posted May 09, 2015 07:32 PM            

Am in shock - my boyfriend who is overseas asked me tonight not to message him, not to ask why and to please do as he asks. Wow! after two years this is how he ends it via text?

What is going on with him?

MT (him)
CG (me)

Am devastated - especially his lack of reasons...

posted May 09, 2015 07:51 PM            

Harsh, cold and I don't know what has prompted this,

posted May 09, 2015 07:57 PM            

I'd wait until he messages you again, he probably will at the end of the evening or in the morning.

posted May 10, 2015 01:51 AM            

Am so sad, he said he couldn't tell me right now. But later...when is later? I have no idea if this is temporary or forever.

posted May 10, 2015 02:42 AM            

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Originally posted by Debby4:
What if he's planning a surprise for you? Like a proposal? Could be a crisis or something? Oddly enough when I was reading this all i wanted to do was smile. Hmmm... I'll pull sone cards and get back to you.

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posted May 10, 2015 06:21 AM            

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Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
5/C + The Empress + The Hierophant

Is he from a traditional background? This reads as if he is in an obligation towards a female person, who may or may not be knocked up, because that's deal with Empress and it's killing him.

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He comes from a traditional background - his parents have lots of influence. He certainly sounded in his message not like himself with me at all! So cold. Perhaps we are both suffering.

posted May 10, 2015 07:19 AM            

He isn't well (5/C). I think something happened (the shattered cups) and he has to continue with the mess - whatever it is - he regrets the circumstances deeply.

posted May 10, 2015 08:46 AM            

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Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
I am inclined towards Empress as his mother.

He isn't well (5/C). I think something happened (the shattered cups) and he has to continue with the mess - whatever it is - he regrets the circumstances deeply.

So sorry, Sparkling!

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posted May 10, 2015 09:27 AM            

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Originally posted by erickaf:
SparklingSag:
Is there a possibility he has another love interest? I pulled a couple of cards for you but I don't want to stress you out even more than you are so I won't do a full on reading now, however the cards looked a bit suspicious to me that may point to another woman...

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HIs family want him to get married to a girl from his culture....I think there is pressure on him to choose someone from there.This could be the situation he is in right and it involves me which is why he isn't telling me what is going on.

posted May 10, 2015 09:32 AM            

10 of cups + 5 of swords c + ace of wands +5 of cups c + queen of wands + hierophant c

I believe he is very happy with you but he is in a position where he is just feeling very defeated and down right now. Something happened suddenly and it looks like a heated argument or confrontation. This left him feeling awful and he is very regretful about this, really. It seems he is now responsible towards a woman.

posted May 10, 2015 09:37 AM            

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Originally posted by SereneDaze:
I was doing pulling some cards for you and came here to post when I saw erickaf's reply. And yes, I had the same cards that pointed to him being involved with another woman..

10 of cups + 5 of swords c + ace of wands +5 of cups c + queen of wands + hierophant c

I believe he is very happy with you but he is in a position where he is just feeling very defeated and down right now. Something happened suddenly and it looks like a heated argument or confrontation. This left him feeling awful and he is very regretful about this, really. It seems he is now responsible towards a woman.

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Yes, am sure someone has been chosen for him. Two years wasn't enough for him to find the courage to tell them about me.

posted May 10, 2015 09:43 AM            

3 of pentacles + the world

posted May 10, 2015 09:47 AM            

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Originally posted by SereneDaze:
Sparkling, no one deserves to go through such a situation, and you deserve so much better. I pulled some advice cards for you.

3 of pentacles + the world

From the cards its talking about focus towards completing something. Is it possible that you fly to where he is? The cards seem to imply you go to where he is to complete this unfinished business.

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posted May 10, 2015 10:21 AM            

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Originally posted by erickaf:
I am sorry to hear this...good luck! You don't know what he is going through either. Best of luck to you.

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posted May 10, 2015 10:29 AM            

I asked what happened with him...
It feels something happened suddenly that requires him to take his time and think about it! Tower popped up!
There is some sort of dispute that took place in regards to that matter and unfortunately does have to do with another woman.
She's no stranger. He knows her already.
(Hanged Man, Five of Wands, Six of Cups, the High Priestess)

He will contact though soon to talk about it.
(Six of Pentacles, Ace of Swords)

posted May 10, 2015 10:55 AM            

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Originally posted by Venia:
I'm really sorry for what you're going through
It's so hard!
Especially when he's not giving you the reasons. Give him the time he needs - he will come around to explain what happened.
But if it's something that has to do with his culture/ marriage and parents involved - he will do what he's supposed to! Sorry but I was in a similar LDR n I ended it because I knew that it would possibly end up like this or me becoming someone I am not just to fit in his culture etc. He didn't even had the guts to let his family/ close friends know about me. Same with you!
Listen - you deserve better! He should at least be man enough to face you and talk to you!!! Just be a bit patient ♡

I asked what happened with him...
It feels something happened suddenly that requires him to take his time and think about it! Tower popped up!
There is some sort of dispute that took place in regards to that matter and unfortunately does have to do with another woman.
She's no stranger. He knows her already.
(Hanged Man, Five of Wands, Six of Cups, the High Priestess)

He will contact though soon to talk about it.
(Six of Pentacles, Ace of Swords)

Please hang in there!!!
Let me know if you need anything!

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Thanks Venia sounds about right..they would choose someone known to him and his family. I would hope he will talk to me about it soon,

posted May 10, 2015 11:49 AM            

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Originally posted by SparklingSag:
HIs family want him to get married to a girl from his culture....I think there is pressure on him to choose someone from there.This could be the situation he is in right and it involves me which is why he isn't telling me what is going on.

Sparkling

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Those cards that were drawn to me indicates he feels committed to another woman. I didn't draw those cards for you though, so I might be off/wrong, but that was my first impression when I saw those cards. I didn't want to reply until I saw this response from you. I hope get through this soon :[ and I hope I'm wrong..wishing you luck

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posted May 10, 2015 12:20 PM            

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Originally posted by EmpressMendez:
Those cards that were drawn to me indicates he feels committed to another woman. I didn't draw those cards for you though, so I might be off/wrong, but that was my first impression when I saw those cards. I didn't want to reply until I saw this response from you. I hope get through this soon :[ and I hope I'm wrong..wishing you luck

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Thanks, I hope its wrong too but I doubt it....I need to find a way through the pain. I feel like I have been stabbed in the heart (guess where the term heartache comes from!),