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Topic: Something feels "off" / exchange
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intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 2032 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted May 17, 2015 10:28 AM
Hi.For 2 days now I had this feeling about "A" and that something is off, either with him and the girl he is seeing or as if something might happen soon. There is a feeling in the pit of my stomach but I cannot pin point to what it could be? Can anyone try and look into this for me? At first I thought I felt it was to do with them, like they broke up or something but I am not sure since its hard to be biast on this. But also feels like something is about to happen or just basically like there is this Off feeling surrounding him. ( not sure if it could be negative or positive) ( we did have a fight but this was about a week ago) thanks all IP: Logged |
SereneDaze Knowflake Posts: 452 From: Registered: Mar 2014
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posted May 17, 2015 10:29 AM
Hey, would you like to exchange?IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 2032 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted May 17, 2015 10:30 AM
quote: Originally posted by SereneDaze: Hey, would you like to exchange?
Yes I just dont use any cards, only intuition IP: Logged |
SereneDaze Knowflake Posts: 452 From: Registered: Mar 2014
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posted May 17, 2015 10:33 AM
Ok can you tell me how things will go with MG if I reconnect with him?Will be back with your reading later. IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 2032 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted May 17, 2015 10:41 AM
quote: Originally posted by SereneDaze: Ok can you tell me how things will go with MG if I reconnect with him?Will be back with your reading later.
First thing I got was "weary" so I am getting that the beginning of your attempt he will be a little weary, unsure what to do, unsure how to take it and what to say, I feel mixed feelings, some confusion like a lot of feelings would bubble up and he would not be ready for them. All this aside, I do feel when you do it, he would take a moment to take it all in. I dont feel instant action, more a slow response to you, caution is what I got. I do feel he wants to reconcile but there is this caution from both of your sides. I feel him being reciprocative but with cautuion so all this might not go fast but I feel a more steady aproach and give back from him also. So I am feeling best way to go would be to be slow and steady, no rush and just let him take his time. I feel that for both of you it will be good to first try a friendly aproach and take it slow, there is no need for a rush and I feel like you will have good chances to reconcile also to let to his own pace when you astablish a connection again. IP: Logged |
SereneDaze Knowflake Posts: 452 From: Registered: Mar 2014
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posted May 17, 2015 10:44 AM
What is going on with A four of pentacles + queen of swords + emperor + ten of wands cFrom the spread it doesn't look like they have broken up. But they had a rather bitter fight with harsh words exchanged. I don't think they will let go of each other so easily, but they are keeping a lot of old wounds to themselves, resulting in the tense situation they are in now. She is being really cautious with A, not trusting him and guarding herself. A is really adamant about having something his way which she is totally not in for. A is currently feeling burdened and heavy with this relationship with her. Did this resonate? IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 2032 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted May 17, 2015 10:51 AM
quote: Originally posted by SereneDaze: [b]What is going on with A four of pentacles + queen of swords + emperor + ten of wands cFrom the spread it doesn't look like they have broken up. But they had a rather bitter fight with harsh words exchanged. I don't think they will let go of each other so easily, but they are keeping a lot of old wounds to themselves, resulting in the tense situation they are in now. She is being really cautious with A, not trusting him and guarding herself. A is really adamant about having something his way which she is totally not in for. A is currently feeling burdened and heavy with this relationship with her. Did this resonate?[/B]
thank you yes it does resonate a lot ! I am trying to understand, why cant they let go easily? you can ask me more if you wish since I asked a follow up. it just hard to understand 2 people who fight all all all the time, but cant let go. I tried talking to him about this ( hence the fight he had with me) and he said its hard to explain but that he cant break it off. IP: Logged |
dustib Knowflake Posts: 492 From: USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted May 17, 2015 10:52 AM
I'll exchange if you'd like. Same question? Can you tell me if ML was out with someone else this weekend and if he has any feelings for me? Thanks! IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 2032 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted May 17, 2015 10:53 AM
quote: Originally posted by dustib: I'll exchange if you'd like. Same question? Can you tell me if ML was out with someone else this weekend and if he has any feelings for me? Thanks!
Sure, what ever you pick up on thank you. brb
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intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 2032 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted May 17, 2015 11:01 AM
quote: Originally posted by dustib: I'll exchange if you'd like. Same question? Can you tell me if ML was out with someone else this weekend and if he has any feelings for me? Thanks!
ML I feel in more frindly circle but not out looking for someone else, feels like yeah he might have talked to/flirted with a girl but it was more in good fun than with any intent. He does have feelings for you, more than friend feelings but I feel like he is not ready to give in fully to anyone now, feels more like he doesnt want to be tied to someone or have a "lable" with anyone. So I feel like he is keeping the feelings hidden in a sense, not showing what he feels or what he thinks. But I do get he thinks about you often and tries to wonder what you might feel for him but I still feel some backing off, not wanting to admit anything IP: Logged |
SereneDaze Knowflake Posts: 452 From: Registered: Mar 2014
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posted May 17, 2015 11:01 AM
quote: Originally posted by intuitivefish: thank you yes it does resonate a lot !I am trying to understand, why cant they let go easily? you can ask me more if you wish since I asked a follow up. it just hard to understand 2 people who fight all all all the time, but cant let go. I tried talking to him about this ( hence the fight he had with me) and he said its hard to explain but that he cant break it off.
Sure, I want to know what is up with P? I am trying so hard but he keeps pushing me away. When will this stubborness end.
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intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 2032 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted May 17, 2015 11:06 AM
quote: Originally posted by SereneDaze: Sure, I want to know what is up with P? I am trying so hard but he keeps pushing me away. When will this stubborness end.
Not so quick I must say, sorry :/ I get that he is being this way out of ego only, he is going against his heart and only going the way he wants to with no budging. I feel like all he wants is to have things his way. Well I also feel that the more you do try the more he will take it for granted and just use it as attention and when he gets enough he turns his back. He likes having you try hard and knows that the less he shows the more you will try. SO I feel like you trying hard is backfireing on you. He is taking you for granted and wont give in until he can see what he is losing. IN other words when he sees he will lose you/ the energy you give him he will stop being so stubborn. But this is more as an ego game for him, he is not playing fair. He is actually very needy of your attention and would miss it a lot if you stopped trying. IP: Logged |
SereneDaze Knowflake Posts: 452 From: Registered: Mar 2014
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posted May 17, 2015 11:11 AM
Based on the previous cards I pulled, I feel like both of them have some similar traits, like they have this strong desire to be with each other but in reality their relationship doesnt work so well. A has this irrational want to dominate her and control some of the choices she makes. But she realizes this and wont give in to him, causing both a lot of frustration.Why cant they let go of each other? temperance + eight of swords + queen of cups + four of wands c Even though they fight a lot, they do care about each other. I think there are some deep feelings here as well. Both of them certainly feel that chemistry with each other and it's what ties them together. They do want to work things out which is why they fight so much. It is currently a relationship that is unhealthy for both but they cant find their way out of this, choosing to ignore some blatant facts that are right in front of them. Although it is quite contrary to what they are doing, what they ultimately want is to be loving with each other and have that successful romance in the long term. IP: Logged |
dustib Knowflake Posts: 492 From: USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted May 17, 2015 11:13 AM
quote: Originally posted by intuitivefish: ML I feel in more frindly circle but not out looking for someone else, feels like yeah he might have talked to/flirted with a girl but it was more in good fun than with any intent.He does have feelings for you, more than friend feelings but I feel like he is not ready to give in fully to anyone now, feels more like he doesnt want to be tied to someone or have a "lable" with anyone. So I feel like he is keeping the feelings hidden in a sense, not showing what he feels or what he thinks. But I do get he thinks about you often and tries to wonder what you might feel for him but I still feel some backing off, not wanting to admit anything
Awesome thank you! Will he ever admit his feelings and want more? Or stop his back and forth that he keeps doing...we are on the back this time. LOL What is going on with A I got heart, key, letter, house and rider. I feel like right now A is trying to figure out what works for him regarding his heart. I see messages connected to love but I also see a new love....so if he hasn't broken up with his girlfriend yet, I see it on the horizon. Will he contact you? I got sun, anchor, mountain. I feel like he really wants to because he feels you are there for him whenever he's needed someone but there is something keeping him from doing it. I almost hear an I told you so thought coming from him when he tells you it didn't work out with her. The next card I pulled is the crossroads so right now he is in the process of making an important decision in his life. Hope this resonates
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sunnybunny Knowflake Posts: 681 From: tellico plains,usa Registered: Oct 2014
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posted May 17, 2015 11:16 AM
intuitive fish, my dad used to say "when you know your question, you know your answer" which is kind of like "if you even have to ask, the answer is usually bad" I think a better question to ask is if this guy is worth investing your time and emotion in to. this puts YOU in the driver's seat. for this I got wheel of fortune. so think this relationship is just way too risky for you to invest in. it might be fun for a while, but don't get your hopes up and don't invest too much emotion. make them prove themselves. I hope that helps you.
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intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 2032 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted May 17, 2015 11:17 AM
quote: Originally posted by SereneDaze: Based on the previous cards I pulled, I feel like both of them have some similar traits, like they have this strong desire to be with each other but in reality their relationship doesnt work so well. A has this irrational want to dominate her and control some of the choices she makes. But she realizes this and wont give in to him, causing both a lot of frustration.[b]Why cant they let go of each other? temperance + eight of swords + queen of cups + four of wands c Even though they fight a lot, they do care about each other. I think there are some deep feelings here as well. Both of them certainly feel that chemistry with each other and it's what ties them together. They do want to work things out which is why they fight so much. It is currently a relationship that is unhealthy for both but they cant find their way out of this, choosing to ignore some blatant facts that are right in front of them. Although it is quite contrary to what they are doing, what they ultimately want is to be loving with each other and have that successful romance in the long term. [/B]
I can understand this completley. But, and I am not saying this just because of my side in this, he has told many people, including me, his best friend, another friend and so many others, that there are no feelings there, yes he cares for her but not in that way, he told me this even. That its mostly her who loves him and him not wanting to hurt her. But I feel like its more or a "chemistry" thing, like, they got so used to eachother and its hard to break it off I guess. 1 more thing lol ( same if you wanna ask) What will happen with them? will they manage to stay together? so many readers keep telling me they will have one huge fight and break up. BUt I cant seem to belive it. IP: Logged |
SereneDaze Knowflake Posts: 452 From: Registered: Mar 2014
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posted May 17, 2015 11:20 AM
Gosh..your reading really got my situation with P. He keeps on playing these stupid games with me, making me think that he doesn't want me in his life. Now I know I should take a step back. Thanks for the reading! IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 2032 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted May 17, 2015 11:21 AM
quote: Originally posted by dustib: Awesome thank you! Will he ever admit his feelings and want more? Or stop his back and forth that he keeps doing...we are on the back this time. LOLWhat is going on with A I got heart, key, letter, house and rider. I feel like right now A is trying to figure out what works for him regarding his heart. I see messages connected to love but I also see a new love....so if he hasn't broken up with his girlfriend yet, I see it on the horizon. Will he contact you? I got sun, anchor, mountain. I feel like he really wants to because he feels you are there for him whenever he's needed someone but there is something keeping him from doing it. I almost hear an I told you so thought coming from him when he tells you it didn't work out with her. The next card I pulled is the crossroads so right now he is in the process of making an important decision in his life. Hope this resonates
thank you ! it does make a lot of sense. The I told you so part made me laugh, I would feel so inside but would not poke at him as in any break up its not nice and it hurts bad ( he is my ex so I should know) Him being at a crossroads also makes sense, because I was open with him also, told him how I feel so I can understand how its a lot to take in, and we fought and made up and fought and then I was open... so a lot of emotions there. thank you! IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 2032 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted May 17, 2015 11:22 AM
quote: Originally posted by sunnybunny: intuitive fish, my dad used to say "when you know your question, you know your answer" which is kind of like "if you even have to ask, the answer is usually bad" I think a better question to ask is if this guy is worth investing your time and emotion in to. this puts YOU in the driver's seat. for this I got wheel of fortune. so think this relationship is just way too risky for you to invest in. it might be fun for a while, but don't get your hopes up and don't invest too much emotion. make them prove themselves. I hope that helps you.
thank you honestly, right now I am not investing anything any more. I am doing exactly that. If he wants me he better come and prove himself, I gave too much now its his turn
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intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 2032 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted May 17, 2015 11:25 AM
dustib sorry I missed the part where you asked that.Yes it will stop, once you stop giving and giving he will want to get what you were giving and only then will he start going forward, so its only up to you to get him to start going forward and stop going back. you need to stop giving him your attention and pull back IP: Logged |
SereneDaze Knowflake Posts: 452 From: Registered: Mar 2014
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posted May 17, 2015 11:26 AM
quote: Originally posted by intuitivefish: I can understand this completley. But, and I am not saying this just because of my side in this, he has told many people, including me, his best friend, another friend and so many others, that there are no feelings there, yes he cares for her but not in that way, he told me this even.That its mostly her who loves him and him not wanting to hurt her. But I feel like its more or a "chemistry" thing, like, they got so used to eachother and its hard to break it off I guess. 1 more thing lol ( same if you wanna ask) What will happen with them? will they manage to stay together? so many readers keep telling me they will have one huge fight and break up. BUt I cant seem to belive it.
Hmm ok, the queen of cups here could represent her feelings. But if he's telling you this and to everyone else why is he still with her? I believe he is emotionally attached to her as well. Right, tell me my relationship potential with P? IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 2032 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted May 17, 2015 11:35 AM
quote: Originally posted by SereneDaze: Hmm ok, the queen of cups here could represent her feelings. But if he's telling you this and to everyone else why is he still with her? I believe he is emotionally attached to her as well.Right, tell me my relationship potential with P?
Lol sorry if it seems like I am arguing or something, I am not, just trying to make some sense of it. they way he said it was " I dont lover her, no, not in that way, I love everyone, but not her not in the "love of my life" way" but you know when you spend so much time with someone, you get used to their energy, its hard to just turn your back right? same goes with them I guess, yeah he cares but also he is the type of person to have difficulty breaking up and lets the other person do it, unless he has a fall back. He has no fall back now. So he knows she will be there and its easy. anyway, you and P - there is a potential to have a good bond with him, I feel like it could be a deep bond but first all these games will need to stop. I feel like he needs to see what he is missing to stop the games and get real. I feel there could/will be a talk between you two which would give you the clarity you need. And I feel the potential after this will be clear to you. I feel like you need a sort of clean start, honest, start. I am feeling you and him can have a very fun and happy relationship but that it needs one of those " I like you, you like me, lets try this" talks, nothing too deep but an admiting of feelings needs to happen for this nice start to begin.
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dustib Knowflake Posts: 492 From: USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted May 17, 2015 11:41 AM
quote: Originally posted by intuitivefish: dustib sorry I missed the part where you asked that.Yes it will stop, once you stop giving and giving he will want to get what you were giving and only then will he start going forward, so its only up to you to get him to start going forward and stop going back. you need to stop giving him your attention and pull back
That makes perfect sense and yes I have dropped everything for him when he contacts me and actually just told my best friend no more. So makes perfect sense! Thank you so much! You have hit the nail completely on the head. If there is ever anything I can do in the future to help you, let me know! IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 2032 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted May 17, 2015 11:42 AM
quote: Originally posted by dustib: That makes perfect sense and yes I have dropped everything for him when he contacts me and actually just told my best friend no more. So makes perfect sense! Thank you so much! You have hit the nail completely on the head. If there is ever anything I can do in the future to help you, let me know!
Glad I helped. if you wish to ask more go ahead. thank you also! I can let you know if something happens IP: Logged |
SereneDaze Knowflake Posts: 452 From: Registered: Mar 2014
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posted May 17, 2015 11:42 AM
Oh no...it didn't sound like a fight at all I think i just sounded that way? I'm taking a short break but I'll edit this post with your reading, so remember to check back. ***edit I think what you want to know is if they will break up, the cards are being blunt so I hope this answers your question What is going to happen with their relationship? Ten of wands + the hermit + hierophant + ten of swords c I just get the feeling that this relationship will last for a while and a breakup wont be happening for now. They will both go through more or less the same thing with each other, burdened and frustrated. There is a lot of effort being placed in this relationship. I think after this period both will take a step back and re-evaluate their position and think of what they want. I pulled the hierophant card, I think they will go through a deeper commitment with each other, which is why I think they will last for a while. The clarifier card does indicate a breakup and ending happening, where they will finally realize it wont work out. IP: Logged |