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hannaramaa
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posted March 23, 2015 01:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey girl 💗

I'm frustrated at my love life. Can you tell me why I have bad luck in it and if that luck will swing upward this year?

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posted March 23, 2015 01:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for intuitivefish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi.

Aw so sorry to hear you are having such a hard time :/

What I get is that you were in a lesson learning cycle. Where you were given a lesson to learn to set better boundaries.
I feel you just gave too much of yourself and so you were sent men who sucked your energy and didnt give much in return.
I do get that you have started to learn to change this about yourself. These are your lessons to learn better to say No.

What I feel is that by endish of the year around oct/nov. there will be a significant male for love in your life. I do get it will be commitment.

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posted March 23, 2015 02:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I hope so, and yes weird you mention boundaries. That's been a big thing. I don't feel I even gave too much, like some people I just talked to and then they didn't talk to me anymore.

How do you set emotional boundaries while still keeping the person around and not coming off guarded?

Do you have questions?

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posted March 23, 2015 02:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for intuitivefish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Its not easy to set boundaries but I am getting you are on the right path on doing so.

Could you please tell me, has A like me started to see we have set in motion a new nice start?

Thank you

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posted March 23, 2015 03:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I would say yes he does feel that way, he feels less defensive than before and is open to being friends and having a good time, I got 9 of Wands Rx and 3 of Cups and The World, it looks like things are only going to get better but you guys will probably be friends for awhile first

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posted March 23, 2015 03:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for intuitivefish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
thank you.
thats good too, we need to fix and work on things anyway so being friends is good.

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posted March 23, 2015 08:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You're welcome

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posted March 23, 2015 11:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted March 24, 2015 03:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for intuitivefish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sorry I did not see this before. If you need to ask something I will let you know when I can today after work

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posted March 24, 2015 02:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for intuitivefish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am here now if you need to ask anything

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posted March 24, 2015 04:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted March 24, 2015 04:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for intuitivefish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wow !
That sounds great it seems as a good move forwards.
He was VEEEERY nervous and he just wanted to prove his openness to you and his willing to let you and he wanted you to trust him and he just wanted to show you the effort he knew he should have put int before.
I feel like something pushed him, a snap inside him where he thought its time to grow up and follow his heart. So yes he has finally started to accept his feelings. I do see this as a start so there will be more happen around this and he might again slow down, but he showed a start and he showed he is willing to show you that you cant for a start trust him and he is not into games any more.

I felt very happy right now, light and warm and I felt him be very happy about everything.
he is still feeling butterflies and thinking about it.

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tyank you

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posted March 24, 2015 05:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah he was definitely in a good mood. He kept giggling and guffawing all over himself, hahaha. I guess even our head housekeeper mentioned today the way he looks at me, I just wondered what changed between then and now.

Do you see A being upset at all that we are no longer talking? Does he think I rejected him, or did he not want to pursue things anymore?

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1) how will communication with me and him be effected due to this?
( we havent argued over this I just told him what happened)
2) we were going to meet up ( still havent) and how will this be effected?

OOH she blocked you, eh? Bold move on her part.

1) Queen of Pentacles 4 of Cups King of Swords

It may slow it down a lot, he won't be as open as he was, probably because he's paranoid she's watching or controlling all of his social media / text message accounts and what have you. I think he's actually really annoyed by this and unhappy. The sulking in 4 of Cups gets me because I feel like that's his disappointment he can't connect with you whenever he wants. I think in turn he'll be more private or say little, at least for the time being but that has nothing to do with you obv.

2) King of Swords 2 of Pentacles Queen of Swords

First I want to say I love the feeling this draw gives me. You two are connected through good or bad, it's like you have a forever friend even if things don't progress romantically. It seems you're both thinking of the other, SO hopefully that means you guys will meet up. I drew The Fool and Queen of Cups next so my bet is definitely May / June as The Fool rules Aries, who rules the start of Spring and Queen of Cups is a summer gal. You two will talk in between then though leading up to this moment.

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posted March 24, 2015 05:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for intuitivefish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you !

Uh not bold, she did it before, last time it drew us closer lol and we talked more than ever last time she did it.
I just hate someone hirting him because I know this did hurt him.

Yes you are right we keep being stron no batter the good or bad we do get through it.

sorry, I got another question for you

How will this affect them? ( might it drive them apart )

I am feeling A less upset over it, almost like he has just accepted it and now feels like he wants to leave it at this for now, to see maybe if he leavs it how things will be and how he will feel about it.
I do get he thinks about it here and there but I feel like he doesnt want to give it much thought, more like passing thoughts then he moves on to something else.
He isnt thinking you rejected him more that things are just at a stand still and he accepted "his faith" almost like he feels ok this is how it needs to be so fine I wont do anything any more.

I do see him leave it alone for a longer time, I dont see him do anything on his own for some time, so I dont pick up much communication come up any time soon. ( feels like a month or so to me )

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posted March 24, 2015 05:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No I can totally see that about him. He just seems like that kind of guy, but I don't think he'll talk to me ever again (like initiate conversation). I deleted him off Facebook.

The Magician King of Cups The Hermit

Weird...I'm not picking up anything about them, I feel like it has to do with you and him here?? The biggest thing jumping out at me is that he'll act on his feelings for you and then hide out again to think about things. It seems like the change in relationship frightens him even though he knows you two make a good fit.

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posted March 24, 2015 05:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for intuitivefish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you.
that in some weird way makes sense, I even think I am not supposed to know or focus so much on "them".

If you have more to ask leave the question but I must leave now and can reply tomorrow

thank you though on shedding some light.

Hope you see more effort from M he seems to be making changes for the better.

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