posted March 28, 2015 11:01 AM            

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Originally posted by Emsie:
Oh, I'm really sorry about what you're going through right now. Somehow, these days there seem to be upsetting energies creeping around. Even I have "fed up" moments right now in another front of my life.

So, what question do you have? ^^

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Thank you Emsie. I really appreciate your response.

I just don't know what to do anymore. I just feel like everytime take one step forward, it's just two steps back. I am really trying to figure out what I am supposed to learn and how I should approach things, but I feel like I am getting mixed messages from everything that I believe in. Then, when I try one way and it doesn't work out the way that I expected, it makes me wonder HOW else I am supposed to approach this relationship thing.

My whole life, love relationships and I have not been friends.

My question is: What does the universe really want me to know about the relationship with my ex boyfriend. What am I supposed to do?

posted March 28, 2015 11:50 AM            

Let go of your ex and the current situation between the two of you for a while. It's not an easy process - been down that road before - but in order to gain clarity and more self-respect/care you have to declutter and cleanse your mind from all these negative thoughts.

The more happy and self-confident you become, the more suitors will be attracted to you, and potentially your soul mate. Trusting yourself is also a hard thing after so many heartbreaks and troubles. (Your ex can also be your soul mate, in fact, tho I don't want to give you false hopes. I just say that anything can happen.)

posted March 28, 2015 12:33 PM            

what does the universe want you to know regarding your ex

3 of swords, 6 of swords, 6 of wands

posted March 28, 2015 12:59 PM            

This whole thing has been going on for 2 years this month and tbh, I am now at the stage where I no longer want to care. I am someone who loves very hard, and I never want to be the one to say that I gave up... but at very least, I would like honesty and it seems that my ex doesn't know how to do that.

He has betrayed me in many ways, and I do not have a problem with forgiving him. It's the fact that he hasn't be humble in how he has conducted himself after what he has done.

I do not mind him not wanting a relationship with me, but what I find insulting is that he doesn't have the balls to come right out and say that. Instead, it's 'I'll call you later' and the call never comes - as if the status of our relationship is not important or, what I have said is not meaningful.

Then I think, is it me? I know that in my chart, I have a very responsive Mars and Moon... but when you've given someone 6/7 days to comment/feedback to you... and they don't - even when THEY have said that they will get back to you, what is that really? Why would you play such games in matters of the heart? That's not to say that I wanted an essay-type response in return; but if he couldn't respond... Surely, 'I am a little busy, but I haven't forgotten about you' would have sufficed?

I am extremely hard on myself, I don't particularly like making mistakes and I know that I can be at the mercy of my emotions... but this wasn't the time for him to be uncommunicative and I have to stand by my assessment of the situation and follow through.

There's been too much prompting, too much arrogance, too much perceived disrespect and I do not treat anyone like that. Emsie, I think you are right... I have to love myself first and in this instance, it is listening to my perception of this matter and accepting the fact that I have now managed it in the way that was right for me.

I want him to be happy, but not stepping all over me and my feelings in the process. I want happiness for me too; and in way/form that is recognisable to me. Not where I am unsure. I'll always love him, but right now I do not like him and I have to make peace with that/accept it.

V, I appreciate you telling me to Google the images. They really were very clear. I do not know what the future holds, but I know when I get past this place... there will be something fruitful on the other side.