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posted March 30, 2015 03:17 PM            

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Hi All

I don't why I have been feeling like this lately, Saturn in Sag maybe, the eclipse am not sure but I have been feeling like I want to contact my dad who left us when I was 10. I am worried he will pass away soon....

Is this a transit or should I at least write it?

Sparkling (an unhappy Sparkling...). Willing to exchange . x

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posted March 30, 2015 03:23 PM            

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I feel like you should. Always follow your heart.

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posted March 30, 2015 03:25 PM            

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I think you should too. I feel like you will.

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posted March 30, 2015 03:46 PM            

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I have a feeling he will die soon...I can't shake this feeling off.

I can write a letter, send it. Doesn't mean he is in my life but that I have at least asked the questions.

Sparkling

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posted March 30, 2015 03:51 PM            

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Originally posted by SparklingSag:
I have a feeling he will die soon...I can't shake this feeling off.

I can write a letter, send it. Doesn't mean he is in my life but that I have at least asked the questions.

Sparkling

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Wow, just saying though.. I kinda feel the same way about my dad.. o.o But anyway, at least you contacted him so you won't feel like "I wished I could of sent him a letter" when it's too late. Hopefully he doesn't pass away.

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posted March 30, 2015 03:58 PM            

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I feel like what happened 20 years ago is affecting me currently....Perhaps if I send a note it will give the closure I seem to need. But is this something any one who has been abandoned by a parent thinks?

Sparkling

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posted March 30, 2015 03:59 PM            

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It can certianly still be affecting you, and probably him as well. I think the only way to get closure is come to him from you heart and say what you need to say with love.

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posted March 30, 2015 04:10 PM            

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Originally posted by athenegoddess:
It can certianly still be affecting you, and probably him as well. I think the only way to get closure is come to him from you heart and say what you need to say with love.

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Thank you <3

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posted March 30, 2015 04:21 PM            

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SparklingSag, I feel you. I really do. Even though I didn’t go through such an experience as you did.

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So, if you ask me – if you have enough courage to get in contact with him, to reach out to him (even if only by mail), do it. This will probably be much needed closure for you!

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posted March 30, 2015 04:35 PM            

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You should never fear saying these things or anything.. fear is the opposite of love.

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posted March 30, 2015 04:36 PM            

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posted March 30, 2015 04:41 PM            

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Thanks all

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posted March 30, 2015 05:50 PM            

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Sparkling,

I can relate and empathize. You should do it. It's not healthy to push those emotions down and lock them away. I think if you're able to express exactly how you feel, without anticipating or expecting a response, you'll be alright. Sounds like you need healing & this could be the catalyst that starts the process. All the best darling!!!

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posted March 30, 2015 09:42 PM            

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Yes Sparkling go ahead and I hope it brings both of you peace and freedom from your negative feelings which both of you may have carried with you all consciously or subconsciously.

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posted April 17, 2015 07:28 PM            

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Had to write to update you. So although I didn't write the letter my Dad contacted me! Via my old workplace. He called and is sending a gift to there. WOW. Maybe he psychically connected with me when I was agonizing over whether to contact him.

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posted April 17, 2015 07:33 PM            

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Wow that's good to hear.

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posted April 17, 2015 07:38 PM            

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I hope this can start a healing process for me.

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posted April 17, 2015 10:17 PM            

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ive been having dreams about my ex best friend... was thinking of contacting her too lolol and then i saw this post on LL Goodluck! keep us updated!

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posted April 17, 2015 11:11 PM            

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Lovely!

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posted April 18, 2015 03:43 AM            

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Lovely!

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Isn't it very much synchronicity - I do feel sometimes the psychic bond we have with others is stronger than we think.

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posted April 18, 2015 09:59 AM            

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I think you should.

If you can make amends and have the means to do so, you should.
If you have a feeling, you should follow that feeling.
You're both (most likely) two different people now, and I think that you're probably more able to handle it than you think!

Worse case scenario is that things go back to how they are now, but you don't lose anything. Instead, you gain by feeling/knowing you can do more than you imagined. Wishing you the best!

P.s. The new moon grants you support and luck x

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posted April 18, 2015 10:00 AM            

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Glad to see you already did it! X

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posted April 18, 2015 11:32 AM            

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Ikja- He did it! I was thinking about it but he did it. Spooky timing! New moon is good? Hoping my BF now comes around - he is being so uncommunicative.

Sparkling

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