posted March 22, 2015 12:52 PM            

So you asked if the song that girl posted was for A....

posted March 22, 2015 12:57 PM            

Lol yes our threads to get long very fast

Yes I do think this is true, as I've said before I do know he doesnt love her at all, I think its more of caring the way you do for a friend + he sleeps with her so it gives her the false "feelings" since he is not an ******* and treats women very nice and sweet.

I thought maybe they broke up, but I guess only a pause :/ too bad :P

well, he answered my messages
lol I am being mean.

thank you

posted March 22, 2015 01:06 PM            

:O The cards show that they are just friends. But as you say, you know they are only platonic. The first two cards show a platonic relationship but The High Priestess is quite a sexual card, but it also tells you to listen to your intuition. They are just friends with benefits so they can't really break up the way a real couple does, but the girl needs to trust her intuition and see that she is thinking it is more than what it really is.

I'm sorry that you two still haven't met up though
I'm really disappointed lol but I still do get the feeling that you will see each other and to not give up just yet on him

Ok something weird happened.... a week ago this girl I have never met before followed me on Instagram. Her page was private and two days ago, I decided to follow her back to see who she was. I didn't recognize her.

Anyway, this morning, I wake up to her posting a whole bunch of pictures of her with a former crush of mine T. Back in high school, we used to like each other, but I never let it get far and kept my distance from him.
I just find it strange that his new girlfriend decided to follow me when I never even met her. It just made me wonder, what are his thoughts on me now? I'm sure he's seen how much I've changed since high school.

Your question?

posted March 22, 2015 01:17 PM            

I kept thinking before, well maybe all he needs is to see it can be nice with me and then he can tell her he cant see her anymore.
Because there is no "real" reason for them to break up if you look at it, he wants the sex and he gets, she wants a "bf" and she gets someting close + she is in love. So now I see it more clearly!
At one point I guess he will have to see he will have to break it off with her, probably because of me.. ( not to be vain but.. )

Oh I havent given up, I know its like this with him, its always like this, someone comes from out of town or something comes up, he has trouble with this.. People come from out of town and its not something hew knew in advance, this guy came from another country..

anyway..

I am not quite sure its her who opened the instagram, my feelings are telling me either she is in on it or he opened it himself. It feels to be very much what "they" wanted, to get you to see the pics. So he is interesting in you, I do feel like he kept his fingers crossed you would follow back. He is wondering the same thing you are. I feel like you are both at the same place, having some past relationship getting behind you and I feel you are both looking to start fresh but have some fun first.
I feel like he wants to find out everything about you, where you been what you are doing. I do think he thinks you are hot, not just pretty but hot
I dont think this is his gf I dont know something fishy ( lol ) about this whole instagram thing

posted March 22, 2015 01:38 PM            

I am glad it's all clear to you now!!! I definitely do feel like he will stop seeing her once you guys meet in person again. I just feel like he needs to take one glance at you and bam, he will be ready to stop seeing her. It is you that he truly wants.
I focused on his feelings for you and pulled three cards. 2 of Cups - 5 of Wands - 10 of Cups
A does have romantic feelings for you However, he is feeling constricted/restrained. He feels that there is a block in getting what he desires. I like the 10 of Cups as the last cards. This is the card of marriage and binding two people together in true love. He is happy with you but he feels like happiness with you is such a distance. He feels like there is something that is getting in the way of being with you and showing his love but he isn't sure how to tackle the problem. What do you think?

If you're up for one more :P Do you see anything significant happening in April for me? I'm crossing my fingers I get the surgery (I think I told you about it) in the beginning of the month. The 26th of this month I will get the last bit of paper work done and I'm hoping by April 6th I can be on the operating table to get it already

posted March 22, 2015 01:54 PM            

I think with me and A, the restrictions are more our issues from the past, trust, some arguments and such things.
I dont think this girl would be a restriction, yes I can see that he would feel bad by breaking up and yes I can see him not wanting to do so, but I dont think she is the real restriction.

This was such an AHA moment, thank you again, I will keep that in my mind from now on, I think it will help me a lot to stop thinking of "when will they break up"

posted March 22, 2015 02:21 PM            

Thank you as always I will let you know what happens
My friend also picked up on bed rest for me as well with her Lenormand cards. I would be so happy if I can get the surgery next month just to get it over and done with already. As for M, maybe! I won't rule that out and I am ok with being on friendly terms with him seeing as how I have already forgiven him, but I definitely don't want him back :P

posted March 22, 2015 02:27 PM            

btw, that girl, its funny, he is not even onf her fb list so she has to put everything on "public" and hope he checks her profile.

ahh and another thing, you are 2nd person today who picked up 10 cups "marriage" I find it interesting.

I do have a question

maybe if you could look into, what might next 2 -3 weeks bring for us? ( i dont want to look too far ahead as things change)

posted March 22, 2015 02:45 PM            

In the next 2-3 weeks, you and A will try to bring stable energy into the relationship. Improvements will be coming your way but both of you need to be realistic with each other and truly say what is on your minds and be clear of what you both can give to each other during this time. I do feel like you and A will be getting closer though.. feeling more comfortable to take more steps with each other. I do feel like you guys will make plans to see each other again and the love will be obvious between the two of you. You will start seeing in small ways that he does care for you and I am getting that he will just want to jump and show you that he cares.

He has a lot of deep emotions inside and for some reason, I am getting that a kiss will show the peace
I don't know if it will happen yet but I do feel like the two of you will be able to look lovingly in one another's eyes quite soon while outside. When you see him again, the weather will be beautiful... I am also seeing a lot of greens. I don't know if this relates to you guys or not but I feel like you will go somewhere where there is a lot of nature/natural beauty around. Just be careful and make sure that the plans you set don't get stepped on. Try and make concrete plans instead of leaving them up in the air. Making a set date will work out best.

posted March 22, 2015 02:50 PM            

Yes the green makes sense and setting a date also.

posted March 23, 2015 12:29 PM            

I am good thank you.

posted March 23, 2015 01:03 PM            

Actually I do have something on my mind.
It seems I will be getting a longer contract at work, which will enable me to start looking for apartments to rent and move out, now I will have some more stability, knowing that I will stay at this job for longer.

Could you maybe try and see when this could be possible? ( when might it be most favorable)

I wouldnt mind having A live with me lol, joking, dont mean to jump the gun on that, its just a fantasy of mine.

posted March 23, 2015 02:08 PM            

I'm feeling more warmer months though. Not too hot, but not too cold. I think it will be a fast move too. You won't be too stressed out. I don't see you bringing a lot of things with you, it will be more of a fresh start all together?
But I am getting warmer months. Around late July through early October is when I feel sure about it. So I will say next 9 months, but specifically during this time frame. I don't want to say an exact month and not be accurate for you but I really am getting pulled towards late July and onwards but not past October at all. Let me know what you think.

posted March 23, 2015 02:40 PM            

Ummm... I don't think I really have any questions at the moment. Nothing too significant really comes to mind but thank you so much as always.

posted March 23, 2015 03:58 PM            

As time went on the amount of communication between me and him has ofcourse grown. from maybe once a month to once or 2 times a week.
Is the amount something he cares about, but I mean more as in, if there should be "too much" ?
sometimes i think I need to give him his space so I leave a few days to pass before I text..
is this something that he cares about, for there to still be some "space" so its not too frequent as to not "tie him down" with too much?

I thought, maybe to him, only "couples" talk everyday.. its a thought only, I dont really overthink this as much

posted March 23, 2015 04:34 PM            

I have a silly question lol but if you don't want to answer its okay because I know I shouldn't be thinking of him!!
But if you are up for it,
do you think you could see what Marc has been thinking of me lately? I felt like with that last message he sent, he actually wrote to me twice and the second time he did (because I ignored the first) he got mad and wanted to be mean so I felt like he was trying to look for any excuse to talk to me. Especially since I am becoming better friends with another friend of his.
((Btw I haven't talked to him since that day he tried to argue & don't plan to)) I'm just curious lol

posted March 23, 2015 05:17 PM            

I just don't know why this man wants to hide his feelings. It makes no sense to me. I am a loving girl and I always tried to show him how much I cared so I know I didn't do anything bad on my part. But I guess you love and you learn...
Thank you

posted March 24, 2015 11:10 AM            

I know we both have dreams that turn into reality and usually, I am good at deciphering what mine mean. However, I'm having a little trouble this time around.

What do you think this could be saying? I was in a home I've never seen in my life before. It was beautiful and spacious and I went into the bathroom. For some reason, I feel like someone died in this house before.
Anyway, I go into the bathroom and like the rest of the house, it's gorgeous. I'm looking in the mirror and I see myself. Someone is talking to me and I can feel their body quite close to mine. I feel like this person is a lover especially because we start getting intimate lol
I can feel them and I almost fall but they catch me and firm their grip. But while I'm looking in the mirror, I only see myself. It's strange because I can hear and feel him but I don't see his reflection in the dream, only mine. What do you think of this? I also don't feel like I know the man in real life-- just in dream mode.
Another thing that was weird is when I was leaving the bathroom, I saw something on the ledge to the left that was in a square shape and said "Homicide" which is why I felt like someone died here before. I got creeped out and left but I already knew something had happened there. Weird.

What do you make of that?

posted March 24, 2015 02:46 PM            

now to the dream ...

I felt like this was showing you a part of something in your life will get a "death" so I feel its something in your past that will die, you will get some closure which will bring some new to your life.
I feel you didnt see the man because its trying to show you he is yet unkown to your life and its someone new to you so, there is no face you could put on the man so that you dont mix up the energies with anyone else.
I do feel you will get a new start, I always think of the death card in these situations, a death + a new beggining. I would say its a good thing and there will some new love in yourlife, but I felt something interesting, which is, it could also show your love for you, so you giving yourself some greatly needed love.