posted April 24, 2015 09:39 PM            

(we havent talked since january because I told him to leave me alone as he got engaged, he complied- even acknowledge it from his recent message, BUT HE DOES IT ANYWAY...)

my questions:

1. Was the job offer genuine or was it an excuse?

2. Why did he tell me he saw my posts in social media... while I have blocked him everywhere a month ago? Did he make a new account to keep tabs on me, or use his gf's ?

3. I didn't reply after he said above, in fact I only responded to his job offer and nothing else. Do you see if he will try to contact me again or would he give up?

posted April 24, 2015 09:51 PM            

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Originally posted by peacefulclouds:
His reason for contact was because he was proposing a JOB offer to me. I turned it down because I am still recovering from illness, and will be unavailable until May.

(we havent talked since january because I told him to leave me alone as he got engaged, he complied- even acknowledge it from his recent message, BUT HE DOES IT ANYWAY...)

my questions:

1. Was the job offer genuine or was it an excuse?

2. Why did he tell me he saw my posts in social media... while I have blocked him everywhere a month ago? Did he make a new account to keep tabs on me, or use his gf's ?

3. I didn't reply after he said above, in fact I only responded to his job offer and nothing else. Do you see if he will try to contact me again or would he give up?

4. Why he still contacts me.. since he is getting engaged

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1. EXCUSE big time is what i got.

2. he made his own account to follow you.

3. and YES he's going to contact you by the end of this month so get ready and it won't be good is what I'm getting when he contacts you i see sadness with the YES.

posted April 24, 2015 09:55 PM            

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Originally posted by peacefulclouds:
leave me ur q, and would you mind answering #4?

sadness ? cn you give details or hints why? the sadness will come from him or from me?

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its saying the sadness will come from you.

posted April 24, 2015 10:17 PM            

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Originally posted by peacefulclouds:
Does he love his girlfriend then?

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he does love her and he wants a family with her. but in the past has doubted his feelings towards her and what to do with her.

posted April 24, 2015 10:39 PM            

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Originally posted by peacefulclouds:
your answer:

I feel he is hurt by something you did, I am not sure why- there was a potential but it dies off, one of you weren't being honest with each other and one is fed up, but the weird thing is I don't see much communication even before this. So maybe it was this weird interaction that he feels you were manipulating him?

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goooodddd =( your right we weren't communicating at all before all of this.

im upset because he is assuming that i have feelings for him and that i want something more which i don't cause i don't know him and want to get to know him at school only. he flirts with me all the time and i flirt back and occasionally i get to nervous to say hi to him or start a conversation with him so that's why he thinks I'm manipulating him which I'm not I'm just shy.

posted April 24, 2015 11:09 PM            

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Originally posted by peacefulclouds:
leave it for a bit, let things cool down.. but you have to make an effort next time to be AT LEAST friendly,& sincere. I think, you have to be more honest with yourself, even if you're shy. If you're sincere, he will be ok w u again im sure

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may i ask a sexual question? of his past? its very personal. and thank you for the advice i will follow it.

posted April 24, 2015 11:34 PM            

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Originally posted by peacefulclouds:
sure

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has he ever given an orgasm to another chick? i will delete this after you answer =)
and when was last time he had sex?

posted April 24, 2015 11:44 PM            

my first feeling was he did? well, not orgasm, probably never actually did, but at least he have had slept with someone at least once.. I don't think he has many experience at all in this, though doesn't mean he's bad at it, just not with many women at all.

posted April 25, 2015 12:25 AM            

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Originally posted by peacefulclouds:
hmmm

my first feeling was he did? well, not orgasm, probably never actually did, but at least he have had slept with someone at least once.. I don't think he has many experience at all in this, though doesn't mean he's bad at it, just not with many women at all.

months, but I can't see past timings... but it has been a while.

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