affair/friends with benefits maybe?). Good news is that you will have mental clarity, like a "Eureka" moment, regarding your relationship with this guy, and somehow you'll be able to clearly see and understand what is happening on his side of the picture. You may even discuss it in person, not necessatily an argument, but a conversation that you will be leaving victorious. This will be a major event for you and as you will be finally done with him, you'll actually find yourself enthusiastic about your new life, without him on your mind, embracing every opportunity that rises and ready for a new journey or project.

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posted March 21, 2015 11:08 PM            

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I see him once a week and he's really good about making conversation with me throughout the week. A couple of days ago he asked me if I was free Saturday and I said yes. All this morning and afternoon until 5 o'clock we were talking. And then 8 o'clock rolls by and I didn't hear from him what you don't appreciate that I feel like you blew me off. and I sent him a text saying I don't appreciate you blowing me off you don't need to contact me anymore take care. so I just don't know why out of the blue he felt like he could blow me off

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