posted April 14, 2015 02:52 PM            

The guy I (really like) came my our team's desk to ask us if we wanted to go for drinks. (He's got this weird habit of always coming to my colleague's desk and start a convo with me instead). As usual, I barely replied because I get too nervous when he's around.

Then, as he was talking to someone else, she said in a very obvious tone: "I'm only going because you like him". This guy's friend (who works in my team) heard her. Then she told me: "Shut up, he heard you when you said you liked him". I didn't even say anything, she was the one who brought it up.

I'm so embarrassed. Now, his friend and him are going to mock me. This is so embarrassing, I feel like dying right now. His friend isn't my friend and he uses any excuse to throw shades. I'm mortified. I've been rejected so many times, I don't want to deal with this.

I really didn't need her to do this.

How should I approach the situation? Will this "crush" mock me now? This is so bad.

posted April 14, 2015 04:11 PM            

Your virgo friend maybe thought that she made a favor to you with hinting the guy that you might like him. It definitely wasn`t cool but might be very well just her lack of forethought. Maybe you should discuss with her and tell that you didn`t like her behaviour if you haven`t already.

posted April 14, 2015 04:51 PM            

My "friend" thinks my "crush" likes me and I have a feeling she somewhat did it purposely to put me on the spot because I've been extremely cold towards him.

posted April 14, 2015 05:22 PM            

Just try to see anything positive that might occur from this.

' It's actually a good thing Virgo friend blurted it out because.... '

posted April 14, 2015 05:32 PM            

To be fair, aside from him maybe enjoying the attention once his friend tells him, I don't see any positive side to this. This very much feels like high school right now.

posted April 14, 2015 05:41 PM            

Or if you're not interested if he'll approach you, you'll tell him no, you're not interested and he'll leave you alone?

posted April 14, 2015 05:51 PM            

Cause it is like high school lol and if you like him but act like you hate him, not much was going to happen.

Maybe you needed the push. How much more awkward can it get now?

posted April 14, 2015 05:57 PM            

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Originally posted by MineAgain:
This Virgo co-worker and I grew closer over the past weeks. I thought she was becoming a true friend but she sort of betrayed me today.

The guy I (really like) came my our team's desk to ask us if we wanted to go for drinks. (He's got this weird habit of always coming to my colleague's desk and start a convo with me instead). As usual, I barely replied because I get too nervous when he's around.

Then, as he was talking to someone else, she said in a very obvious tone: "I'm only going because you like him". This guy's friend (who works in my team) heard her. Then she told me: "Shut up, he heard you when you said you liked him". I didn't even say anything, she was the one who brought it up.

I'm so embarrassed. Now, his friend and him are going to mock me. This is so embarrassing, I feel like dying right now. His friend isn't my friend and he uses any excuse to throw shades. I'm mortified. I've been rejected so many times, I don't want to deal with this.

I really didn't need her to do this.

How should I approach the situation? Will this "crush" mock me now? This is so bad.

Thanks!

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Omg..I can only imagine! Wow..

I can def. do a reading for you. What are both your initials if you don't mind? I want to see if I can help..

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posted April 15, 2015 12:04 AM            

My name is A, her name is A. The guy's name is T.

posted April 15, 2015 01:39 AM            

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Originally posted by MineAgain:
Thank you very much Empress

My name is A, her name is A. The guy's name is T.

Thank you!

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I'm not sure if you'll be able to relate to this too much currently. Let me know whether you are, or not. Depending on your answer I'll see if I hold off on the prediction until some other time where if we don't have a connection now, maybe in the future we will. I might try again in the future.

Ok, when it comes to current feelings and emotions between you two I'm getting that one of you seems to feel and come across as busy with work and/or studies currently. This person has a crush on the other, but currently tries to hide it and comes across as being busy with work and/or studies.

From the other person I'm getting they feel a bit burdened. This person feels like there's some past relationship baggage/issues in their lives still - so some struggle. However, I see this person feels romantically attracted to the other and feels like being flirtatious with them, but in a fickle sort of manner. I'm also picking up another long term commitment/relationship around them that they may still feel somewhat involved in. Although, I'm getting that it's unconventional, but it's still of importance to them. Not getting that this person is 100% available, but still they are attracted to the other.

Between you two I'm getting you both feel ungrounded currently and may need to take better care of your health and/or finances at present. You both want to offer the other a new opportunity/chance to begin something grounded, but getting the feeling that communication suffers between you two. Getting you both feel like taking things really slowllyyy..

Ok, the first two paragraphs should describe how you feel and how he feels (one of the first two should apply to your feelings only, while the other to his), while the third paragraph is how you both currently feel about each other as a whole.

Let me know if you can connect before I make the future prediction..

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posted April 15, 2015 03:32 PM            

You are indeed very spot on. He is 21 and is still a student. He still studies a lot, parties a lot and works in the company as an intern. He's very fickle with his attention though. He ignores me sometimes, then comes back full force. He makes no sense.

As for me, everytime our interactions go badly, I find myself longing for this guy I dated back in 2013-2014. I still think of this guy daily but a lot less than before due to this new guy, T. I'm still holding on to the past to a certain degree.

I'm still struggling with the fact that I need to allow myself to like someone again because 1) this means, it's completely over with the past guy and he's part of the past 2) I have to face a potential rejection/heartbreak, which I can't deal with. This is why I'm so cold towards him. I usually act like the super busy individual so he can't interact with me.

Today we went for drinks after work and there were a bunch of russian girls from work, her barely acknowledged me. The only thing he told me was "It's nice to see you smile", the rest of the time, he was talking to those russian girls. I didn't exist.

The finances/health part isn't accurate though. Communication indeed suffers because we can't communicate like two decent individuals. It always end up in a mini argument.

I indeed feel like getting to know him really slowly.

posted April 15, 2015 04:04 PM            

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Originally posted by MineAgain:
Thank you very much Empress!

You are indeed very spot on. He is 21 and is still a student. He still studies a lot, parties a lot and works in the company as an intern. He's very fickle with his attention though. He ignores me sometimes, then comes back full force. He makes no sense.

As for me, everytime our interactions go badly, I find myself longing for this guy I dated back in 2013-2014. I still think of this guy daily but a lot less than before due to this new guy, T. I'm still holding on to the past to a certain degree.

I'm still struggling with the fact that I need to allow myself to like someone again because 1) this means, it's completely over with the past guy and he's part of the past 2) I have to face a potential rejection/heartbreak, which I can't deal with. This is why I'm so cold towards him. I usually act like the super busy individual so he can't interact with me.

Today we went for drinks after work and there were a bunch of russian girls from work, her barely acknowledged me. The only thing he told me was "It's nice to see you smile", the rest of the time, he was talking to those russian girls. I didn't exist.

The finances/health part isn't accurate though. Communication indeed suffers because we can't communicate like two decent individuals. It always end up in a mini argument.

I indeed feel like getting to know him really slowly.

So far, your reading is accurate! Thank you

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Aw..sorry to hear that he didn't acknowledge you. So wait, he knows you like him though, right? At least he didn't bring it up, haha.

Ok I will finish your reading today. Thanks about telling me about the inaccuracy - not sure what else that could mean right now, but someone (I feel) needs to manage either their health or finances a bit better. Maybe not totally seeing it right now. Ok I will finish this up before the day is over hopefully. Thanks for the feedback

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posted April 17, 2015 05:25 AM            

Before/within 8 weeks the most significant event I see happening between you two is one of you acting grounded, but emotionally vague towards the other. This person will keep their emotions mostly to themselves, and I'm again getting another long-term commitment/relationship around this individual. I'm not sure what that may mean right now, but I'm getting this person will be unavailable to commit to the other in a romantic sort of way around this time period.

From the other person I'm getting they will feel a little emotionally confused and uncertain. They will feel like communication will be bad - it will suffer. I'm getting bickering, and a playfulness sort of vibe at the same time from this person

Between you two I'm getting you both feeling pleased with how things will flow. I'm getting you both will cooperate and will communicate slowly. To be honest I'm not getting much "romance". Just that you two will communicate most likely about work related matter(s).

Well, keep me updated if you want/can. Not sure why I keep getting this "long term commitment/relationship" around one of you two. Remember that this is only a short term prediction though. Doesn't mean it will stay this way throughout the whole year, etc..

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“So whatever you wish that others would do to you, do also to them, for this is the Law and the Prophets."

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posted April 27, 2015 05:20 PM            

He's been ignoring me for about two weeks now. Although we talked after my friend had this "slip", he cut me off cold turkey right after.

I smile at him, he doesn't even look at me. He's also been ignoring my friend. I must be very repulsive for him to be ignoring me like this.

Today he turned around when he heard my voice (I was talking to my co-worker/friend) and looked at me but didn't come to say "Hi".

This makes no sense to me how he was so "friendly" and suddenly, I don't exist anymore.

I suspect someone must have told him something not so nice about me because it's as though I don't exist anymore. Such switch doesn't happen suddenly.