posted May 15, 2015 08:02 AM            

Why all of these bad situations happening to me? My mother again fell, but this time she got there at the garden for more than 4 hours, me and dad needed to go out to the doctors... and I went to work when my daddy called me and said she fell again... I stayed at home to help her, to make food and everything more... but last night she was crying and threw all her bad things in life to me, saying I'm a bad daughter, and that I stayed at home to help her because I wanted....

I can't stand this anymore... I do everything I can and she says this to me!!!

posted May 15, 2015 08:14 AM            

what can you do?
disappointment and self doubt rule your emotions right now. You are feeling misled. Your mum believes you're supposed to be doing more than you are capable off, and sometimes help more than what she needs- In this case, it would be good to take a step back and take no heed of what she says. She says things in the heat of the moment, and then makes so many false presumptions. The cards say to take a step back and hear her, but not listen to her negative words.

posted May 15, 2015 08:37 AM            

I asked how your mum feels,

6D 10D 7C AS 8H

6D and 10D are money/career cards, 7C is a card that show someone feeling trapped. Perhaps your mum feels confined in that she cannot go out and have a career of her own, as if she wants to be able take care of herself?(Alternatively she could be frustrated about money). AS tells me she is/will go under a transformation in her life and things will get better. But at the moment i feel she feels trapped.

I pulled some additional cards and got
2H KC 7H
Tells me she wants/needs to spend more happy time with people she loves. 2H can be a union of hearts with family/people you love. 7H is a card of doubts and can show feeling let down or dissapointed. But it is also a card that can suggest she needs look at how people see her. Maybe she will do that eventually(hence the transformation card). I think she wants things to be better between you all, but I think she will realise(or at least need to) that she needs to assess her own behaviour too.

I know you asked for advice on what to do, but I asked on her feelings to help understand her and why she's being like that. Once we understand someone I think it can be easier to work things out with them. It seems she feels frustrated and trapped, and although it is quite tough, i think things will get better.

Let me know what you think. Sorry about the essay . I could be wrong, but its how i've interpreted the cards. I appreciate feedback, good or bad.