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Topic: leaving but
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ILovePoems
Knowflake Posts: 409
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Registered: Feb 2015
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posted April 19, 2015 03:59 PM
  
So today I want to leave (I might be on here every now an then) but since I was crying for the last 15-20 minutes (yes immature isn't it?) wondering what I did, I just cant think straight. I'm still doing picture reads an helping people. And I keep continuing to do it for ever for free. It's my destiny to help people. So if anyone have something negative to say, please keep it to yourself. And if anybody wants my email to keep in touch or a picture read, please tell me. for the people that I gave my email to, I will keep in touch but I feel that everyone is older than me an I need to learn how to grow up.IP: Logged |
FruityLlama
Knowflake Posts: 576
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Registered: Sep 2013
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posted April 19, 2015 04:02 PM
Hope you're alright ILP. I'm sorry to hear you were upset. Know that I'm sending you lots of hugs and don't feel silly about having a little cry every so often. I always find it helps just to get things off your chest anyway so who cares if people think its childish  IP: Logged |
FairyDust75
Knowflake Posts: 1894
From: USA
Registered: Dec 2013
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posted April 19, 2015 04:08 PM
I cry ALL THE TIME over everything. It feels good to let it all out. Don't ever apologize for how you feel. You are very kind and a good person!IP: Logged |
onlythegoodthings
Knowflake Posts: 50
From: Italy
Registered: Apr 2015
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posted April 19, 2015 04:37 PM
Hi ILovePoems. What's wrong? I don't want you to leaveee. Your readings always seemed so accurate with me, like the tall guy smiling at me. If you want to help people just do it. It's ok to make mistakes. We all make mistakes and we learn.IP: Logged |
ScorpioLove
Knowflake Posts: 313
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Registered: Jan 2013
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posted April 19, 2015 04:48 PM
Hi, you helped me out a lot and I hope all all your wishes and dreams come true if you do leave, but you shouldn't leave you did help out a lot on the site, and seemed to enjoy it as well! IP: Logged |
ILovePoems
Knowflake Posts: 409
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Registered: Feb 2015
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posted April 19, 2015 05:11 PM
<3 <3 I want to continue to help people. but thanks everyone.IP: Logged |
cherful24
Knowflake Posts: 4078
From: chicago, il
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted April 19, 2015 05:31 PM
honestly I think I gave the same pose you did, like twice. and you'll notice a lot of other people have goodbye post. it's something in this forums culture or energy or environment that makes people leave. And this is supposed to be a thread for developing your skills but people, and I'm guilty of this too, get really angry when a reading his a cord. Whether it's not the answer they wanted to hear, whether they think it's incorrect or whether it turns out it is actually incorrect. But again this thread is to develop your skills and some people act like you should always be right 100% of the time. I saw ur thread, the one that made you cry, and all I can say is...you can't take things too personally weather is on here or somewhere else. You never know what mood someone is going to be in. I think what you were trying to say got lost in translation, that's all. but don't beat yourself up over it.IP: Logged |
ILovePoems
Knowflake Posts: 409
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Registered: Feb 2015
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posted April 19, 2015 05:53 PM
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Originally posted by cherful24:
honestly I think I gave the same pose you did, like twice. and you'll notice a lot of other people have goodbye post. it's something in this forums culture or energy or environment that makes people leave. And this is supposed to be a thread for developing your skills but people, and I'm guilty of this too, get really angry when a reading his a cord. Whether it's not the answer they wanted to hear, whether they think it's incorrect or whether it turns out it is actually incorrect. But again this thread is to develop your skills and some people act like you should always be right 100% of the time. I saw ur thread, the one that made you cry, and all I can say is...you can't take things too personally weather is on here or somewhere else. You never know what mood someone is going to be in. I think what you were trying to say got lost in translation, that's all. but don't beat yourself up over it.
Well mood can affect others. :/ and thanks, tried not to get upset about it, but now someone hates me for it. I should of kept it to myself, but something wanted me to just say it. IP: Logged |
BellaFenice
Knowflake Posts: 2778
From: Neptune with PisceanDream, Faith, and Meissieri
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted April 19, 2015 05:54 PM
Don't leave! I just made a thread last night about this issue. A lot of people here appreciate the readings you have done for them, and I would hate to see another person leave due to one negative incident.No one is ever 100% perfect, so remember that we are all here to learn and making mistakes will happen to everyone. People should treat each other with respect, so I'm sorry if this was not the case for you. If you don't come back, best wishes! IP: Logged |
ILovePoems
Knowflake Posts: 409
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Registered: Feb 2015
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posted April 19, 2015 07:29 PM
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Originally posted by BellaFenice:
Don't leave! I just made a thread last night about this issue. A lot of people here appreciate the readings you have done for them, and I would hate to see another person leave due to one negative incident.No one is ever 100% perfect, so remember that we are all here to learn and making mistakes will happen to everyone. People should treat each other with respect, so I'm sorry if this was not the case for you. If you don't come back, best wishes!
Why should I stay if that person hates me? It makes me not want to be on here. IP: Logged |
aleenaxo
Knowflake Posts: 206
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Registered: Nov 2013
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posted April 19, 2015 07:44 PM
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Originally posted by ILovePoems:
Why should I stay if that person hates me? It makes me not want to be on here.
I'm still pretty new, but it seems like there are waaaay more people that like you compared to the one person. Not everyone will like you because unfortunately you can't please everyone. I wish the world was a place where we could all get along. IP: Logged |
cherful24
Knowflake Posts: 4078
From: chicago, il
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted April 19, 2015 08:09 PM
In all fairness to the other...intuitive fish, I think, ....she did say she will come back and revisit the comment because she's not in the best place. so again I think it just got lost in translation in what you were trying to convey to her. I don't know what she's going through but if you're already in a not so good place, you can read what you wrote coming off incorrectly. So it's just a misunderstanding. but of course both of you, like anybody, would want to defend themselves if they think they're being attacked. but if you're still angry simply just read for others. Take a few days to think about. It's hard to make any decision if you're crying IP: Logged |
BellaFenice
Knowflake Posts: 2778
From: Neptune with PisceanDream, Faith, and Meissieri
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted April 19, 2015 08:17 PM
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Originally posted by ILovePoems:
Why should I stay if that person hates me? It makes me not want to be on here.
I just read the thread with the situation, and honestly I'm surprised intuitivefish reacted that way. I think like Cherful is saying, she is going through something and responded likewise. I understand why you are hurt, because it was a strong reaction. I think ultimately take a few breaths, and take a little time off if you are feeling really upset. Sometimes because the energy in this particular forum is so concentrated it can vastly affect us. Ok, back to studying now. IP: Logged |
ILovePoems
Knowflake Posts: 409
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Registered: Feb 2015
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posted April 19, 2015 09:01 PM
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Originally posted by cherful24:
In all fairness to the other...intuitive fish, I think, ....she did say she will come back and revisit the comment because she's not in the best place. so again I think it just got lost in translation in what you were trying to convey to her. I don't know what she's going through but if you're already in a not so good place, you can read what you wrote coming off incorrectly. So it's just a misunderstanding. but of course both of you, like anybody, would want to defend themselves if they think they're being attacked. but if you're still angry simply just read for others. Take a few days to think about. It's hard to make any decision if you're crying
But I still want her to apologize at least. I didn't really know she was going through anything, but I'm still young an don't fully know how to control my emotions to anyone being upset or going through something. :/ IP: Logged |
MinceyMouse
Knowflake Posts: 1835
From: Indonesia for now
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted April 19, 2015 09:20 PM
Ilovepoems- it takes time to stop caring what people think of you in real life and in the cyber world. I know it's hard right now to deal with it, but as time goes by and you mature, you'll be able to distance yourself from the emotions you feel around you.Your not alone in what happened. IP: Logged |
poochycat
Knowflake Posts: 1194
From: Vancouver, Canada
Registered: Jun 2013
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posted April 19, 2015 09:32 PM
Ah don't leave  I know that Lindaland is not a very nice place to be some times. I have had run-ins with some people on this site but on the whole every one is very friendly and are here to help. Don't let someone who is probably very negative to begin with make YOU miserable. There are people on here who do care. Poochy XX IP: Logged |
Sabine
Knowflake Posts: 212
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Registered: Jan 2012
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posted April 19, 2015 09:51 PM
I have not asked you for a reading before, but from posts and responses I've seen I think you have been tremendous help to others. There are days I just want to leave this place also because at times when I asked for help people don't really respond. I'm a novice so I don't have much to offer in the arena. I do lurk and see what people are up to. I've seen yours and you seemed nice. People have bad days and sometimes in this field where we like to help people, we have to put our shield up...not to shut people out but to protect our energy. It's just my two cents. IP: Logged |
cherful24
Knowflake Posts: 4078
From: chicago, il
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted April 19, 2015 09:57 PM
she did state she was going through things, twice on that thread. and after she did you should have left it alone but you came back at her saying that she sounded angry and you knew she was angry before u even posted. if somebody is going through something and told you that and you came back and was like oh I know you're angry,.......then you got to recognize your part in this... You kept going and going and going.And to be honest to give you some 3rd party perspective the conversation you two had, your second post about you going back to her reading and being hurt... I first took it as the same way she did in that you were stating something negative about her reading. through your other post you made it clear what you were trying to convey but that was already asked her you made the comment.it's just really interesting why you chose to go on and on when she even offered advice to you on who could possibly help give you a good honest reading.
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Originally posted by ILovePoems:
But I still want her to apologize at least. I didn't really know she was going through anything, but I'm still young an don't fully know how to control my emotions to anyone being upset or going through something. :/
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ILovePoems
Knowflake Posts: 409
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Registered: Feb 2015
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posted April 19, 2015 10:02 PM
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Originally posted by cherful24:
she did state she was going through things, twice on that thread. and after she did you should have left it alone but you came back at her saying that she sounded angry and you knew she was angry before u even posted. if somebody is going through something and told you that and you came back and was like oh I know you're angry,.......then you got to recognize your part in this... You kept going and going and going.And to be honest to give you some 3rd party perspective the conversation you two had, your second post about you going back to her reading and being hurt... I first took it as the same way she did in that you were stating something negative about her reading. through your other post you made it clear what you were trying to convey but that was already asked her you made the comment.it's just really interesting why you chose to go on and on when she even offered advice to you on who could possibly help give you a good honest reading.
Negative about her reading? I wasn't saying anything negative about her reading. I was telling her she was right. I was asking her about what she had said on her old post. I kept going on and on to make her realize that I didn't meant to sound negative. IP: Logged |
cherful24
Knowflake Posts: 4078
From: chicago, il
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted April 19, 2015 10:05 PM
yes I know that now but at first I don't think it was coming off that way. It wasn't until the next posting you made after she ask you about it, did it come off clear of the message that you were trying to convey.QUOTE]Originally posted by ILovePoems:
Negative about her reading? I wasn't saying anything negative about her reading. I was telling her she was right. I was asking her about what she had said on her old post. I kept going on and on to make her realize that I didn't meant to sound negative. [/QUOTE] IP: Logged |
ILovePoems
Knowflake Posts: 409
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Registered: Feb 2015
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posted April 19, 2015 10:06 PM
I didn't actually knew she was angry. I knew she was upset because on another thread.. It sounded like she was upset. See? I should leave. I might come back but anyway i feel embarrassed that this happened.IP: Logged |
cherful24
Knowflake Posts: 4078
From: chicago, il
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted April 19, 2015 10:10 PM
Okay...will you also said the word angry so that's where I'm getting it from. but don't leave there's no reason to leave. Isn't just a misunderstanding that's always going to happen in life and you might as well work through it now instead of later on and not be equipped to handle it
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Originally posted by ILovePoems:
I didn't actually knew she was angry. I knew she was upset because on another thread.. It sounded like she was upset. See? I should leave. I might come back but anyway i feel embarrassed that this happened.
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blindpainter
Knowflake Posts: 149
From: Washington USA
Registered: Apr 2013
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posted April 19, 2015 10:11 PM
awwww sads try not to let your feelings be too hurt it sucks when people suck.  sending you some loooove <3IP: Logged |
goddessofthemoon
Knowflake Posts: 635
From: Manhattan
Registered: Dec 2014
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posted April 19, 2015 10:21 PM
I don't think there is a reason for you to leave but I feel like no one is sticking up for intuitive and that is not fair at all.Imagine if someone out of no where started stalking old post of yours and then questioning your opinion on a situation that had absolutely nothing to do with you Especially when you said what she wrote (in 2014) hurt you.... she doesn't even know you and you were saying something she wrote hurt you, imagine if someone said that to you. how would you react? what would you think? that sounds crazy! I can see why she is upset and there is no reason for you to cry and look for pity. I feel like no one is taking intuitive's side and It's not fair. You should have just dropped it instead of making another post only to drag things on about how sad you are for what she said to you. Think about what you said. And try to understand what she is going through, plus how drained she gets from offering exchanges, and then having someone bring up irrelevant things IP: Logged |
BellaFenice
Knowflake Posts: 2778
From: Neptune with PisceanDream, Faith, and Meissieri
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted April 19, 2015 10:32 PM
Several people have supported intuitivefish and understand where is she coming from ???? Both Cherful and I have taken neutral stances, and honestly I'm not sure everyone in the this thread has read the incident OP is talking about. The point of this thread was to just let ILovePoems vent her frustration about the misunderstanding and hopefully have people convince her not to leave over said misunderstanding. Its not a gang-up on intuitivefish, a lot of people like her (including me), and again things happen. IDK, I don't want this to turn into a you vs me thing, both parties have a right to be upset. If intuitivefish had made a thread about this, I would have responded the exact same way. At this point, hashing out the details is harmful and takes away from the energy and purpose of the thread. IP: Logged |
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