posted April 28, 2015 03:58 AM            

My question is Does W want to get back together?

posted April 28, 2015 04:03 AM            

what comes straight through to me, is that MC feels pretty good about you. Which is rare to see in my case lol. But it does feel like a new feelings, like a small surge, so dunno if you're friends for a while and he just realizing this or what.. however, there's some unstable energy on the near back just before you get together:

The magician - Ace of Cups - Emperor

Clarifier (for obstacle) - 2 of Swords

So all mostly positive but I see you guys start getting more 'connected' in about 2-3 months, feelings/interests are there though, and firm.

there's some obstacles - within 2 months, if he goes past it you guys will date but if not there may be a set back.../delay... I would say his past love but I don't sense it, just some mistiming that made him consider something.

if ure positive, it seems to go better than u thought it will

my questions

posted April 28, 2015 04:04 AM            

My gut feeling is yes, but he is still quite hurt and protective of himself. It has been hard for him without you, though he'd not likely admit it.

The reading suggests that in order to determine how he feels you must be vulnerable first. I don't think its about calling him and telling him you still love him or something. More like showing him yes the lake or water is scary dark and even cold, but look I am sticking my toes in so that when the sun comes out you are ready. If there is a way to be friendly and take it easy, that would be a good way to start. Take it slow and have no expectations and then you might have the new beginning you are looking for.

Hope this resonates.

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55. Denseness

Line 2:

The shutters are thick,
at the middle of the day it appears to be a starry night.
Going on achieves distrust and distress.
Having confidence in openness equals good fortune.

posted April 28, 2015 04:10 AM            

I am not using anything but intuition at the moment. I have only read bits and pieces of your posts. So don't know the whole story, but I would run far far far away from this guy.

He still loves you, obviously, but you are letting him have his cake and eat it to. You love him too, but its a lesson for you to learn to say no so you can say yes! He is not the one. There is some past life karma there.

posted April 28, 2015 04:14 AM            

quote:

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Originally posted by imeanj:
@Erickaf

Can you tell me more about the cross? So he likes me like I am totally his type?

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posted April 28, 2015 04:18 AM            

I am sorry. I think he has pushed you to far it seems. I think if he even truly understood the depth of how you felt he would understand not to carry on as he has. I guess that's what you want, but he won't understand it. It's as if he overlooks it. This can't work out because of that. It may continue on for awhile, but until he grows up nothing good may come of this.

This reference to the father is essentially him needing to act like a father, a good father, not just to you, but his future children. To be a better and caring person for all those involved not just him, you, or his girlfriend. And until he does that he's not right for anyone and in a way you should be grateful that you are not with him. I know it makes you sad and happy that you are talking, but this relationship is about pain and enduring nothing more. It can't be anything else. He isn't capable there is not enough time yet.

I am sorry. Hug.

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changing to
18 6
18. Corruption

Line 3:

Managing a father's minor corruption.
There is aversion.
Without much blame.

Dealing with deterioration caused by former neglect. This is not a big issue, but it does raise aversion. There is not much blame to this.
(The "father" refers to an ancestral spirit, in ancient Chinese ancestor worshipping.)

Line 4:

Tolerating a father's corruption.
Proceed by seeing the inadequacy.

There is negligence, and nothing is done to remedy the deterioration. Try to see what is wrong.
(The "father" refers to an ancestral spirit, in ancient Chinese ancestor worshipping.)

Line 5:

Managing a father's corruption.
This needs straigthening out.

Managing the deterioration by correcting things.
(The "father" refers to an ancestral spirit, in ancient Chinese ancestor worshipping.)

Hexagram is changing to:

6. Conflict

Conflict.
Trust has stopped.
Cautiousness while in the middle of this brings good fortune,
at the end misfortune.
It is beneficial to see a senior person.
A disadvantage for crossing the big river.

posted April 28, 2015 04:27 AM            

I still have (supposedly) long way to go, so I know i will be fine and he's already middle-aged.

We do have things related to our fathers (me and mine, him and his)

Unfortunately, I think I'm moving past that, and he doesn't. Funnily enough, I do consult my father about him which I never do in my past troubles.

posted April 28, 2015 04:33 AM            

Lots of nervousness, not like good butterflies, more like anxiety. That's just the hit I got. Bumbling, breaking out in a slight sweat. I think he can hide it, but almost awkward.

But the iching looks good, slow and steady wins the race! Seems like a friends first kind of deal. Hope this resonates.

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changing to
14 49
14. Noble Presence

Line 2:

A large wagon for transport.
There is a goal to move to.
Without fault.

Having the means for something, while there is a need for that. There is nothing wrong with putting it to use.

Line 5:

Bowing deeply to a trustworthy associate,
with dignity.
Good fortune.

Respecting a trustworthy person one associates with, with dignity. Things go well.

Line 6:

From heaven's help comes this good fortune.
Without disadvantage.

Being lucky to get what one needs. There is no disadvantage to this.

Hexagram is changing to:

49. Change

Change.
When the day is over, there will be confidence.
A foundation for progress.
It is beneficial to persist.
Aversion goes away.

There is a change. It takes some time to adjust, but then it'll be clear that things have changed for the better. Just hold on. Initial aversion to it will go away.