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Topic: Can he be a sociopath with such a beautiful chart?
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melodiemelodie
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posted April 05, 2015 09:33 AM
  
hello all!
I hope and wish you this lunar eclipse and full moon have brought you clarity and peace as they have for me...I have come to realize that my ex, who I thought was a twinflame is a rather socipathic one. I never knew much about sociopaths aside of it being a common thing women would call their ''bad'' exes but I stumbled upon a blog about them and my mind was blown. I could relate to every single thing I read; the lovebombing early in the relationship, the gaslighting, making me feel crazy, intense selfishness (I got a pregnant and miscarried yet I had to comfort him for all the pain and trauma he was going through even though he dumped me when he learned it and left me alone), manipulative lies, complimenting me and treating me like a queen to giving me the cold shoulder and insulting me for no reason...I could go on. While he destroyed me I am thankful for this experience as it has taught me as an empath to set my boundaries and learn to respect and love myself (though it's been a long and painful road since 2012).anyway, I was looking at his chart (as he popped up yet again to mess with my feelings and sends me ambiguous facebook messages of destiny and talks in grandiose terms, he is very stalkerish, it's called hoovering in sociopath blog jargon) and thought, holy!¸
what a beautiful and charming and enticing chart. how can someone with such lovely aspects fool so many? the fact that he is surrounded and loved by so many makes me wonder sometimes if I am the crazy one...? and then I remember him insulting me (***** ) for a compliment a stranger gave me in public once calling, for being possessive and jealous and trying to instill trauma in me. for pushing me to the edge and making me cry to smother me with kisses barely 30 seconds later... argh, anyway. I am at peace with the past. Do you see aspects that could point to sociopath behaviours (deceiving, cunning, lying, charming, violent)?
also here's our composite if you are interested, perhaps it will make me seem less weak and crazy for having fallen for him. I know I shouldn't but I still feel ashamed for being so naïve. IP: Logged |
ReadingTheStars95
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posted April 05, 2015 10:22 AM
That moon/Venus conjunction, quincunx Uranus...Could show being very on/off with things.. Especially emotional and romantic energies.. Sometimes moon-Uranus contacts are seen in people with bipolar disorder, or other emotional disorders. If that Venus-Pluto contact was tighter, I would say that would probably have a little significance too.. IP: Logged |
ReadingTheStars95
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posted April 05, 2015 10:28 AM
Also... That Sun-Mars square could have a LITTLE to do with it. That is an aspect I also personally have. (I also have mars squaring pluto though.. Having my sun opposite pluto..) I think sometimes mars square sun can show an influence of the native not knowing where to direct their energy.. Or, in his case, it could show a bit of moodiness, because he has a bit of an inner conflict of emotion.Actually.. It could even partly be that grand earth trine being manifested in a not so positive way. Just because a formation is generally seen as "positive" does not mean it has to be expressed that way. Juno Conjunct Pluto, if manifested through lower energy could show the native being someone who wants to have relationships in which they are in control. In the end.. Even an "amazing" chart can become very negative. Even "positive" aspects have negative ways of manifesting, if used correctly.. As also, "Negative" aspects can be brought about to a more positive expression, if the work is put in. I don't really agree with 'bad degrees' but, it is said that 25 degrees Leo can be seen as a negative degree.. Although, there is a lot more that goes into it than that. IP: Logged |
melodiemelodie
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posted April 05, 2015 10:51 AM
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Originally posted by ReadingTheStars95:
Also... That Sun-Mars square could have a LITTLE to do with it. That is an aspect I also personally have. (I also have mars squaring pluto though.. Having my sun opposite pluto..) I think sometimes mars square sun can show an influence of the native not knowing where to direct their energy.. Or, in his case, it could show a bit of moodiness, because he has a bit of an inner conflict of emotion.Actually.. It could even partly be that grand earth trine being manifested in a not so positive way. Just because a formation is generally seen as "positive" does not mean it has to be expressed that way. Juno Conjunct Pluto, if manifested through lower energy could show the native being someone who wants to have relationships in which they are in control. In the end.. Even an "amazing" chart can become very negative. Even "positive" aspects have negative ways of manifesting, if used correctly.. As also, "Negative" aspects can be brought about to a more positive expression, if the work is put in.
thank you! I idealize and romanticize too much and tend to put him on a pedestal.
thanks for the enlightenment  IP: Logged |
ReadingTheStars95
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posted April 05, 2015 10:59 AM
Ah yeah.. I think most of us have had at least one person that we've kind of romanticized/put on a pedestal.IP: Logged |
LexusVirgo
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posted April 06, 2015 05:23 AM
Mars oppose pluto could make him violent.IP: Logged |
melodiemelodie
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posted April 06, 2015 10:03 AM
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Originally posted by LexusVirgo:
Mars oppose pluto could make him violent.
Yes he is very violent, always gets into physical fights and has gotten borderline physical with me (never hit me, but gave me bruises from dragging me by the arm and such). Hmmm never thought of this aspect as potentially dangerous. IP: Logged | |
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