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Topic: sad and depressed..
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ILovePoems
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posted April 04, 2015 09:51 AM
  
I know I keep talking about E(my ex) but this is very weird. I didn't know he was in a relationship during the time I was asking does he has feelings for me. Well everybody was saying yes (mostly), I found out he was dating this girl. (they only known each other for a few days an they just went out so fast.) He kept it a secret... I mean he acted like he was single soooo nobody knew. I felt that he just rushed into without thinking but who knows.. Maybe he found his soul mate.  I then double checked to see if he is hiding his feelings an I got a yes.. (but doubting now) If anyone knows.. Does he think I would know about this? I'm scared to ask to be his friend now.. So confused. If anyone would like to exchange, I can do picture reading. :/IP: Logged |
LostSoulRebecca
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posted April 04, 2015 11:17 AM
Hi ILP. I am so sorry that you have to go through this. I pulled some cards for you.Ten of Cups – Ace of Wands – Page of Swords – Two of Swords With Ten of Cups I think that your Ex did find a woman that gives him happiness and brings harmony in his life. However, I am not sure if it will last… Right now he is probably happy with what he has. For you right now it’s the most important to do things that inspire you, things that are creative. What do like to do? How do you spend your free time? Do something new. Because this is how you will attract new romance into your life. This person, that will enter your life, will probably be pretty fiery (Aries, Leo, Sagittarius), and a passionate and energetic relationship is indicated. However, there can be some disharmony in your relationship to this person IF you won’t take a look at your love life with both, your head and your heart! Maybe your EX will still be messing with your head or something else will occupy your mind and therefore you won’t be able to fully enjoy your new relationship. You have to take a step forward and don’t allow those kind of thoughts to overpower you! You must really be determined that you want love that inspires you and that uplifts you – only then you will actually receive it! Potential for really lovely new relationship most definitely is there – you just need to embrace it! Well, I hope that it helps a bit. Again, I am sorry, that you have to go through this kind of feelings. It sucks, I know, but it does get better. 
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erickaf
Knowflake Posts: 205
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posted April 04, 2015 11:25 AM
Hey I would love to help but I am a bit confused what exactly if your question? Do you want to know if you should remain friends with him??
I am sorry you what you are going through.IP: Logged |
VacantGazer
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posted April 04, 2015 11:30 AM
Hey ILovePoems, I hope you're ok. I understand what you're going through, but it will get better with time, it really will. Just focus on yourself and do somethings you enjoy doing, to take your mind of it. IP: Logged |
ILovePoems
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posted April 04, 2015 12:11 PM
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Originally posted by LostSoulRebecca:
Hi ILP. I am so sorry that you have to go through this. I pulled some cards for you.Ten of Cups – Ace of Wands – Page of Swords – Two of Swords With Ten of Cups I think that your Ex did find a woman that gives him happiness and brings harmony in his life. However, I am not sure if it will last… Right now he is probably happy with what he has. For you right now it’s the most important to do things that inspire you, things that are creative. What do like to do? How do you spend your free time? Do something new. Because this is how you will attract new romance into your life. This person, that will enter your life, will probably be pretty fiery (Aries, Leo, Sagittarius), and a passionate and energetic relationship is indicated. However, there can be some disharmony in your relationship to this person IF you won’t take a look at your love life with both, your head and your heart! Maybe your EX will still be messing with your head or something else will occupy your mind and therefore you won’t be able to fully enjoy your new relationship. You have to take a step forward and don’t allow those kind of thoughts to overpower you! You must really be determined that you want love that inspires you and that uplifts you – only then you will actually receive it! Potential for really lovely new relationship most definitely is there – you just need to embrace it! Well, I hope that it helps a bit. Again, I am sorry, that you have to go through this kind of feelings. It sucks, I know, but it does get better.
Thank you for pulls.. I don't know what to think anymore. He wont even make up his mind if I can be his friend or something.. He keeps changing his mind. IP: Logged |
LostSoulRebecca
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posted April 04, 2015 12:16 PM
If I were you, I would let him alone. A least for a month or two. He's acting child-like (Page of Swords) and he is messing with your head. Very unhealthy for you!My advice would be to let him do whatever he wants to do. You need some 'you time'. IP: Logged |
ILovePoems
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posted April 04, 2015 12:17 PM
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Originally posted by erickaf:
Hey I would love to help but I am a bit confused what exactly if your question? Do you want to know if you should remain friends with him??
I am sorry you what you are going through.
We not friends at all, sadly. :/ I asked him last month could we be friends or something an he was like " well I'll have to cam you at some point" so I was like "okay" but then he changed his mind. After that I was confused.. So I've keep being told he is hiding his feelings an I might not ever know how he feels about me because he treats me like Anna from Frozen. I was hoping if someone could at least tell me how does he feel about me? Because being told "he has feelings an he's hiding it" is not enough to actually make me believe that. :/ IP: Logged |
ILovePoems
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posted April 04, 2015 12:22 PM
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Originally posted by LostSoulRebecca:
If I were you, I would let him alone. A least for a month or two. He's acting child-like (Page of Swords) and he is messing with your head. Very unhealthy for you!My advice would be to let him do whatever he wants to do. You need some 'you time'.
He is very childish but I still care about him. :/
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ILovePoems
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posted April 04, 2015 12:36 PM
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Originally posted by VacantGazer:
Hey ILovePoems, I hope you're ok. I understand what you're going through, but it will get better with time, it really will. Just focus on yourself and do somethings you enjoy doing, to take your mind of it.
Thank you. I'm trying to, but its still kinda hard, but again thank you.  IP: Logged |
erickaf
Knowflake Posts: 205
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posted April 04, 2015 12:38 PM
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Originally posted by ILovePoems:
We not friends at all, sadly. :/ I asked him last month could we be friends or something an he was like " well I'll have to cam you at some point" so I was like "okay" but then he changed his mind. After that I was confused.. So I've keep being told he is hiding his feelings an I might not ever know how he feels about me because he treats me like Anna from Frozen. I was hoping if someone could at least tell me how does he feel about me? Because being told "he has feelings an he's hiding it" is not enough to actually make me believe that. :/
Ship - Whip - BouquetSo I asked how he feels about YOU...does he live far away? From these cards I get that he feels distant from you, but in general he feels you are a charming person, the last card is very nice card...the presence of the middle card there which to me is the central card is the focus card...I think he feels a bit there is some misunderstanding and lack of communication. Does he even know you like him or that you want to be friends? So in sum, I think there doesn't seem to be any connection, but does find you attractive and nice person.
What do you think?
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ILovePoems
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posted April 04, 2015 12:53 PM
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Originally posted by erickaf:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by ILovePoems:
[b] We not friends at all, sadly. :/ I asked him last month could we be friends or something an he was like " well I'll have to cam you at some point" so I was like "okay" but then he changed his mind. After that I was confused.. So I've keep being told he is hiding his feelings an I might not ever know how he feels about me because he treats me like Anna from Frozen. I was hoping if someone could at least tell me how does he feel about me? Because being told "he has feelings an he's hiding it" is not enough to actually make me believe that. :/
Ship - Whip - BouquetSo I asked how he feels about YOU...does he live far away? From these cards I get that he feels distant from you, but in general he feels you are a charming person, the last card is very nice card...the presence of the middle card there which to me is the central card is the focus card...I think he feels a bit there is some misunderstanding and lack of communication. Does he even know you like him or that you want to be friends? So in sum, I think there doesn't seem to be any connection, but does find you attractive and nice person.
What do you think?[/B][/QUOTE] Yes, you're right about that. He does live far away. How do you know that? lol Anyway, I don't know if he does even think of me as an attractive person an nice. He acts like he hates me. That's why I'm so confused... And yes, I told him I love him, I told him I care about him, I also told him I think about him everyday.. All he told me was that "I've been hurt an lied to. We have to see eachother" I told him "We can talk on the phone or cam or something" AN then he said "We have to cam at some point" But then he lied to me... I kinda just want to fly an airplane an ask him in person lol IP: Logged |
erickaf
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posted April 04, 2015 01:00 PM
Oh I am sorry! If he doesn't say I love you back then forget him!! IP: Logged |
ILovePoems
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posted April 04, 2015 01:23 PM
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Originally posted by erickaf:
Oh I am sorry! If he doesn't say I love you back then forget him!!
Thank you for the reading though. I also think that's why he's hiding what he thinks if me IP: Logged |
ILovePoems
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posted April 04, 2015 08:32 PM
Well... one of my friends talked to him an he said he's looking for a girl... so.... uh.... I don't know if he's taken or not. An if he is.. he might be cheating ._.IP: Logged |
LexusVirgo
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posted April 05, 2015 12:00 AM
Give me a synastry chart I wanna see the aspects between you two.IP: Logged |
LexusVirgo
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posted April 05, 2015 12:01 AM
If a man does not talk about the girl he is with he does not love her and is looking to upgrade. I have six brothers i know how men operate. So if he never mentions her is cause he does not want that to become between you two.IP: Logged |
ILovePoems
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posted April 05, 2015 01:07 AM
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Originally posted by LexusVirgo:
If a man does not talk about the girl he is with he does not love her and is looking to upgrade. I have six brothers i know how men operate. So if he never mentions her is cause he does not want that to become between you two.
I do have a synastry chart but i don't have his time of birth. And yes you are very right. The whole time my friend was talking to him, he never mentioned one thing about her at all.. Which was very strange. IP: Logged |
LexusVirgo
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posted April 05, 2015 04:00 AM
She is just a booty call then. Okay just put 1200 pm as his birthdate if you do not know it.IP: Logged |
ILovePoems
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posted April 05, 2015 11:44 AM
[IMG]http://i1383.photobucket.com/albums/ah295/ILovePoems/4d411e47 -47ca-440f-a3c4-6136ad85808b_zpsetfpnik6.gif[/IMG]Here is the chart, I'm a virgo an he's a Gemini. I do believe you looked at this chart before, but can't remember.. IP: Logged |
LexusVirgo
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posted April 06, 2015 05:19 AM
His moon is in your first house. My mom has a bunch of old astrology books and back in the day (70s) This was the indicator of marriage. he sees you as his idea and his moon is pretty close to your ascendant. His chiron in your first. He bring sou pain though also.His mars in your 8th house.. How can you think he on't like you I was the mars person in someones 8th house I wanted them badly. His saturn is in your 7th this could lead to a long term relationship after obstacles are out of the way. But his moon in your first is confirmation for his feelings for you and mars in the 8th just confirms it. Moon and 1st house was seen as the marriage aspect back in the day.Especially when its man moon in womans first house.IP: Logged |
ILovePoems
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posted April 06, 2015 11:45 AM
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Originally posted by LexusVirgo:
His moon is in your first house. My mom has a bunch of old astrology books and back in the day (70s) This was the indicator of marriage. he sees you as his idea and his moon is pretty close to your ascendant. His chiron in your first. He bring sou pain though also.His mars in your 8th house.. How can you think he on't like you I was the mars person in someones 8th house I wanted them badly. His saturn is in your 7th this could lead to a long term relationship after obstacles are out of the way. But his moon in your first is confirmation for his feelings for you and mars in the 8th just confirms it. Moon and 1st house was seen as the marriage aspect back in the day.Especially when its man moon in womans first house.
Wow... I thought you can't find things out without the right birth time? ._. Anyway, the only reason why I don't think he likes me is because he keeps pushing me away. It seems he doesn't want me close, he doesn't say it but how his actions are. Also, I've been told we could be married in the future but that was a psychic that I don't even know if it will even be true at all. IP: Logged |
ILovePoems
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posted April 07, 2015 03:36 AM
*bump*IP: Logged |
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