posted April 12, 2015 08:18 AM            

1. The querent's current position.

two swords reversed

2. The querent's ex-partner's or partner's current position.

ten of cups

3. Positive actions that should be taken by querent.

ace of cups reversed

4. Negative actions that should not be taken by querent.

lovers reversed

5. Other influences that may affect the situation for good or bad.

moon reversed

6. The time scale that a possible reunion/reconciliation may take.

nine of pentacles reversed

7. The degree of success that may be achieved in the short term.

knight of wands reversed

8. The degree of success that may be achieved in the long term.

knight of pentacles

9. Overall view and/or recommendation.

five of pentacles reversed

any clues how to proceed? thank you so much in advance!!

posted April 12, 2015 08:59 AM            

1. I think you're trying to be cautious about this. You want a relationship, but don't want to lose focus of your life, especially if the relationship isn't going how you want it to go.
2. Don't worry. Your partner wants things to work out just as much as you do.
3. I think someone hurt you a lot in the past and now you can't help but be afraid to be hurt again. You need to let go.
4. Don't try to rush things and push your partner. Be patient.
5. Things might be too "sensitive" between you right now, so even the smallest of things might turn into a fight and/or hurt feelings, which might make you want to take harsh decisions during the heated moments. Avoid that.
6. Things won't get better right way. You'll need to work on it and on yourself in order to save it.
7. Assuming the person is a man, does he have light colored hair and is fun?
In the short term, I think you'll be able to get to the bottom of the problem and develop real trust on each other.
8. In the long term, seems like things between you will get serious after you learn to work things out and take responsability for your actions inside the relationship.
9. I think you feel your partner is not as engaged in the relationship as you, that maybe they don't care enough. I'd recommend that you start seeing your partner as "human". They're flawed like you and everyone else. They're not guessers. If something is bothering you, open up and tell them how you feel.
I think I should also say that even if this relationship doesn't work, it doesn't mean there's something wrong with you.
It might be that maybe this person is not the one, and that's okay.

posted April 12, 2015 09:06 AM            

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Originally posted by midnightvenus:

I know some stuff sounds cliche, but as I said, I tried to keep it simple!

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posted April 12, 2015 09:12 AM            

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Originally posted by la_mer:
thank you so much, this actually helped a lot! I need to learn more tarot too, only got the meaning of the basic cards down
thanks again, the issue has been giving me a heavy heart for a while

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posted April 12, 2015 09:23 AM            

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Originally posted by midnightvenus:
I'm glad I was able to help!!!
I hope everything works out and that you get this weight out of your heart

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